Is being possessive in a black mans 'nature'?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by Alexis89, May 7, 2012.

  1. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Lmao real talk
     
  2. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

    And I've never came across women like that personally. Even those who identify themselves as pro-black won't take such extremes.

     
  3. luvattractivewomen

    luvattractivewomen New Member

    You kind of have to take a look at yourself and the choices you've made when you are lonely enough to make a blog like that. Seriously, what kind of loser has the time to write a blog to detail every time a BM and WW are together? I think that is why ugly people (Ugly personalities and so on) complain about not being able to find a partner. But, I suppose if you have that much time to pick apart what everyone else is doing, you have made little to know time for yourself. Thus, she is a deranged train wreck.
     
  4. Mikey

    Mikey Well-Known Member

    FG, how many movies out of all of the ones there should I see to make a judgement? I already saw AlmostThere's youtube clip of The Brothers. He was fair in saying that the person on the site didn't mention that the BM was angry with the WW after she hurt the BW, so we could make the claim that the owner of the site is exxagerating what she's written compared what really happened in some of the movies. I reiterate to you again, this is a problem because of the norms of our country. Also, conflict like this isn't limited to just relationships either. We can see it in the workforce, where some Americans complain about not liking their job, in the K-12 school systems, where kids are complaining about getting bullied badly by other kids and with video game usage as well, because Playstation and X-box games involving shooting and warfare are most popular with teenagers. We even have shows like Jerry Springer on the air only showing American men and women fighting with each other. I find it likely that other industrialized and non-industrialized countries in the world don't have that or something similar to that. Our political system is another example, but I won't go in depth about that because I've made my point clear.

    You make a good point. I'm amazed that she spent several years (perhaps) to watch various movies and analyze them for some sort of racial overtone. They could have been on Word documents for years. Then in April, she finished up, decided to publish the site, and make it "open" so people see her content. All she had to do was copy and paste the content over. I talk about these things so intensively because I know any day now, I could end up meeting a non-black woman (most likely) who likes me for me personally (not because of my skin complexion) and things like these are what we'll have to confront in this anarchic society. I visit and read stuff from HappierAbroad (another forum) and they cite this as one of their reasons of why relationships in America (regardless of what type it is) just can't prosper.

    Edit: Here is the research. It's a whole another can of worms, but important for us to read.
    http://www.happierabroad.com/Research.htm
     
    Last edited: May 19, 2012
  5. Bliss

    Bliss Well-Known Member

    ^ ^ ^ ^

    I will say, scanning the 150 mostly negative subtitles of your Leading Experts and Studies Confirm the Claims of Happier Abroad link, I naturally liked this one v v v...and thus is the only one I read. :)

    :D
     
  6. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Being married doesnt equate happiness
     
  7. Ches

    Ches Well-Known Member

    Being single doesn't either.
     
  8. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Who said that? I'm not single so I wouldn't know boo
     
  9. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    Your not married or engaged so yes, you are in fact considered "single" -:p


















    (running away, ducking:))
     
  10. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    So does that mean I can see other people? Try telling that to my girl lol
     
  11. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    Single, but taken.


    :)
     
  12. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    How can I be single and taken?:confused:

    You women are soooooo confusing lol
     
  13. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    It has nothing to do w women. That is the sensus definition. Gee, relax on the "you women" Im pretty sure the sensus was made by a man:p
     
  14. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Bazinga. Good one lol
     
  15. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    sometimes, sometimes:)
     
  16. Arwen

    Arwen New Member

    For all black men I met I could have probably have had sex with another man in front of them and they wouldn't have said anything. Very disappointing LOL
     
  17. Mikey

    Mikey Well-Known Member

    Well, it's not all that bad. It's not like all American women are problematic and society is that badly horrible for us. I think if I'd get into a interracial relationship with a non-BW, I would need a female with a lot of confidence, intelligence (not necessarily school-related) resiliency, inner emotional strength and pride within herself. That way we'll be able to handle the adversity and anger that we'll face and prevent the relationship from failing in a country drenched with a lot of hate and anger. So, I'm not in a rush to get into a relationship with a female even though Ra criticized me for not being in one at all while being on this site. I know what things are like out there. It's going to be rough.

    I'd find that ideal girl either at my school, through an online network or after-college.
     
  18. Ra

    Ra Well-Known Member


    So that's what you think I "criticized" you for? I think you'd better go back and re-read exactly what I "criticized" you for then. And if you still don't get it, then there will be your answer.
     
  19. Mikey

    Mikey Well-Known Member

    Ra, it's within my culture to respond the way I respond. You and others that got upset at me before just don't fundamentally get it. I'm not really African-American, I'm Carribbean-American because the heritage of my parents are from the West Indies, aka the Carribbean islands. Just deal with the way I've been born and raised by my family.
     
  20. Ra

    Ra Well-Known Member

    So it's within your culture to dismiss other peoples' opinions and experiences because you see no "intellectual merit" to their opinions? Is that what you're telling me??:confused:
     

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