It was great advice, & I'm sure it would work with someone normal.
I'd never seen anything like that from her before. I guess the fact that I get along with him so well & can actually carry on a conversation with him (unlike the frat boy types she usually dates who can't) is too much for her to handle. I don't really know, & at this point I don't want to know what's in her warped mind. I'm thankful my mind doesn't work that way. The whole thing was definitely a shocker.
I had a vaguely similar situation with an ex friend and roommate. She started acting crazy after we moved in with her because she felt that my other female roommate (who I'm still friends with) were "leaving her out", and she got insanely jealous any time the two of us would even talk. She went fucking nuts, and started spreading rumors around school and work about both of us...some of the things she said were so fucking stupid. When we tried to confront her about these things (and the other shit she was pulling at home, like not cleaning ANYTHING) she just started crying and acting stupid, and refused to see anything from our perspective...we tried to explain to her that we weren't purposely ignoring her, we just had school and jobs and boyfriends and that it was just good timing that we even saw each other at all...but no, in her eyes we rejected her as a friend, so it substantiated her saying all that crazy shit and acting like we were monsters. She seriously tried to destroy our friendships not just with her but with other people, because she had to be right so badly that she would lie to mutual friends so they'd take her side...
It's been about a year now since the crazy bitch went so far as to threaten to sue me (yes, me personally, not anyone else) for fucking slander...lmfao It was laughable, and I even laughed at it then, but it was really frustrating all the same. Especially when I pointed out to her that she was the only one lying...well, apparently she's still trying to talk shit. She even told an ex boss of hers (for her internship) that the reason she moved out was not because of all of this drama, but because me and the other roommate had BOTH slept with her boyfriend...
The boyfriend she didn't HAVE at the time...
She told this to her BOSS...and she wonders why she didn't get hired after the internship?
It probably also pisses her off more because the other roommate? She -did- get hired with that company.
Apparently she also told the boss that she got gangbanged on the beach with like 5 guys and thought that'd help her chances of being hired. lol
The girl is psycho...we hadn't been friends 8 years, but it was about 3, and it still blindsided everyone.
She's the one who left her room looking like shit and I posted photos on my facebook of how nasty the room was when she left it. I got tired of everyone emailing me asking me why I was soooo heartless and cruel to this psychotic bitch over the things she'd been telling people I'd done to her...you know, the ones that never happened.
I stopped getting emails when I posted the photos. Funny that...
It's girls like her (and the one you mentioned) that makes it hard for me to have friendships with women. There are a few gems out there, and I've had a few great friendships with girls, but over all I've always gotten along better with guys. I've never had a guy pull that kind of shit, but I've had many, many chick friends who've done similar things over the stupidest shit.
