What's going on with you 2.0?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by Bookworm616, Jan 1, 2010.

  1. LA

    LA Well-Known Member

    I was just curious.

    For some reason, I had a feeling he wasn't.

    Carry on...
     
  2. archangel

    archangel Well-Known Member

    unless I am mistaken, You could have known by looking at her daughter.
     
  3. Bookworm616

    Bookworm616 Well-Known Member

    I will. Thanks!

    Yeah, well, I haven't had much luck finding a BM who isn't already taken, or one that lives in Chicago who wants to actually date me.

    There is one BM that if we lived in the same city, I wouldn't have to worry about dating ever again, but it's too complicated. So, alas, I'm stuck in the crappy dating world. :smt088
     
  4. Bookworm616

    Bookworm616 Well-Known Member

    True. She's part hispanic.
     
  5. LA

    LA Well-Known Member

  6. JordanC

    JordanC Well-Known Member

    Why are you texting an ex? Just curious. You torture yourself too much. :p
     
  7. LA

    LA Well-Known Member

    EDIT: Let me specify.



    I meant to refer to the men she's been talking to/dating as of recently.
     
  8. Espy

    Espy New Member

    Well in that case... I'd avoid him like he had the plague Bookie. He's clearly immature, and I'm sorry but not speaking to you or telling you what he was thinking was rude, hurtful, and cowardly. I just have no time for people like that. If someone means enough to you to spend time with exclusively, then you darn sure ought to care enough about them not to just leave them wondering what the hell went wrong and blaming themselves when it's you who had the issues. If that's how he treats the people he cares about, then I think he's got a long way to go before he's Bookie worthy.
     
  9. SmoothDaddy101

    SmoothDaddy101 Well-Known Member

    Yeah Books, Jordie's right. You shouldn't torture yourself. You don't deserve it.
     
  10. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    What he did to you was cruel, he does not deserve a minute of your time.
    Unless he did a huuuge meaculpa and had a real darn good reason for bailing like he did. but it doesnt sound like he has changed:-(
     
  11. SmoothDaddy101

    SmoothDaddy101 Well-Known Member

    :prayer:
     
  12. Inner Beauty

    Inner Beauty New Member

    I got one of those Facebook emails telling you have friends on there and I got one from this dude who I dated for 3 yrs. It made my heart drop. Not in a good way though....

    Makes me think about what went down with him....:sad:
     
  13. Bookworm616

    Bookworm616 Well-Known Member

    Thanks everyone for your words. I appreciate the comments and will take them all into consideration. :-D

    I'm talking to him more out of curiosity than anything. He told me today that what he basically wants is an exclusive FWB type of thing. He wants us both not to see other people, but keep it casual.

    Anyway, I had a second date with my coworker yesterday. I like him. He's nice. Though I thought the fireman was nice, too. :smt042

    I also talk to the contractor/electrician guy on a daily basis. We haven't gone out yet.

    I'm keeping my options open.
     
  14. Sir Nose

    Sir Nose New Member

    When I visit Chicago next year once I start job interviews I will escort you to a jazz/blues club as your wingman. Your little black book will be full by the end of the night.
     
  15. Bookworm616

    Bookworm616 Well-Known Member

    Thanks Sir Nose, I will take you up on that!! :smt023
     
  16. Inner Beauty

    Inner Beauty New Member

    Books, were you were on those dating sites, did you ever write guys?
     
  17. life5577

    life5577 New Member

    Long Time No Talk

    Hi everyone,

    I got a special e-mail from a special someone and just want to stop in and say hello. It has been a minute.....
     
  18. Bookworm616

    Bookworm616 Well-Known Member

    Yes, I'm talking to a couple of guys from a dating website. Nothing really going on yet.

    Welcome back Life! :smt023
     
  19. Inner Beauty

    Inner Beauty New Member

    Good for you! Are they BM?
     
  20. SmoothDaddy101

    SmoothDaddy101 Well-Known Member

    I may have to fly to ChiTown...
     

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