30+ and i've never had a girlfriend--
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The Dark King
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The same reason you and other women endlessly complain about men. Hope that you'll find different.
APPIAH
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Bingo lol. Some of these dudes are downright comical in the ways they try to rationalize why it's not them that's the problemIf you have to go outside of a country as huge as America to find a suitable mate, it might be time to do a little internal audit. IJS
So you saying the fine Aussie women who cant find men in Kangarooland and yearn for American men have issues?
RaiderLL
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So you saying the fine Aussie women who cant find men in Kangarooland and yearn for American men have issues?
Lmao at kangarooland
I doubt those "fine Aussie women" can't find men, it may just be that Australia isn't as racially diverse as somewhere like America and they're attracted to men that aren't too common in their area (never been to Australia so I'm really just guessing).
The point is that I don't see any of these Aussie beauties complaining that there are no good men in their country. And for men to blanket American women as lazy, attitude of entitlement, etc...is a bit pathetic. I think many times we attract what we put out there, so self reflection can only work to help one understand why they attract the types of mates they do.
APPIAH
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Lmao at kangarooland
I doubt those "fine Aussie women" can't find men, it may just be that Australia isn't as racially diverse as somewhere like America and they're attracted to men that aren't too common in their area (never been to Australia so I'm really just guessing).
The point is that I don't see any of these Aussie beauties complaining that there are no good men in their country. And for men to blanket American women as lazy, attitude of entitlement, etc...is a bit pathetic. I think many times we attract what we put out there, so self reflection can only work to help one understand why they attract the types of mates they do.
A couple have implied that trust me. I think its wrong to blanket American women but to say men who can't find women in a big place like America must do some internal auditing might be generalizing it a bit don't you think?
A couple have implied that trust me. I think its wrong to blanket American women but to say men who can't find women in a big place like America must do some internal auditing might be generalizing it a bit don't you think?
Perhaps, but true nonetheless. America is so diverse, that if one feels they have no choice but to go outside it to find a suitable woman/man, indicates, as Raider said, the problem is within the individual.
RaiderLL
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A couple have implied that trust me. I think its wrong to blanket American women but to say men who can't find women in a big place in America must do some internal auditing might be generalizing it a bit don't you think?
I don't think it's generalizing, I'm not saying American men as a whole need to re-evaluate their processes...just those who think there isn't a suitable/quality mate for them in a land of hundreds of millions of people
Self reflection isn't a bad thing btw, it's actually something I do often so I didn't intend it as an insult. In a country this big, it's incredibly easy to meet decent people so I guess I just don't understand what all the complaining is about. We all have to deal with less-than-stellar dates every so often but if those are the majority for you...an internal audit might not be a bad thing. :smt102
APPIAH
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I don't think it's generalizing, I'm not saying American men as a whole need to re-evaluate their processes...just those who think there isn't a suitable/quality mate for them in a land of hundreds of millions of people
Self reflection isn't a bad thing btw, it's actually something I do often so I didn't intend it as an insult. In a country this big, it's incredibly easy to meet decent people so I guess I just don't understand what all the complaining is about. We all have to deal with less-than-stellar dates every so often but if those are the majority for you...an internal audit might not be a bad thing. :smt102
Ok ladies, i got it
The Dark King
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I don't think it's generalizing, I'm not saying American men as a whole need to re-evaluate their processes...just those who think there isn't a suitable/quality mate for them in a land of hundreds of millions of people
Self reflection isn't a bad thing btw, it's actually something I do often so I didn't intend it as an insult. In a country this big, it's incredibly easy to meet decent people so I guess I just don't understand what all the complaining is about. We all have to deal with less-than-stellar dates every so often but if those are the majority for you...an internal audit might not be a bad thing. :smt102
Easy to say harder to live.
Oh please. Despite all the undesirable men I've met, I've never once considered having to leave my COUNTRY to find a suitable man. Maybe my town or state.
If you can't find a suitable person here (and you're not looking for characteristics that are un-American), the problem is with you.
The Dark King
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Just like people have told me to leave NY if I can't what I'm looking for?
You're hilarious
NY isn't the sum total of America.
We have some very sweet Amish girls just a couple hours away here in PA.
. They will be unlike any of the women you've ever met. I guarantee it. :smt036
Beasty
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NY isn't the sum total of America.
We have some very sweet Amish girls just a couple hours away here in PA.
I had an Amish lover before. Said she lived in Ohio, we had some good times in Florida. :smt077 :smt025
Esther, from Amish Mafia, dated a young BM that used to work for my company. He was adorable. But abusive, unfortunately.
Beasty
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I never seen the lady I was involved with actually dress the way they often do. Wonder what it would have looked like on her.
Beasty
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Lol! You ain't right. :smt081
Very different. The clothes are very somber and basic, held together with sewn seams, buttons, snaps and straight pins. No zippers. And they wear their hair severely pulled back, in a bun and wear no makeup.
Amish Mafia pic:
POF profile pIc:
MixedCalifornian
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Bingo lol. Some of these dudes are downright comical in the ways they try to rationalize why it's not them that's the problem
Allow me to throw in my 2 cents, and dish out my own brand of slander to the table.
I"m having an easier time finding beautiful intelligent women who have similar values to mine in Europe then America. If a women believes in god I will never call her a suitable mate, If she is not a socialist I cant call her a suitable mate. If she does not care about politics or history then she is not a suitable mate. If a women thinks that a man needs a car then she is not a suitable mate. If a women is looking for some happily ever after definitely not a suitable mate.
I"ll screw around with an unsuitable mate, but thats it. My criteria excludes a lot of women, but thats my opinion. If your definition of suitable mate is just a a person of the opposite sex good for you.
That being said theres plenty of Americans I would consider suitable mates, and Im actually surprised TDK is complaining about New York. New York is a great place to look for women be they foreign or domestic. Im a west coaster, but I really plan on relocating to NYC after school. Also my commitment to get by on life without a car is a lot easier, and socially acceptable in New York.
Allow me to throw in my 2 cents, and dish out my own brand of slander to the table.
I"m having an easier time finding beautiful intelligent women who have similar values to mine in Europe then America. If a women believes in god I will never call her a suitable mate, If she is not a socialist I cant call her a suitable mate. If she does not care about politics or history then she is not a suitable mate. If a women thinks that a man needs a car then she is not a suitable mate. If a women is looking for some happily ever after definitely not a suitable mate.
I"ll screw around with an unsuitable mate, but thats it. My criteria excludes a lot of women, but thats my opinion. If your definition of suitable mate is just a a person of the opposite sex good for you.
That being said theres plenty of Americans I would consider suitable mates, and Im actually surprised TDK is complaining about New York. New York is a great place to look for women be they foreign or domestic. Im a west coaster, but I really plan on relocating to NYC after school. Also my commitment to get by on life without a car is a lot easier, and socially acceptable in New York.
you can get away with not owning a car in almost any major city:smt102 your suitable mate list is a riot...go get em!