Maintaining Blackness

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by Mrmike757, Aug 11, 2017.

  1. Beasty

    Beasty Well-Known Member

    Are you your mans best friend? If so there is your answer. If not, why does it matter?
     
  2. Mrmike757

    Mrmike757 Well-Known Member

    This! I have a female cousin who lives down the street from me exactly like how you mentioned. She's so picky, because she in her 30s with a good career, yet she turns down guys left and right because she's not settling. However she won't do the work necessary to get what she wants. We hang out but I think sometimes she expects me to kick it with her a lot because she doesn't have a man.
     
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  3. K

    K Well-Known Member

    What's really sad is those in their 40's and even 50's still going for the "bad boys".

    On the other hand the whole, being picky thing can be a tough one. It depends on what they are being picky about and why. I do get sick of hearing the whole thing about how people are such a great catch and aren't going to "settle" and how they DESERVE this or that.
     
  4. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Preach sis
     
  5. Beasty

    Beasty Well-Known Member

    I would ask them why. What makes them "a great catch." Because they believe? Lmao
     
  6. Beasty

    Beasty Well-Known Member

    Lol @ Blair Underwood soul brother blackness.

    Hey man you should at least go to church on easter. Lmao j/k

    I haven't been to church since I was a teen. Welcome back.
     
  7. Madeleine

    Madeleine Well-Known Member

    She’s got to be careful because women go from great catch to too old in a matter of a few years. It’s not fair but what do you do. So she shouldn’t waste her best chance.
     
  8. Madeleine

    Madeleine Well-Known Member

    No, he is my trophy. Trophy husband.
     
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  9. Madeleine

    Madeleine Well-Known Member

     
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  10. Madeleine

    Madeleine Well-Known Member

    Yeah for real you all should be going to church. You are deceiving the ww who think lemme catch a bm for more spiritual depth and then she gets all atheism like godless white people. Lol.
     
  11. DudeNY12

    DudeNY12 Well-Known Member

    \
    If they pursue me hoping for a spiritual/religious man... They'll probably be disappointed:)
     
  12. Madeleine

    Madeleine Well-Known Member

    Joking.
    If they didn’t meet you in church they can’t reasonably be making assumptions.
     
  13. Beasty

    Beasty Well-Known Member

    Lol the flip side.

    I would actually be willing to go occasionally for the right woman. I do believe there is or was a grand architect that created the universe through scientific laws. I just don't believe he breaks those laws, nor do I believe in or follow religion.

    If she can accept that we're good.

    Btw people can be spiritually deep without being religious.
     
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  14. K

    K Well-Known Member

    I'm always amazed with the church goers looking elsewhere for mates. I have a friend who just met one from an online dating site. I said - if she's so into going to church and has that as a requirement, why isn't she meeting them at church?
     
  15. Madeleine

    Madeleine Well-Known Member

    Yes!
     
  16. Madeleine

    Madeleine Well-Known Member

    Absolutely.
    Except if it’s a Christian online dating site.
     
  17. K

    K Well-Known Member

    Yep...and it wasn't.

    Oh and in this case, it was a ww.
     
  18. DudeNY12

    DudeNY12 Well-Known Member

    Which dating site did I meet you on?:)
     
  19. Madeleine

    Madeleine Well-Known Member

    You two are a match made in heaven. I keep wondering what you are waiting for;-)
     
  20. K

    K Well-Known Member

    We live on opposite sides of the country.
     

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