What's going on with you 2.0?

sweet almond oi, glycerine and amla plus, sometimes coconut oil too thou mainly he saves that for after

he leaves it on bout 30 mins before he shampoos, just gets on with his exercises

 

you (or your dude, i suppose) and bruh ajax should try this, if either hasnt tried it before.



it made Nate's hair very soft and didn't leave behind a huge amount of oily residue. It was wonderful! has a great smell, too. It worked fantastic with his natural fro, btw.

I used it on my hair on occasion as a leave in treatment over night, with a wash in the morning. Or to just smooth down my style with a small amount of it during the day.

 

thanks hun, will have to keep an eye out for it next time we go to the hair place

 

Props, DH. I'll have to go to the hair supply store soon.

 

Motion Lotion hahaha,

 

Actually I like the curliness that I have. It has the onion ring curls I was looking for, the problem is that it's too long, like it comes all the way down shoulder. But if I put it in a pony tail it comes out decent so that's what I've been doing today. Ponytailing it up hahaha.

 

Well I'm glad u like ur hair, but I still like looking at pictures of my baby. Lol

if u wanna try more than just a pony tail u can always only put half back. I've seen some dudes pull it off very nicely with long hair. I dunno how it would look on u, of course, since I haven't seen u, but it's a thought! I get really bored with the same style all the time in my hair so I figured I'd give u suggestions lol

I do so love curls, though, so I bet it's nice! I kinda want to get some curls myself, but the ones I want are super expensive so I'll probably be just stcking to my boring bipolar hair (it can never decide between loose curls and waves lol

 

No problemo! Hopefully it will help. I was happy when I saw how well it worked for Nate, cause I got annoyed at the oil on my face thing too lol

and bruh Ajax, hope it helps! U always got nice lookin hair, I dunno how u will improve it!

 

I hate to sound stupid...but what's half back?

 

Like only pulling the front and sides of ur hair into a ponytail, instead of all of it.



like that, though Nate generally only pulled back the parts that were hanging in his face. It's just something u cld do to add a little variety

 

yeah the oil slick look is sooooo not what i go for when i do my make up, lol

 

I've been texting back and forth with the ex for a couple of weeks now. We haven't had the opportunity to see each other yet. ARGH. Anyway, so a text he sent me yesterday made me a little weary of things. So, I sent him a "can I ask you a question" text. He said, "yes". I asked him, "How are you defining us at this moment in time? I ask so that I'm on the same page as you. I want to avoid any confusion, is all". I then sent him a "there isn't a wrong answer, I promise" to that text.

He replied by asking me what I mean. :smt091

So, I texted him back, "I mean are you wanting to date me again or have a casual thing or you aren't sure?"

He replied with, "what do you want". I said, "I asked you first".

He text me, "to be honest I want both and I know that doesn't make sense".

So I said, "you want to date me but not exclusively?"

He replied with, "no I would not want to date other people at the same time".

I so don't understand WTF is going on anymore. ARGH!! I'm gathering that he wants to date me exclusively but doesn't want to get serious. That's how I'm viewing it.

 

Whew Bookie, color me confused! I'm not going to make any suggestions, offer any advice, or comments (see how fast I learned from that other thread, and they say you can't teach an old dog new tricks). All I'm gonna say is I'm sure this is beyond frustrating, and I hope it works out the way you like.

 

LOL!! In this case, I'm not venting, so advice is always welcome. I'm seriously confused here. He told me today that he doesn't want me to date anyone either. So, I don't know.

In either case, I'm off to the races!!:smt043 :smt023

 

Is the guy you're referring to a BM???

 

Nope. So I guess that means I shouldn't be talking about it here?

 

He wants you. He can't get enough of that Bookworm loving. Give him an ultimatum. Sit down and figure out what you want then tell him exactly what you want. If he can't agree, then you have got to go.

 

You better believe it!

 

Thanks arch! I have a lot of thinking to do. :smt052

Okay, I'll go then. :smt085

 

let us know how it turns out.