30+ and i've never had a girlfriend--

goodlove said:
women when u diss...be kind...its tuff just approaching
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Don't you see? It is supposed to be a game. A challenge. If they, or the game was easy, women would lose respect for men. So, a man has to play the game if they want to win. The woman has the power in this area and she wants the man to show his power.
 
Gorath said:
Don't you see? It is supposed to be a game. A challenge. If they, or the game was easy, women would lose respect for men. So, a man has to play the game if they want to win. The woman has the power in this area and she wants the man to show his power.
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I'm a grown-up I don't think I should be playing any games. It's a waste of time
 
Beasty said:
I get what you are saying but you have formed an hypothesis. Testing is required in order to develop a relevant theory. In other words if you get out and date you will obtain enough knowledge and experience to reject your own hypothesis that "women usually have poor social skills". Before you can refer to anything as a science you must acknowledge the quantitative aspects. Its ok to respect your intuition, but to confuse it with social science is a blunder.
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I'm not saying that I haven't had many conversations with them, or went out to dinner, or gone dancing with them. I'm just saying I've never been in a steady relationship with one and I'm becoming increasingly opposed to the idea, if I'm totally honest.
 
goodlove said:
my view:

guys get OVERLY butthurt when they get dissed approaching a woman. guys need to figure out a proper approach for each situation (nite club versus grocery store for example)
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Guys do get butt-hurt. But that's not really the problem. The problem is guys pretending that they don't get hurt or have feelings.
 
DJ_1985 said:
I'm not saying that I haven't had many conversations with them, or went out to dinner, or gone dancing with them. I'm just saying I've never been in a steady relationship with one and I'm becoming increasingly opposed to the idea, if I'm totally honest.
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WHY? What do you see yourself doing if it is to never be in a steady relationship?
 
The Dark King said:
Life experience woman, A LOT of women think it's enough to just get ready and look pretty. I'm rarely asked any good questions nor are they really that funny. When we laugh its usually us laughing at something I said. I pay close to attention to this boo. It may not be how you are but you'd really surprised at how many women use their pussy and looks as a way to cruise through life rarely ever developing a personality.
#reallifetruestory
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Christopher Hitchens received a lot of criticism from women when he talked about why women aren't funny. You're right a lot of women just depend on their looks. Of course American women that I've encountered have pretty much been a mess dating wise. The best relationships I've had usually were foreign women.The American culture is a mess when it comes to women.
 
jxsilicon9 said:
Christopher Hitchens received a lot of criticism from women when he talked about why women aren't funny. You're right a lot of women just depend on their looks. Of course American women that I've encountered have pretty much been a mess dating wise. The best relationships I've had usually were foreign women.The American culture is a mess when it comes to women.
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why is it always an american woman's fault when a man can't find a date and if a woman is trying to find a great guy then she must be doing something wrong as well:p
 
Bookworm616 said:
It's called making excuses for their own failings in the dating world.
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Bingo lol. Some of these dudes are downright comical in the ways they try to rationalize why it's not them that's the problem ;) If you have to go outside of a country as huge as America to find a suitable mate, it might be time to do a little internal audit. IJS :p
 
lippy said:
why is it always an american woman's fault when a man can't find a date and if a woman is trying to find a great guy then she must be doing something wrong as well:p
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Bookworm616 said:
It's called making excuses for their own failings in the dating world.
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RaiderLL said:
Bingo lol. Some of these dudes are downright comical in the ways they try to rationalize why it's not them that's the problem ;) If you have to go outside of a country as huge as America to find a suitable mate, it might be time to do a little internal audit. IJS :p
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You guys sound really pompous and dismissive
 
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