Need 2 Know, How to Tell if white girl goes for black man

> But if I may, why do most girls, like you did at first, Jade,
> always wait for the guys to ask them out when they are
> interested in them?

Up until the dock guys told me he was asking about me, I didn't know he was single.

Little towns like this, most guys over 18 are married or at the very least, laid claim to by a baby momma. Not my style to step on someone else's toes. Lack of a wedding ring doesn't mean anything, he's a working cowboy, they almost never wear them because it snags on stuff. So, rather than having a pissed off wife/girlfriend show up at my work the next day and put a Jerry Springer on me, I let 'em make the first move. Now that I know he's up for grabs .....

 

Re: Need 2 Know, How to Tell if white girl goes for black ma

Let me tell you there is no possible way to figure this out.. You have to take a shot and see where u are when the dust settles end of story.

 

Waht kind of fun is that

I think that the non babyfat wearin white girls represent an untapped demographic for inter racial dating. I grew up in Cleveland Ohio in Morris Black projects and I did the whole hood thing (and suffered every bit of bad shit imaginable that comes with it). When I was really into the streets heavy I would notice that like every 6 months - a year we would get a new flock of white girls that came out to the projects 2 fuck with us and I would laugh because these girls seem too only pick up the worse part of our culture.(IE baby phat jeans, increase substance abuse and broken English) I had to be very observant in order 2 survive at times and I would tell my homeboys to watch and see the retrograde transformation that these girls would make and sure as shit I was always right. I do not mean 2 be critical but I kind of admire the fact that some of these women came from better family and social structures than me, and I have no problem with a woman maintaining her own identity yet being understanding to mine.
I ( for some reason unknown 2 me) have always had the ability to converse with others from different social backgrounds and I have been having a really good success rate with the upscale and middle class white girls.

 

what's amusing in this is that these girls' parents are probably seething with boiling anger and confusion, not knowing their little "white precious joys" would ever be dilly-dallying about the some of the worst projects (ones which not even many blacks would be allowed into)

back when i used to to ride mass transit, i used a see quite a number of these white girls obviously headed in the wrong direction, usually accompanied by two or three loud roughnecks wearing heavy jewlery and devilish scowls who looked like they just got out penitentary.

if this phenomonea isn't the karma brought about by white america's long past of lynching black men suspecting of messing around with white women, i don't know what else is.....

 

if this phenomonea isn't the karma brought about by white america's long past of lynching black men suspecting of messing around with white women, i don't know what else is.....[/quote]

I take more of a position of concern than anything. I am now a parent of a little girl and I have put that life behind me, as a matter of fact I went 2 my old projects for the first time in years for memorial day. It is these same story but different characters, and I must be honest with u, I do not even take my little girl over there because I do not want her anywhere around that shit because it lends itself 2 too much trouble.

As a 30 year old man with a 70 year old soul I would probably offer a caveat or two on little white girls allowing themselves to be seduced by that world .

 

How to tell if a white girl goes for a black man

I just joined this site today, so my opinion may not count. I am white and married to a white man, but we have an open marriage. I am attracted to black men. My husband and I were at a restaurant eating supper one night, and I saw a fine looking black man working at the Restaurant, that I was attracted to. He knew it too, cause my eyes did not leave him, unless he walked out of sight. I would catch him looking at me out of the corner of my eye, and this game kept up between us, until hubby and I left there. If my husband knew I was attracted to black men, instead of white men he would have a cow! If my husband had not been with me that night, I would have approached the black man. I have been back twice alone to that same restaurant and he has not been there. If I ever catch him there again, he is MINE! I live in South Carolina and grew up as a Southern Baptist.

 

Hi There. Welcome to the Site. Quite new myself to be honest.

Can you answer me how you can be married and have an open marriage? I just can't see that working to be honest with you - or am I a bit behind the door there? Are you saying that if you were in the restaraunt and the waiter was white it would have been a different scenario between you and your husband?!

 

How to meet white women and Black Men

Kinkygal, We have had an open marriage for 7 yrs. So far it has worked very well. I guess it depends on the married couple. No, if the man had been white, i would not have approached him either. I have to show some respect to my husband when he is with me. I just prefer blk men over white men, period. I hope this answers your question. Thanks for welcoming me to the site.

 

First of all,

Hi, wetnjuicy1954, welcome to the family

I have a question.....If your preference has always been Black men, then why did you marry a white man.

Just curious

 

Thanks for welcoming me.

nilan, I have not always been interested in black men. I have never been racist and I have always had black friends, but when I married my husband, I loved him, and still do. I always wondered what it would be like to be intimate with a black man, even back then. Since our open marriage I have found out what it is like to be intimate with a black man, and now I prefer being with a blk man over a wht. one. I hope this answers your question.

 

I think titeitecat has a point here. While in college I had white girls tell me the same thing. My sister and I went to the same liberal arts college and my sister who's black could not believe how often the white girls would talk about their attraction for black guys. Mind you this was a college in the deep south. You guys should take a trip to one of the Carribean Islands and see how the white women(Canadian, American, European) wrap themselves around the local black guys. Most white women in the USA would rather not deal with all the drama associated with dating a black guy in the USA, so they go the Carribean islands to satisfy that itch. I would be willing to hazard a guess that 60-70% of the female tourists who visit the carribean Islands are there to satisfy a fantasy.........Sad but true.

 

I've always suspected it, Astro. Yeah, titewitecat DOES make an excellent point, and the majority of the time, these are all the very same white women who are 'not attracted to black men' behaving THAT way you described around us.

 

I think a lot of white women do that to hide the fact that they are very attracted to black men, in fact so go overboard to hide it so that those around her don't pick up on it.

 

Re: How to tell if a white girl goes for a black man

Hi Wetnjuicy...
So, does what u said there mean that your hubby is for the open marriage as long as you are only attracted to other...white men?

And do you think your marriage has any chances of lasting since sooner or later he will learn of ur preference?

 

Very, very true...
Here in the South you see that a lot...
You also notice that most IR couples are extremely discrete...you don`t see them at all during the day, and then you go to the late movies and suddenly there are like 6 or 7 IR couples passing by...almost as if they had to hide!

 

I think there may be some ladies out there like me.....when I see a black man I always look 3 or 4(sometimes more) at him and make eye contact. And I always smile. If I really like them I will constantly turn my head around to look at them and I always make sure they have a clear view of me......this always seemed to work........it got me my bf!!!!! LOL

I don't stare at any other race. I mean I look but I prefer black men.
So yeah I think it's pretty obvious that way that I'm attracted to them. Around here, it is almost as if you have to emphasis your attraction to black men to maintain their attention. It also makes it easier for them to approach me....even though I am not scared to approach them.

So yeah...there's how to tell sometimes if you meet a girl who does that cus then u know shes attracted to you....

(LOL I sound creepy with all my staring LOl :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: )

 

Thanks, I'll keep this in mind. Hopefully it holds true for the ladies in Michigan...lol

 

Well, damn... you're certainly one in a million. I've had my face share of looks and smiles from white women (and still do) but overall, well, you're one in a million.

I hate to break it to ya, but that's pretty much EVERYWHERE.

Still one in a million.....

 

Thank you Sardonic....I hope I can help the awesome black men out there! I would love to see more IR couples.....so helping is good.... :wink: :mrgreen:

 

Good to know. :smt003