Bitch did I say that black people only resided in the hood? Why the fuck are you even responding to me anyway? I said everything I had to say the other day. I'm done with posting back and forth with your bitch ass. I'm trying to see you in the street nigga. So don't say shit to me now!! When you ready to be a man and see with street just like me know and we can handle that.
If you don't know the hood black men and women then you don't know most of the AA community.
Shut the fuck up bitch.
I agree with your response, jaisee. This is the concept of Goodlove's argument in stating that there are a lot of BM here that bash BW and have self hate for themselves. A lot of people on here have been accused of not liking BW and/or their mothers by him and others. I'm trying not to make a post that he could use against me to say that I have hatred towards BW because I prefer WW.
By the way, Goodlove, Trey is the only one on here who has clearly bashed and degraded black women. Not anyone else, although several other users did co-sign him on what he said, earlier in this thread. So perhaps your argument about BM on here having self-hate for themselves actually does have some truth to it. I disagree with you about the severity of the issue, you think it's a lot of BM on here that have the issue, I think it's only a few that have it.
The self-hate thing affects me personally, Tamstrong. At first, that's what my mom thought, that the attraction to white women represents self-hate for your skin. I don't think this is something that should be overlooked or ignored. I was just looking for information about it on here.
I don't have self-hate for myself, because I really do love the fact that I'm a BM. I wouldn't change my skin like Michael Jackson or other people would. The thing is, it's my family I'm talking to, not random people, and I don't want to appear rebellious against my family members. I still like and prefer WW, although I can't ignore my family's POV about it.
Howdy folks, I'm a black male who pretty much loves all races of women so I'm not sure if this question is pertinent to the members of this forum but I was simply curious...
I understand that many black men prefer to be with white women and that is perfectly cool but I was just thinking.... My sociology professor recently told me that there are more black women in college than black men (at my specific school there are almost twice as many bw as bm) and they tend to have much higher GPA's, are much more likely to finish their education, to be more independent, wealthy and educated, yet they find it very difficult to find/attract black men. I've run into a lot of black men who complain that there aren't enough successful/sophisticated black women around but if you look at virtually ANY college campus, university campus, or p.h.D program in the country you would realize that that is basically hog shit. They are literally crawling out of bookstores, libraries and campuses, so my two questions are as follows:
(1) Do black men sometimes try to cover up their aversion for women of their own race because they are embarrassed/shy to admit they prefer white women or other light-skinned women?
(2) Are black men willing to settle down with a gorgeous bw who is educated and well-off without having to deal with the societal hastle of coping with and IR relationship. Or are they more willing to settle down with a gorgeous ww who is educated and well-off, while having to deal with a litany of racial insults and abuse from white male counterparts?
I'm posting this because I'm interested in what people have to say, and because I need to come up with creative answers for my final exam
Goodlove, I have created a thread recently titled "Male Feminity", and yet, the people that replied have disagreed with what that website was saying. They believe that women like guys who are masculine, not feminine.
I know that, but the impossible thing is how to decipher, out of every interracial coupling, what the relationship is based on.
