Plus it devaluates the moment you leave the lot. No car is a good investment
OK rant on:
My sister boyfriend has now lived with me for 2 months while he is waiting for his Swedish visa. He is american and are marrying in with her if/when he get the visa. He has no job and lives with me for free. In have given him a list of tasks to do in return for free room, water, electricity and internet. So far only one has been done, he fixed my door jamb that was cracked to my garage. Tookm4 nights without a door to my garage. No other tasks completed. I asked him to change 10 outdated outlets, so far, not completed. Trmming off entrance to kitchen between tile and hardwood floors, not completed. Weatherstrip to my entrance, not completed. He started paining his bathroom 6 weeks ago. Only sanded and base painted it, nothing more.
He only comes out of his room to get food and make a complete mess in the kitchen. Leavesm dirty, and clean dishes in the sink for days and weeks withoutnremiving them. Dont clean countertops or anything else after done and cut things directly on my granite countertops. Leaves his laundry in for days and when I cook and give him food, he has not once said 'thank you'. Not once. When I tell him to use a cutting board or clean the kitchen after use, he responds with 'uhum'. He is fucking 42 years old! He had an interview for a job a week ago, missed it with an hour and insinuated it was my fault as I didn't drive him - I have a fucking job, not my responsibility to get him to his fucking interview. Doesn't shower everyday.
Yesterday, I had a few friends over for pizza and drinks and he helped himself to the food and wine without asking and then went to bed.
I'm so fucking irritated!!!!!!!!!! Argh!!!
If I was living for free in a strangers house, I would go out of my way to fund ways to contribute and keep things clean, but maybe that is just me. I love my sister, she is just as messy as him so that is fine, they get along well. But geeeezzuuuzzzz, he doesn't know me and shows zero respect for my home and what I do for him/my sister. Rant over
What a loser...I don't know how you've kept from kicking his ass or throwing his disrespectful ass out. I'm sorry you're going through this, FG. :smt056
If it was me, he'd already be gone, especially if I'd already made it clear what the house rules were and what was expected in exchange for allowing him to stay there. I know you said your sister is messy too, but is she aware of the extent of his loser behavior? If not, I'd tell her. The dude obviously has zero respect and no doubt that lack of respect carries over into other areas. I know you're trying to help your sister out, but it's not worth letting the guy take advantage of you or disrupting your life/home. You are an amazingly patient woman...if you haven't already, you should put your foot down or put it in his ass. Good luck; I hope things get back on track soon.
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