I was aware of the cucks and those that come on here for their sexual fetish for white women or black men(I heard a pornstar once came on here, is that true?) But those who are not at least interested in IR with a white woman or black man... That's a new one, lol. I thought this was an interracial community site??? Not hating if anyone finds me being confused by that offensive, it's just odd to me in my opinion.
There are many people on here who don't exclusively or have not exclusively dated only BM or only WW. It's never an issue until someone wants to make it one, like what's being done here. I don't exclusively date BM. I'm not exclusively attracted to BM. I'm not the only one, but apparently one of the few who is not afraid to admit it.
I wasn't speaking about exclusively there are a few people here that give that vibe they don't date bm or ww exclusively. I was talking about not at all, or having at least a preference being as though this is an interracial site dedicated to interracial between black men and white women. That's the confusing part, like what if you're in a relationship with someone other than a BM/WW? Do you still come here? Does your partner know you are on interracial site? Are they uncomfortable with that? Do you still talk about and celebrate Interracial on this site even though you have no more interest in being in a IR relationship? It confuses me, lol. I have a preference towards white women, meaning I'am open to beautiful women of other races, but just more attracted white women, have been for over 30 years. Not afraid to admit that. In fact I find it the other way around in society where people are afraid to admit that they do have a preference towards BM/WW. Most of the time because society now judges those that are in interracial relationships exclusively or just have a preference. Three young white ladies I work with talk about that with me and another guy and how they get Judged online if they use the hashtag #TeamInterracial they encounter people calling them racist, coalburners and so on.
Society is a bit different than this forum. I haven't been in any type of relationship for several years, so it doesn't apply to me at the moment. However, I have known people on the site who have left the site when they started dating a person not applicable to this forum. If that ever happens to me, I will likely do the same.
My opinion on the topic: I think it's mostly a publicity stunt. When Colin was ranked as a great QB, he was being talked about a lot. Then last year happened, he sucked, and people stopped talking about him. I think he could have brought awareness in a more constructive manner. But everyone does things in a way they see fit. He's certainly taken the heat off of Ryan Lochte's troubles. Lol.
Don't exclusively date white women either. I honestly think that going exclusively after one race you can shirt change yourself on something great. Also a lot of times people make concessions to get the race they have in mind. I have seen dudes turn down a black woman for multiple fathers of her kids but then take a white or Hispanic woman with the same situation. Not saying that is always the case but I have seen it a lot among other double standards.
My current isnt white and I still come on here. Dated we exclusively for 20 years still down with the struggle lol. Funny I see that shit too but to be fair they believe those women are less likely to come at them sideways which in my experience is true
Everyone keeps saying he could have gone at this better and I'm curious what was the better way? Fake his feelings to make others feel more comfortable?
Then that would be your experience. Maybe if they "came at you sideways" it's the way you approached them. All women are the same in my experience. Maybe if you approach them in the same manner you approach white women and they won't be sideways
Yeah regardless how he went about it we are seeing REAL protest now with other players and Nate Boyer(A former Green Beret) is working with him on these issues along with the support of other Veterans he is getting support in major areas to get something done about police brutality. He has put Government officials, Politicians, and even the presidential candidates in a position to have to do more than say something.
I've always been direct about you. I have no problem expressing my thoughts, feelings, opinions on here or anywhere else. You are the one who does the passive aggressive thing. Anything you are picking up "for weeks" has not been about you. Interesting that you think it is.
When I joined this website I was married to a black woman. She was well aware I was on this site since week one. She wasn't uncomfortable at all, she looked at as a form of socializing as any other forum I participated in.
Not really. Again may just be my region but white women here are in constant high demand they don't have that weird air of acting like every guy is their last chance. They seem to walk around knowing there is always someone of high quality wanting to date them. Whether they are right or not that's the vibe I get. I honestly don't see any other women at a disadvantage because here its way more about income and class and not so much race. As long as she's cute has a good head on her shoulders and is educated dudes will scoop her up. Or maybe the standards are different, a lot of ww here will forgo the alpha male for a good dude if he's stable.
I would give more detail but she has a high profile job and I don't trust the dummies on here. Mofos don't know how to act. Which goes to show you can have a preference but the right person will bypass all that shit.