Family Rejection

RestlessRita said:
Thank God my family is loving and welcoming to all, no matter what the color of one's skin is. There are several IR couples in my family. All that is expected from someone I am involved with is that he is respectful, loves me, and I am happy sharing my life with him. THAT IS ALL!!
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Good for you, that puts you in a better position than a lot of other people.
 
I'm glad I have good parents. They don't care who I date as long as they aren't some sociopath or something. My oldest sister is married to a Bulgarian man. My family and his get along great and spend holidays together. I don't really bring home women to meet my parents since those relationships aren't too serious.My parents are welcoming to anyone I do bring home.
 
Athena said:
My ex's mother called me the white devil and hated me because of my colour. Meh, her loss.
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Chalk her up as a bad apple...There are other many black mother-in-laws who would bear-hug you with affection,… particularly those of west Indian decent.....The problem is they think they know what best for their baby....but today's baby has a stubbornly modified appetite.......
 
Archman said:
Chalk her up as a bad apple...There are other many black mother-in-laws who would bear-hug you with affection,… particularly those of west Indian decent.....The problem is they think they know what best for their baby....but today's baby has a stubbornly modified appetite.......
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Give some examples to me Archman. :smt024
 
Mikey said:
Ignore those other comments, you're not a troll. We can't be close-minded about what the reality is here.

I haven't even been in one (a relationship) and at times my mother would get upset at me when the topic of me being attracted to other races of women comes up. I just tell her, if I really wanted a BW (and the best of them), we should not have come to America and have stayed in the Carribbean Islands (my parents home country) instead, where the population is nearly 100% Black/Caribbean/West Indian.

I don't have aversion for any particular race/person, nor do I like one race of women exclusively. It just doesn't make sense (to me) for skin complexion to be the #1 factor in forming relationships and it supersedes things that are more important in a person like values, morals, educational standing, health condition, finances, etc. Try telling something like this to your family members. Maybe they'll understand a little clearer.
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What part of the Caribbean are your parents from Mikey ;)
 
Tamstrong said:
No one said you weren't "allowed" here. I was just asking why come here if that's what your interracial interest is all about.

TBH, I find the whole cuckold/hotwife/IR fetish thing offensive and disgusting, especially when that's what some people reduce interracial relationships to. That mentality takes something very beautiful and special to myself and many others and turns it into something ugly and trashy, which is something I don't appreciate.

If that's what the whole interracial thing is about to you and/or that's what you're here for, then IMO you're in the wrong place. There are sites that cater to that crap.
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I know this is a old post but I agree 100 per cent .. That cuckold interacial crap is disgusting
 
Tasha said:
What part of the Caribbean are your parents from Mikey ;)
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It was the West Indies region.

I also re-read some of these older posts I've made here. I found it kind of interesting that my posts sounded that provoking and/or childish, with that kind of dialect and style, and I didn't even realize that's what other people saw within it that I wasn't seeing.

Anyhow to relate to the thread, she used to hold up that kind of prejudice, but I don't think my mom would mind that much at all now. I plan on finally starting up and investing time to interact with white women/others over the summer, mainly on sites where I know (genuinely) that I could meet the women online then in person. Shouldn't be too long before I experience some companionship for the first time.

Then I can relay my experiences here since I've never had any.
 
My mother gets along with both my ex-wife and my last girlfriend. That stuff no longer bothers her.
 
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