I was just curious.

For some reason, I had a feeling he wasn't.

Carry on...

 

unless I am mistaken, You could have known by looking at her daughter.

 

I will. Thanks!

Yeah, well, I haven't had much luck finding a BM who isn't already taken, or one that lives in Chicago who wants to actually date me.

There is one BM that if we lived in the same city, I wouldn't have to worry about dating ever again, but it's too complicated. So, alas, I'm stuck in the crappy dating world. :smt088

 

True. She's part hispanic.

 

Why are you texting an ex? Just curious. You torture yourself too much.

 

EDIT: Let me specify.



I meant to refer to the men she's been talking to/dating as of recently.

 

Well in that case... I'd avoid him like he had the plague Bookie. He's clearly immature, and I'm sorry but not speaking to you or telling you what he was thinking was rude, hurtful, and cowardly. I just have no time for people like that. If someone means enough to you to spend time with exclusively, then you darn sure ought to care enough about them not to just leave them wondering what the hell went wrong and blaming themselves when it's you who had the issues. If that's how he treats the people he cares about, then I think he's got a long way to go before he's Bookie worthy.

 

Yeah Books, Jordie's right. You shouldn't torture yourself. You don't deserve it.

 

What he did to you was cruel, he does not deserve a minute of your time.
Unless he did a huuuge meaculpa and had a real darn good reason for bailing like he did. but it doesnt sound like he has changed:-(

 

rayer:

 

I got one of those Facebook emails telling you have friends on there and I got one from this dude who I dated for 3 yrs. It made my heart drop. Not in a good way though....

Makes me think about what went down with him....:sad:

 

Thanks everyone for your words. I appreciate the comments and will take them all into consideration. :-D

I'm talking to him more out of curiosity than anything. He told me today that what he basically wants is an exclusive FWB type of thing. He wants us both not to see other people, but keep it casual.

Anyway, I had a second date with my coworker yesterday. I like him. He's nice. Though I thought the fireman was nice, too. :smt042

I also talk to the contractor/electrician guy on a daily basis. We haven't gone out yet.

I'm keeping my options open.

 

When I visit Chicago next year once I start job interviews I will escort you to a jazz/blues club as your wingman. Your little black book will be full by the end of the night.

 

Thanks Sir Nose, I will take you up on that!! :smt023

 

Books, were you were on those dating sites, did you ever write guys?

 

Long Time No Talk

Hi everyone,

I got a special e-mail from a special someone and just want to stop in and say hello. It has been a minute.....

 

Yes, I'm talking to a couple of guys from a dating website. Nothing really going on yet.

Welcome back Life! :smt023

 

Good for you! Are they BM?

 

I may have to fly to ChiTown...