Need 2 Know, How to Tell if white girl goes for black man

I thought about this thread on Saturday. I had gone to see an afternoon play with one of my white male friends. After the play, we decided to go to the mall. He needed some new clothes and wanted me to help him. We were in a man's clothing store, and I was picking out things for him and saying 'this would look great on you.' I would think that an outsider would think that we might be a couple considering the fact that it's Saturday night at the mall, and I'm picking out clothes for him. The store manager was a black man, and he came by and asked him if he needed any help. He told him that he was just looking. Then, the manager came over to me and commented about how stylish I was dressed and wanted to know if I was his personal shopper. I laughed and told him no. He told me then that I could be because I had great taste. I told him thank you and continued to shop. As we were checking out, he asked if we were brother and sister. My friend and I laughed because we don't look like each other at all. My friend told him that we were just good friends. He came over and told the clerk that he would finish the order. He started talking to me and gave me his number as we were leaving.

I thought that was very bold of him. He was very smooth in his approach to find out if my friend and I were together. He didn't know if I was with a friend, boyfriend or husband, but he was willing to do what he had to do because he wanted to talk to me. The reason it made me think of this thread is because most guys wouldn't have even tried to approach me. They would have assumed that I didn't date black men because I was with a white man. Sometimes you just have to go for it if it is something that you want. Even if I didn't date black men, I wouldn't have been offended by what he did. It's flattering even if you aren't interested.

 

Is this what all white women want? I think that even some white women who have never been with a black man often fantasize about the sex and other things as well. The only white women who don't want black men are the ones who have racist family or friends or both but they would if there wasn't racism. The bottom line is that when a black man finds a white woman who is really into him, he should love her like the queen and treat her as such. :smt058

 

lippy will have to agree with gg that when black men assert themselves it is very sexy...i was just in las vegas...early morning interviews at a panera bread...i drive in...get out of my car...and walking through the parking lot this bm says...excuse me miss...i stop for just a minute to hear what he has to say...it was a very nice compliment...then i turned walk into the restaurant...he approaches me in line and gives me his card...he had no idea if i liked bm or not but he took a chance...i had dinner with him that night...i didn't fall in love but i was very flattered and enjoyed the evening

 

You don't need to know, just go for it!!!

 

I agree lippy. Confidence is so sexy. I just recently read this quote and thought how true it is.

Being a sex symbol has to do with an attitude, not looks. Most men think it's looks, most women know otherwise. ~Kathleen Turner

 

The first and easiest way to get an idea is eye contact. It's not hard to notice when a girl is gazing at you from the side. Use your senses and pay attention.

 

Wait wait, the girls on your end don't wear stickers on their foreheads saying 'I LOVE BLACK MEN'?? Now that's just crazy!

Honestly guys, just talk to women. If she isn't interested, she'll let you know. She might doing nicely by saying 'I have a boyfriend, my cell phone broke, I have six nipples, I'm washing my hair every day forever' etc. but she'll let you know.
And if a girl isn't attracted to you DON'T assume it's because of your race. When I've turned down white/black/asian guys it's not been because they were white/black/asian, it was because I just simply wasn't feeling them. Simples.

 

"I'm washing my hair every day forever' "



FromRussia, now that is funny. LMAO.


I kind of know what being GAY must be like; To be extremely attracted to someone(white ladies) and to know that they don't feel the same way about you. It kind of suck.

 

so true!!! I've realised that I do that completely unconciously.... dead give away, the problem is guys just aren't that detailed to pick up on it

 

Just a few of my thoughts I have always had mixed views on this issue because I have gotten mixed responses myself. My two younger brothers and to an extant my third younger brother all seem to attract goodlooking, sexy white girls even the ones who look like they belong on the soap opera's all of the time that we go out. My brothers claim it's simply confidence. That is pretty much true of every race of women with probably the exception of (Asian women and Indian women from India) Confidence helps with them but the tiny minority of them that openly date black men that are not rich are not even worth mentioning. You sound like me where you fear rejection especially in situations where you may have a chance of seeing the girl who rejected you again and again. I am a sensitive,intuitive type guy and I trust my intuitions. What I have determined about white women from my 39 years of experience is that they are mainly 4) types of ww and almost all white women recognize black men as being attractive, sexy or hot or all of the above. Type 1) The outright racist white woman/girl they are usually the type who will have a cold blank look on their faces when you look at them. TYPE 2) there's the type of subtly racist white woman where they do not find black guys attractive and they hate everything black those are the type that are usually white trash and mean thev'e been coached from birth to not mess with bm. type 3) you have your white girls who prefer white guys and follow the latest trends and subconciously classify most bm as being sterotypical thugs,athletes angry philosophical types who blame "whitey" these types will recognize that your cute and smile and grin in your face but still choose a white guy who is 3 x inferior to you because of social protocol and tv presenting us the way we they do(negative) these white girls can be won over but the trouble involved in pursuing them and overcoming their social programming isn't worth it to me. I'm kind of arrogant and I believe that I am worth a lot.Then there's the type 4) I PREFER WHERE THEY JUDGE YOU ON WHO YOUR MERITS ARE AS A MAN NOTHING ELSE!!! i WON'T MENTION WIGGERS HERE These type of white girls have to be gotten by you just being very sure and confident mildly nice andpolite and nothing more no flirting on your part. they have to be drawn into you and have to chase you by you charisma and talents. In a sensethese are the hardest types because they won't admit even to themselves that there racist while there constantly judging you based upon friends and tv's stuped programming. See a KKK daughter even can change once they meet you and find out that those stories are lies about us because they start off with a premise of hating bm and they admit it. It's those that think there not racist that are hardist to pull because there whole context in how they view as a man is effed up. when a person knows what they hate they can attack those reasons for hate and change when a person is vague on theri beliefs they are hard to change because they just knowthat society says you don't talk to blk guys unless there rich ball players or so handsome that just the sight of them knocks everyone for a loop or there so damn smart that their I.Q IS ABOUT 2-3 medians ahead of most people. It's tough and sad broh but you simply have to talk to whoever you are attracted to without holding a conciousness of their color in your mind at the time. That one thing will increase your odds of success with white girls almost as much as having high confidence. In other words expect them to like you act as if they will. I don't mean being an asshole or vain in a conceited stuck up way. just deep surenes in the way you look,talk move and drive.

 

The definitive guide and it works!

http://whitewomenblackmen.com/forum/showthread.php?t=14628

Pay attention to the first post ONLY, not the bullshit that follows, except for the posts that praise the first post. Got it? Let's gooooo

 

I'm having a hard time processing your post because you didn't use paragraphs. You probably should so people can focus on your points. Breaking it up into paragraphs will be helpful for that.

 

this is your first post, no introduction, no hello or even a "kiss my ass" - yep, you got us all figured out - for sure...

 

JC, you know good and well black men can't write except for rap lyrics.

 

:mrgreen:

 

That's one long ass first post.

 

Grammar is important! Capitalization is the difference between helping your Uncle Jack off a horse and helping your uncle jack off a horse.