One of my theories on why people cheat is because they are incredibly insecure and aren't getting the high maintenance ego-stroking they need from their partner. Just my idea which might change tomorrow.
The airport went as well as a hellish experience can go. As luck would have it, we (his wife & I) look very similar the major feature difference is that I have green eyes and she brown. We both (unplanned) had long red coats on too, lol. She put her arm in mine and we stood side by side and he saw us and almost fainted. His eyes started to roll back, he went as white as a ghost (he's caucasian) and had obvious signs of "fight or flight" sympathetic stimulation.
He was speechless and sheepish and didn't even look like the man that I thought he was. I saw him clearly for once and he was a pale, weasily, insecure little child. He stumbled over his words, it was not pleasant and I left after some words were shared.
As furious with him as I WAS, I do not harbour those feelings anymore. I am relieved that it is over. I'm not sure when I might start dating again, and frankly just want to enjoy myself without having a romantic relationship in my life. The only thing I will truly miss is having someone to go snowboarding with and fun dinners....
Meh, I'll figure it out
Take care all!:smt023