Your idealistic and realistic partner matches?

Well for the average person, not realistic at all but usually people in such situationships fuck in the car and remote areas to save money.

 

What's wrong with watching lol it was live entertainment

 

Come on, be a grownup.

 

Remind yourself that the next time you watch porn

 

That is something else. They are at work, paid to fuck.

 

Good point but I was out in public.

 

Done is done.

 

Idealistic:


Shorter than me with big breasts (real or fake doesn't matter as long as they look good) really pretty, lowkey likes to show off in public, but a tease to others and a total freak with me in private. A woman with a nice job perhaps in design or education.

Realistic:

I've gotten out of my league the last few women I've dated but they're all taller than me (not that it really matters) and none of them have had even remotely well sized boobs lol. BUT my last girlfriend everyone said looked like a young Angelina Jolie and before that people said she looked like Olivia Wilde so I'm doing okay out here. All the women I've dated have been more blue collar types. One was a civil engineer operating the bulldozer and lifts. The one before that was a farm girl from Oklahoma who wanted to go into hotel management. So can't complain...just wish the women with bigger tits would come my way lol

 

Hmm what an interesting thread topic. I didn't know this was here. It'll be fun to read through these.

BTW @Elklodge, you've got wonderful taste in women lol

 

Yeah it's a fun topic haha I'd like to think I have good taste in women. I shoot out of my league a lot, 8 out of 10 times I don't even get a date but it's worth it for the times you land lol.

 

Don't forget, Mary Elizabeth was also in The Abyss, lol.

She has also been nothing short of stellar in Queen of the South on the USA Network.

 

She has also been nothing short of stellar in Queen of the South on the USA Network.

 

yeah here in America , women want to know ....what are the benefits of dating you other than just "you" . it sucks for me , no money ,no car ,no house.
they call it having your sh#t together ,lol . no wonder there's so much violence in relationships in america . people are dating for the wrong reasons.

 

I guess it may depend on where you live. Where I live, it would be very difficult to date without having a car. I guess you could Uber or Lyft but then the money thing comes into play. I don't think there is anything wrong with wanting someone who has their shit together, especially if you have your shit together. To me, there's certain things that are rather basic in order to date. You may think that has nothing to do with you, but it does. Part of being a grown man is to have the basics together - job, car, place to live, able to pay your bills and take care of yourself. It's part of being a grown woman too. That's not why there is so much violence in relationships. It's also not why people are dating. People are usually dating to either have someone to do things with or with the hopes of developing a relationship, either one requires you to be able to handle your own.

 

Yes I understand ,it's pretty much in a woman's dna to seek out a good provider for their children . And people have different views on dating as well . some people view relationships as a business deal .literately. i met so many people in a relationship that do Not like each other . I really couldn't believe it. or some people will date someone
for the time being "until they find someone better" just like a job ! I don't look down on women that want a financially stable man as a qualifier , it's just that there can be some consequences to that method of dating. Lets say you met this guy , he was a car,house,successful business .but after a while ,you have no chemistry ,no real heat in the relationship. now your life is like a routine ..... a few women would leave this relationship , many will stay because they are good financially....and either accept the boring life or start to cheat. that's my view on american dating.I could be wrong,just my view from the outside ...i don't date much, i'm a bit of a loner.
I also get it ,that i have to get my shit together first before i look to date in america. that's why i wouldn't be dating anytime soon. I did not celebrate this new years, i'm not in a position to , it's also not a big deal to me. i'm almost monk level when it comes to my understanding of life. I can decide next monday is a day for me to celebrate ,the power is in your mind

 

and I take back what I said about violence in relationships in America , our nation is just slowly loosing it's mind ,that's why . I don't know how it goes from you asking out someone on a date ........to you putting your hands on them to cause harm . If you don't like someone , leave, tell them to leave ....why beat on them ?
And after you get beat up , why do you stay ? just crazy to me.

 

Abuse syndrome is a completely different conversation and it can get rather lengthy. It's not a simple thing. There are many forms of abuse out there. Overt physical abuse is only one form.

 

I think people, in general, want stability and the ability to take care of themselves and their family. That's something that we value as a society in general. That's not unique to the US. I don't know of anyone who is hoping to live on the streets or aspires to be poor.

It's much easier to blame others or complain about others than it is to look at ourselves and do what it takes to get what we want. If it's worth it to you, you will do what it takes. If not...not so much.

Very few things in life are all or nothing, even if many people have that mentality. The majority of people live somewhere in the gray areas in life. I think it's important to look at the whole.

 

on the contrary .....very simple for me . if someone doesn't treat you right ,get away from them . they verbally,physical or anything else you don't like ,leave, don't talk to them anymore.do this at the beginning for maximum effect . maybe complicated for others ......easy for me.