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Just closed on a house in Chestnut Hill, PA! Its way too big for me but awesome!
My house is going on the market on wednesday. This shit is getting real!!!! I was lucky that i bought my house at the very bottom ( not really luck, i did survey the market closely for 3 years before i decided to buy and its paying off so i can buy this awesome house in Philadelphia). Party at my house for locals when i move in:- ) looking at Bliss and others here:-).
It has a wine cooler and icemaker in the basement. I will buy a ping-pong table and a dartboard for the basement. Partyyyyyy! Lol. I need someone to change all the rinkydink cheap flip switches to the modern plates. Any takers?:-)

Funny I looked in that area and Cherry Hill not too long ago. Great area, great schools you're gonna like it there.
 
Its an awesome area indeed! Love it there.move here or come visit!

The moving part is a possibility just gotta see where I am at the end of the quarter. It's so weird when you come from a really high rent area and go to other places that are suppose to be expensive you always feel like you're getting a deal. I think taxes are like 3k a year in that area nearly fell out of my seat when I saw that. Clean, nice, and not too far from a major city sounds too good to be true.
 
The moving part is a possibility just gotta see where I am at the end of the quarter. It's so weird when you come from a really high rent area and go to other places that are suppose to be expensive you always feel like you're getting a deal. I think taxes are like 3k a year in that area nearly fell out of my seat when I saw that. Clean, nice, and not too far from a major city sounds too good to be true.

You have to pay city taxes in Chestnut Hill. But as you said, i get way, way more for my buck here compared to LA. Do not forget, no Sales taxes. In LA its almost 9% !!!! So... Win!
Also, im buing a new house so a 10 year tax abatement is a huge plus
 
You have to pay city taxes in Chestnut Hill. But as you said, i get way, way more for my buck here compared to LA. Do not forget, no Sales taxes. In LA its almost 9% !!!! So... Win!
Also, im buing a new house so a 10 year tax abatement is a huge plus


Best wishes in the new city.
 
You have to pay city taxes in Chestnut Hill. But as you said, i get way, way more for my buck here compared to LA. Do not forget, no Sales taxes. In LA its almost 9% !!!! So... Win!
Also, im buing a new house so a 10 year tax abatement is a huge plus

That's really cool wasn't aware of the no sales tax. One thing that attracts me to the area is its a good state for people who carry. A little concerned about the dating area though but I'm sure its not that big of a deal in a major city.
 
http://www.newyorker.com/news/news-desk/fighting-environmental-racism-in-north-carolina

On an autumn afternoon in 1972, the people of Rogers-Eubanks, a historically black community just outside Chapel Hill, North Carolina, gathered beneath a tree to witness the end of a dispute. They were led by David Caldwell, Sr., one of Chapel Hill’s first black police officers, in whose back yard they stood. Before them was a delegation of local politicians, including Howard Lee, Chapel Hill’s first black mayor. For the previous five months, the community had been at odds with the county, the city, and the state university over the placement of a new landfill on Eubanks Road. Now Lee made a proposal. In exchange for agreeing to the construction of the landfill, Rogers-Eubanks would receive some of the municipal services that it lacked—sidewalks, water and sewer connections, a community center. After the landfill reached capacity, it would be turned into a recreation area. Caldwell and his neighbors relented. They looked on as an agreement was signed. Chapel Hill purchased eighty acres of land and began development.

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Finally, in 2012, soon after the E.P.A. announced that it would investigate part of Campbell’s claim, Orange County yielded, pledging to build a community center in Rogers-Eubanks. The following year, county officials decided to extend water and sewer services. The community center was finished in 2014, and engineering studies are under way for laying down sewer and water lines sometime this year. Local, state, and federal officials are finally moving to keep the promises that were made forty-three years ago. Community leaders are pleased with the progress but not yet content. “I don’t feel anybody should fight as long as we’ve been fighting to get something that’s God-given,” Caldwell told me. “It’s not a temporary thing. You fight until the end. You fight until you can’t fight anymore. And that’s my goal, to fight until it’s done.”

http://www.rawstory.com/2016/01/rac...ama-where-do-we-go-from-here/comments/#disqus

Patrick Ashton: I would respectfully disagree with the basic premise of this article. What we see on the news today is not evidence that race relations have declined, but rather that they have taken another big step forward. Keep in mind that minorities have faced discrimination in this country for a very long time. That the killing of black people by the police has become newsworthy means people are less tolerant of such behavior, not more.

The reactionary racism we see from the right are the last gasps of a dying breed. As the older generations raised before the civil rights movement fade, those who still harbor racists sentiments must become more vocal to hold on to what little privilege they have left. People who thought Obama's election would complete end racism fail to understand the depth and breath that racism once enjoyed in this country.
 
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Does anyone subscribe to Birchbox or Ipsy? I love the idea but I'm not sure if one is better or what you guys think of either? At $10/mo I'll probably end up trying both but I figured I'd see what you guys that may have tried them thought!
 
Does anyone subscribe to Birchbox or Ipsy? I love the idea but I'm not sure if one is better or what you guys think of either? At $10/mo I'll probably end up trying both but I figured I'd see what you guys that may have tried them thought!

My sister loved Ipsy, she only ordered it twice though, with the currency rate and the shipping, it was nearly $30/month. Not money she had to spend.

It was packaged nicely though! Came in a pink bubble envelope, very girly :smt007
 
So back on that saddle and dating a new woman. I'm really optimistic and want to show it. Her bday is coming up soon and I've only know her a month. I wanted to get her a first edition of her favorite book from childhood. It's a little over a 100 bucks. Is that too much too soon?
 
So back on that saddle and dating a new woman. I'm really optimistic and want to show it. Her bday is coming up soon and I've only know her a month. I wanted to get her a first edition of her favorite book from childhood. It's a little over a 100 bucks. Is that too much too soon?

First, let me say I absolutely love the idea so kudos to you for that. Do you get the sense that she shares the same optimism as you do? My only hesitation is that this sets a precedent for gift giving. Can she afford to reciprocate, because she may feel that she should.
 
My sister loved Ipsy, she only ordered it twice though, with the currency rate and the shipping, it was nearly $30/month. Not money she had to spend.

It was packaged nicely though! Came in a pink bubble envelope, very girly :smt007

It looks so cool and a few friends get the shipment ea month so I figured I'd give it a shot! A subscribed to both! I love trying new things and this seems like a cheap way to try new brands and products!!

So back on that saddle and dating a new woman. I'm really optimistic and want to show it. Her bday is coming up soon and I've only know her a month. I wanted to get her a first edition of her favorite book from childhood. It's a little over a 100 bucks. Is that too much too soon?

Beautiful idea :heart: My guy got me the most beautiful bracelet for our first vday together (like a month in) and he told me a little later that he'd never gotten a girl a gift like that so quick into a relationship but it just felt right and he wanted me to have it. If you're feeling it in your heart, it's not too soon. I totally get Ches's point about expectations but only time will tell if she's that kind of woman or if she's the type who'll appreciate and love anything, just because it's from you. I think you need to go with your gut. Hopefully she's an amazing chick who'll appreciate the thought behind your gift, not just the monetary value associated with it.

Oh btw...I wanna see a pic :D:freehug:
 
First, let me say I absolutely love the idea so kudos to you for that. Do you get the sense that she shares the same optimism as you do? My only hesitation is that this sets a precedent for gift giving. Can she afford to reciprocate, because she may feel that she should.

I get the feeling she's optimistic. She tells me she likes me a lot and we usually spend no less than an hour when we talk on the phone or skype. Funny that you say it sets a precedent because I was thinking am I going to have to always follow this with a bigger gift lol. At this point I know we like each other right now and want to celebrate that, who knows what tomorrow will bring.
I'm not a big gift person so she wouldn't really have to reciprocate, just stay present and continue you to be the person I like.
Truthfully I like that I get to feel excited. Pretty much thought that part of my life was over.
 
So back on that saddle and dating a new woman. I'm really optimistic and want to show it. Her bday is coming up soon and I've only know her a month. I wanted to get her a first edition of her favorite book from childhood. It's a little over a 100 bucks. Is that too much too soon?

I think you should do it.....very thoughtful gift!!

I wouldn't worry about too much too soon. People need to stop worrying about such silly things. If you want to give her the gift....give it to her. It sounds like you are inspired to give it to her...so do so!!

I don't agree with Ches at all - gift giving is not about reciprocation and someone shouldn't limit themselves based on such things.

My guess is that the gift you have chosen is much more about the thought and that it would be very special to her and not about the price of it.
 
I get the feeling she's optimistic. She tells me she likes me a lot and we usually spend no less than an hour when we talk on the phone or skype. Funny that you say it sets a precedent because I was thinking am I going to have to always follow this with a bigger gift lol. At this point I know we like each other right now and want to celebrate that, who knows what tomorrow will bring.
I'm not a big gift person so she wouldn't really have to reciprocate, just stay present and continue you to be the person I like.
Truthfully I like that I get to feel excited. Pretty much thought that part of my life was over.


Don't get all bogged down in the idea of precedents! It's not about keeping track and keeping score...and if the other person is that way that will tell you a LOT!
 
It looks so cool and a few friends get the shipment ea month so I figured I'd give it a shot! A subscribed to both! I love trying new things and this seems like a cheap way to try new brands and products!!



Beautiful idea :heart: My guy got me the most beautiful bracelet for our first vday together (like a month in) and he told me a little later that he'd never gotten a girl a gift like that so quick into a relationship but it just felt right and he wanted me to have it. If you're feeling it in your heart, it's not too soon. I totally get Ches's point about expectations but only time will tell if she's that kind of woman or if she's the type who'll appreciate and love anything, just because it's from you. I think you need to go with your gut. Hopefully she's an amazing chick who'll appreciate the thought behind your gift, not just the monetary value associated with it.

Oh btw...I wanna see a pic :D:freehug:

Well she's a little outside of my usual type but she's really pretty, but what drew me to her most of all was her energy. Positive energy and a light hearted disposition makes you the hottest girl in the room to me
 
Don't get all bogged down in the idea of precedents! It's not about keeping track and keeping score...and if the other person is that way that will tell you a LOT!

Good point. I don't get that from her at all. Her vibe is so mellow but then again this is brand new lol
 
So back on that saddle and dating a new woman. I'm really optimistic and want to show it. Her bday is coming up soon and I've only know her a month. I wanted to get her a first edition of her favorite book from childhood. It's a little over a 100 bucks. Is that too much too soon?

That's a pretty awesome gift but spending that much on her so soon may make her think that you're moving too fast. Men and women have their differences definitely but if a woman bought me a $100 gift after only knowing each other for a month that would make me pretty uncomfortable.

But I live in Georgia so that hundred bucks probably goes a bit farther down here lol.
 
That's a pretty awesome gift but spending that much on her so soon may make her think that you're moving too fast. Men and women have their differences definitely but if a woman bought me a $100 gift after only knowing each other for a month that would make me pretty uncomfortable.

But I live in Georgia so that hundred bucks probably goes a bit farther down here lol.

I think it would be different if it was a different gift that was more about the amount/monetary value. She may not even know how much this cost. I think it's clearly about that it's something that is special to her and would mean a lot and not about the dollar amount.
 
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