Is being possessive in a black mans 'nature'?

Alinoa said:
What the fuck was that?

Decades ago when I was growing up, young Black people cut their teeth on love songs.* Brothers weren’t “too proud to beg” us to stay, and they’d even camp out on our door step just to keep us “from walking away.

She's basing her concept of love on '80s love songs? Well no wonder she's unhappy. I pretty much figured out life isn't like the shit you see and here in American media. When I was like 6 and watched Mary poppins. Art imitates life it isn't it.

I don't know this girl but I'm pretty sure there's a medication for all of that.
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Lmao real talk
 
And I've never came across women like that personally. Even those who identify themselves as pro-black won't take such extremes.

Tony Soprano said:
Notice how she demonizes BM/WW relationships but at the same time says that she enjoys watching Billy Bob Thornton & Halle Berry cherish one another in "Monster’s Ball". It's that kind of blatant double-standard that makes those of her ilk lose any and all credibility.
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You kind of have to take a look at yourself and the choices you've made when you are lonely enough to make a blog like that. Seriously, what kind of loser has the time to write a blog to detail every time a BM and WW are together? I think that is why ugly people (Ugly personalities and so on) complain about not being able to find a partner. But, I suppose if you have that much time to pick apart what everyone else is doing, you have made little to know time for yourself. Thus, she is a deranged train wreck.
 
FG said:
Not only that, Mike has not even actually SEEN the movies and yet he just blindly believes what someone who clearly have an agenda towards ww.
Talk about a complete lack of critical thinking.
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FG, how many movies out of all of the ones there should I see to make a judgement? I already saw AlmostThere's youtube clip of The Brothers. He was fair in saying that the person on the site didn't mention that the BM was angry with the WW after she hurt the BW, so we could make the claim that the owner of the site is exxagerating what she's written compared what really happened in some of the movies. I reiterate to you again, this is a problem because of the norms of our country. Also, conflict like this isn't limited to just relationships either. We can see it in the workforce, where some Americans complain about not liking their job, in the K-12 school systems, where kids are complaining about getting bullied badly by other kids and with video game usage as well, because Playstation and X-box games involving shooting and warfare are most popular with teenagers. We even have shows like Jerry Springer on the air only showing American men and women fighting with each other. I find it likely that other industrialized and non-industrialized countries in the world don't have that or something similar to that. Our political system is another example, but I won't go in depth about that because I've made my point clear.

luvattractivewomen said:
You kind of have to take a look at yourself and the choices you've made when you are lonely enough to make a blog like that. Seriously, what kind of loser has the time to write a blog to detail every time a BM and WW are together? I think that is why ugly people (Ugly personalities and so on) complain about not being able to find a partner. But, I suppose if you have that much time to pick apart what everyone else is doing, you have made little to know time for yourself. Thus, she is a deranged train wreck.
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You make a good point. I'm amazed that she spent several years (perhaps) to watch various movies and analyze them for some sort of racial overtone. They could have been on Word documents for years. Then in April, she finished up, decided to publish the site, and make it "open" so people see her content. All she had to do was copy and paste the content over. I talk about these things so intensively because I know any day now, I could end up meeting a non-black woman (most likely) who likes me for me personally (not because of my skin complexion) and things like these are what we'll have to confront in this anarchic society. I visit and read stuff from HappierAbroad (another forum) and they cite this as one of their reasons of why relationships in America (regardless of what type it is) just can't prosper.

Edit: Here is the research. It's a whole another can of worms, but important for us to read.
http://www.happierabroad.com/Research.htm
 
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I will say, scanning the 150 mostly negative subtitles of your Leading Experts and Studies Confirm the Claims of Happier Abroad link, I naturally liked this one v v v...and thus is the only one I read. :)

In America, Single Men Far Outnumber Single Women

There are actually thousands more single young men than women in America. Between the ages of 25 and 39, for every 1 unmarried woman there are 1.2 unmarried men. Even when you look only between the ages of 35 and 39, there are still thousands more unmarried men. I can hear women immediately yelling that all of the good ones are taken, but the truth is that its single men who should be anxious and complaining. Men get lonely too, though we rarely see that addressed on TV or in the movies. (Generation Me, 113-114)
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:D
 
Bliss said:
I will say, scanning the 150 mostly negative subtitles of your Leading Experts and Studies Confirm the Claims of Happier Abroad link, I naturally liked this one v v v...and thus is the only one I read. :)


:D
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Being married doesnt equate happiness
 
For all black men I met I could have probably have had sex with another man in front of them and they wouldn't have said anything. Very disappointing LOL
 
Bliss said:
I will say, scanning the 150 mostly negative subtitles of your Leading Experts and Studies Confirm the Claims of Happier Abroad link, I naturally liked this one v v v...and thus is the only one I read. :)

:D
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Well, it's not all that bad. It's not like all American women are problematic and society is that badly horrible for us. I think if I'd get into a interracial relationship with a non-BW, I would need a female with a lot of confidence, intelligence (not necessarily school-related) resiliency, inner emotional strength and pride within herself. That way we'll be able to handle the adversity and anger that we'll face and prevent the relationship from failing in a country drenched with a lot of hate and anger. So, I'm not in a rush to get into a relationship with a female even though Ra criticized me for not being in one at all while being on this site. I know what things are like out there. It's going to be rough.

I'd find that ideal girl either at my school, through an online network or after-college.
 
Mikey said:
So, I'm not in a rush to get into a relationship with a female even though Ra criticized me for not being in one at all while being on this site.
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So that's what you think I "criticized" you for? I think you'd better go back and re-read exactly what I "criticized" you for then. And if you still don't get it, then there will be your answer.
 
Eye of Ra said:
So that's what you think I "criticized" you for? I think you'd better go back and re-read exactly what I "criticized" you for then. And if you still don't get it, then there will be your answer.
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Ra, it's within my culture to respond the way I respond. You and others that got upset at me before just don't fundamentally get it. I'm not really African-American, I'm Carribbean-American because the heritage of my parents are from the West Indies, aka the Carribbean islands. Just deal with the way I've been born and raised by my family.
 
Mikey said:
Ra, it's within my culture to respond the way I respond. You and others that got upset at me before just don't fundamentally get it. I'm not really African-American, I'm Carribbean-American because the heritage of my parents are from the West Indies, aka the Carribbean islands. Just deal with the way I've been born and raised by my family.
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So it's within your culture to dismiss other peoples' opinions and experiences because you see no "intellectual merit" to their opinions? Is that what you're telling me??:confused:
 
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