Maintaining Blackness

Are you your mans best friend? If so there is your answer. If not, why does it matter?

 

This! I have a female cousin who lives down the street from me exactly like how you mentioned. She's so picky, because she in her 30s with a good career, yet she turns down guys left and right because she's not settling. However she won't do the work necessary to get what she wants. We hang out but I think sometimes she expects me to kick it with her a lot because she doesn't have a man.

 

What's really sad is those in their 40's and even 50's still going for the "bad boys".

On the other hand the whole, being picky thing can be a tough one. It depends on what they are being picky about and why. I do get sick of hearing the whole thing about how people are such a great catch and aren't going to "settle" and how they DESERVE this or that.

 

Preach sis

 

I would ask them why. What makes them "a great catch." Because they believe? Lmao

 

Lol @ Blair Underwood soul brother blackness.

Hey man you should at least go to church on easter. Lmao j/k

I haven't been to church since I was a teen. Welcome back.

 

She’s got to be careful because women go from great catch to too old in a matter of a few years. It’s not fair but what do you do. So she shouldn’t waste her best chance.

 

No, he is my trophy. Trophy husband.

 

Yeah for real you all should be going to church. You are deceiving the ww who think lemme catch a bm for more spiritual depth and then she gets all atheism like godless white people. Lol.

 

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If they pursue me hoping for a spiritual/religious man... They'll probably be disappointed

 

Joking.
If they didn’t meet you in church they can’t reasonably be making assumptions.

 

Lol the flip side.

I would actually be willing to go occasionally for the right woman. I do believe there is or was a grand architect that created the universe through scientific laws. I just don't believe he breaks those laws, nor do I believe in or follow religion.

If she can accept that we're good.

Btw people can be spiritually deep without being religious.

 

I'm always amazed with the church goers looking elsewhere for mates. I have a friend who just met one from an online dating site. I said - if she's so into going to church and has that as a requirement, why isn't she meeting them at church?

 

Yes!

 

Absolutely.
Except if it’s a Christian online dating site.

 

Yep...and it wasn't.

Oh and in this case, it was a ww.

 

Which dating site did I meet you on?

 

You two are a match made in heaven. I keep wondering what you are waiting for;-)

 

We live on opposite sides of the country.