That's true but in my experience, it's mostly here in the US. Anywhere else I have been, white girls seemed not to care whether someone was black or not, that's why I think on first observation, IR is more common place in place like Belgium or France. So it's more about your ability to charm, make them, laugh, physical appearance etc. The thing is, whether her being black, asian, middle eastern or white, who really knows what's going on in the mind of a girl, what she wants, what kind of men she's attracted to etc?
I don't assume any woman goes for black men. Like I said, I go off of vibes by the way they interact with me and take it from there.
Well, actually, it has been my casual observation that most of those women who go for black men would usually let you know it either directly or indirectly. Not all of them do, and they don't always do it, but some subtlety, white girls will let you know when they like brothers or don't care about you being black. If you haven't been there already, I'll recommend Stockholm, Sweden
Tony, that's the craziest thing I ever heard. ***runs to the store to buy menthol cigarettes*** :smt036
Sengo are you from the UK or in the States? If you are from the former chances are you are going to get one whereas in the States it is tougher. I wished one can ask me out since she knows what she wants either the sex or the relationship. M,I had been to Stockholm and they are not there. A Swedish woman had to thaw in order to open up to a brother,unless you are livin large or famous.
How long did you stay in Stockholm? The first time I went in september 2000, I just stay 10 days so nothing much happened. But then I came back for summer 2001 and stayed 3 months(with a few weeks also spent in Brussels) and things were completely different. More time gave me more opportunities As far as the brothers needing to live large or be famous to get attention from Swedish girls, that's a little surprising because I think Sweden is the country in Europe that welcomes the most immigrants from Africa. , I saw a lot of Africans who were by no means famous or living large in very good company on the streets, in night clubs etc. I met several people from both Congo and they couldn't complain. A lot of Swedish girls even travel as far as The Gambia in West Africa and look for those hulking and very dark Gambians as mates. Some mary them and even bring them back home to Sweden have babies. I heard stories about Swedish girls also going to Tunisia etc. So you see, they go to places where brothers are rich. So I would still say that based on my experience, those of my friends and hearsay, Sweden is a much better market for IR than the United States. Maybe you should try smaller town like Gotenborg, Helsinborg or Malmo etc. I will try to visit Denmark, I've heard so many tales there. My big sister's best friend(a white guy) lives there, so I already have a wingman I can rely on.
Ive been trying to tell my dear friend Sould that its not accurate that Swedish women will not respond to a brother unless they are living large or famous. Im not sure what happend in his case. Bad luck? wrong places?? Another thing I do know is that you cant _usually_ just walk up to a Swedish woman and think you can start a conversation. Swedes are a bit reserved (but not at all cold) and will be suspicious and will most likely shut that person down. But again, as a Social Democratic liberal country, we dont think materialistic and go for "living large or famous" - that is not how you are brought up in a social democratic country. If you understand that spirit of that culture, then you know that - it is even frowned upon to be "living large" its against the Social Democratic thinking - its ugly - we even have a word for it "Jante law": If you stick out in any way, you will be put back into your place by your peers.
M,I spent most two or three days there which is not much. A brother who is famous or has concerts would have some Swedish women there either as groupies or attractive to them. In my travels I never expect those stereotypes since I had not met a Swedish woman in person who acted that way towards a brother. There was a scene in the B-flick Phat Beach where the two characters who are brothers met two Swedish female tourists. They took care of them well but briefly and yes one of them went to bed with one of them. In real life it is doubtful to see Swedish women who meets brothers as tourists or au pairs and be very nice to them. M,make sure your wing man hooks you up in Denmark.
2 or 3 days isn't enough, man. You need at least a full week or more so you can go to clubs and visit the popular places etc. Or if you want to be visually satisfied, just hang out in Stureplan and watch the gorgeous babes walking around. I knew a lot of people from Congo who lived there, so maybe that's why I had so much fun and it was easier to go to "strategic areas" When I was there, I took the Viking Line twice. It's a boat that goes on a 24h cruise from stockholm to Finland and comes back. It's a lot of fun and very, very wild...if you know what I mean. Some sort of "Get laid or die trying" with a lot of "Girls gone wild" from both countries on board. You shouldn't have a problem meeting or picking up girls once you're in the Viking Line because many of them just make the trip to meet guys who wants a 24h adventure http://www.vikingline.fi/index.asp?lang=en So you should try Sweden again and give yourself more time to operate and get noticed by the ladies. Most girls are pretty friendly and fluent in English, so there shouldn't be any problems. That scene in the movie you're talking about is probably the old cliche that paints Swedish girls as "Sex symbols" and "easy lay". But it's not the case. Oh yeah, my wingman in Danemark will take care of me I've heard that Danish women are even friendlier and warmer than the Swedes...
I go on the no fun Silja Line when I go to Finland. I tried to book a room there but,it is tough. One of these days I will go on that line. Don't forget to take some pix N.
True. Depending on which culture, values, etc, some girls enjoy a little courtship before "giving it up" And if you're coming from the US to Europe, three days is very little time if you consider jet lag etc
Exactly..if any man thinks he's that good for three days. Well than maybe said person was blessed with super-game
