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The Dark King said:
please do. I missed the opportunity to hang out with several women I wanted to because I'm really faithful and know better than to hangout with pretty girls I might try something with lol.
Actually you mind find this interesting but I've been spending time with two women as of late and one is in her late 20s and one is in her early 30s.
And the funny thing is I dated the girl in her early 30s when we were in our early 20s and again in our late 20s. She recently asked me why things never seem to catch traction with us and I told her I was worried she was looking for marriage so I thought it was better to leave her alone and let her find someone who was in that place. Shorty laughed and said who said I was looking for marriage next just ask me.
Which proves I really don't know everything lol
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That's shocking LOL
 
Unique4ever said:
The only "good man" in my case is probably 40-50 pounds overweight, has bad teeth and is in general not well groomed (dirty nails, beard that looks nasty, smells funky in summer...).
He has got a great personality but that's just not enough in this case.
For Christmas he took cookie dough and made my name out of it.
I was highly impressed and deeply moved, but I just can't force myself to feel physically attracted :(
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I'm glad you're not dating this guy. You deserve way better. Sounds like he thinks something is there though. Maybe you should let him down hard, he probably won't go away if you try to let him down easy.
 
The Dark King said:
I hear you but as a friend why not point that out to him because I'm sure you're not the only one who notices. My friends constantly point out if my car needs a wash or anything like that.
And to me what you're describing isn't really what I'm talking about it's more about a lot of women trying to get the absolute best they think they can get. And I get it, it probably has a lot to do with the fact that you get so many eggs and you instinctively have to be as picky as possible. They did a study about it I'll see if I can find it for you on youtube. Fascinating as hell.
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If marriage is your goal, both women and men SHOULD be picky. Or maybe picky is the wrong word. But those who value and seek to get married, usually cherish the idea of staying married for life. So why wouldn't you look for the most suitable partner to journey with, through good times and bad?

The "picky" that's negative is getting hung up over flaws that are minor in the grand scheme of things.
 
The Dark King said:
Because one of the members on here was saving the pics I would post of me and my ex. That shit is some creepy weirdo shit. So I no longer post anything on here and it's a shame because I had pics from this ir wedding you guys would have loved but oh well.
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You think only one member here downloads/saves pix?? And that ppl on FB don't do the same? I know you're not that naive....
 
The Dark King said:
I don't think Saty said women won't a good hump even though I would agree with you they do. I think his point was that women have so many options they often get overwhelmed and have no clue what they want.
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Not really. My point is that women talk a good game but in reality are generally indecisive and want a confident navigator.

The Dark King said:
Men usually lack options . . .
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Men usually lack the game and/or resources to increase the quality of their options.
 
Ches said:
You think only one member here downloads/saves pix?? And that ppl on FB don't do the same? I know you're not that naive....
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At least on fb they are usually actual friends not people harboring images in hopes of trying to embarrass or harm me. And if there are more people doing it on here more the reason for me not post then. Its creepy
 
The Dark King said:
At least on fb they are usually actual friends not people harboring images in hopes of trying to embarrass or harm me. And if there are more people doing it on here more the reason for me not post then. Its creepy
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there are some pretty desperate people here on this forum...sad but true:smt069
 
The Dark King said:
Because one of the members on here was saving the pics I would post of me and my ex. That shit is some creepy weirdo shit. So I no longer post anything on here and it's a shame because I had pics from this ir wedding you guys would have loved but oh well.
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hence why i only leave them up a short period of time.

pettyofficerj said:
Lol I save stuff that people decide to send me, but not like that

Thats like saving pics of suge and his boo

Who does that
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I don't know what it does but shit like that makes me want to grab my pistol.

satyr said:
Men usually lack the game and/or resources to increase the quality of their options.
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THIS!!

lippy said:
there are some pretty desperate people here on this forum...sad but true:smt069
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it is ridiculous...
 
Just when you think you're becoming more open to another person's faith, some ignorant son of a bitch fucks it up altogether and reminds you why you cannot be politically correct on the discussion of religion. And the worst thing about it...he happens to know you indirectly.

Awww damn...crazy crazy crazy.

No matter. I am the Morning Star. Please refer to Revelations 22:16 for more information.
 
The Dark King said:
At least on fb they are usually actual friends not people harboring images in hopes of trying to embarrass or harm me. And if there are more people doing it on here more the reason for me not post then. Its creepy
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very creepy.

shame you're not on fb no mo...who am i going to taunt with lance bass comments and *nsync music clips? :smt089
 
The Dark King said:
lol no because you date a couple of losers and take that as being who's out there. There are a lot of good men out there but most women overlook them and dismiss them.
I see this shit everywhere, in my current business venture I deal with clients who constantly complain about there being no good guys but its not about finding good guys its usually about a man meeting a bunch of superficial criteria first and then said guy not matching up personality wise. Men have a lot of bad habits too like committing when they aren't ready but that's not the issue we're talking about right now.
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I shouldn't respond because it's been more than a day since I've been on here and talking about it, but I just can't let this go.

TDK, I understand and KNOW that there are good men out there, but for some reason, I am not attracting those men to me.

And please don't speak about my dating history like you know anything about it. You don't. What little I share on here is just that...little.

I don't generalize IRL like I do on this forum, as it's hard to carry on an actual conversation when it's in written form. This guy that bamboozled me WAS a nice guy. He WAS a decent fellow. I liked him for those reasons.

It wasn't until after he said those things about not contacting me when he was with his kids, that I began to see him for what he was, and it's just more of the same that I've encountered. He did a great job of hiding himself until that night.

So until I can figure out why I'm not seeing these jerks for who they are earlier, then I'm taking myself completely out of the dating arena. I'm just done with it all for now.

And since you are straight and not looking for men, you can't possibly know what types of single and not single men there are looking for women. So....I'm done having this conversation with you as you CANNOT speak on this topic with any real knowledge since you don't date men.

Have a nice day.
 
Bookworm616 said:
I shouldn't respond because it's been more than a day since I've been on here and talking about it, but I just can't let this go.

TDK, I understand and KNOW that there are good men out there, but for some reason, I am not attracting those men to me.

And please don't speak about my dating history like you know anything about it. You don't. What little I share on here is just that...little.

I don't generalize IRL like I do on this forum, as it's hard to carry on an actual conversation when it's in written form. This guy that bamboozled me WAS a nice guy. He WAS a decent fellow. I liked him for those reasons.

It wasn't until after he said those things about not contacting me when he was with his kids, that I began to see him for what he was, and it's just more of the same that I've encountered. He did a great job of hiding himself until that night.

So until I can figure out why I'm not seeing these jerks for who they are earlier, then I'm taking myself completely out of the dating arena. I'm just done with it all for now.

And since you are straight and not looking for men, you can't possibly know what types of single and not single men there are looking for women. So....I'm done having this conversation with you as you CANNOT speak on this topic with any real knowledge since you don't date men.

Have a nice day.
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Lol it never stops you from commenting on how women are. Look you're right I don't know your life day in day out but what you share paints a picture don't get mad at me for seeing what you paint.
Good luck kid
 
The Dark King said:
At least on fb they are usually actual friends not people harboring images in hopes of trying to embarrass or harm me. And if there are more people doing it on here more the reason for me not post then. Its creepy
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Anyone can find you on FB and save pix - they aren't necessarily friends. And even people you think are friends can be anything but.

My nephew is in a frat and one of his frat brothers created a Twitter account in his name, complete with pix stolen from FB. Tweeted foul stuff, completely unbeknownst to my nephew. Apparently, most of the brothers were aware of this, but none of them said anything, even though what was posted does not reflect my nephew's personality. A pledge who interviewed my nephew as part of the pledge process, after speaking with him for awhile, finally said "So what's up with your Twitter account?" After a bit of conversation, he realized the guy he was interviewing was not the same guy making those tweets. Long story short, one of the brothers admitted to doing it as a "joke." My nephew felt betrayed, not just by him but by the whole fraternity because they all either knew or accepted it at face value.
 
Ches said:
Anyone can find you on FB and save pix - they aren't necessarily friends. And even people you think are friends can be anything but.

My nephew is in a frat and one of his frat brothers created a Twitter account in his name, complete with pix stolen from FB. Tweeted foul stuff, completely unbeknownst to my nephew. Apparently, most of the brothers were aware of this, but none of them said anything, even though what was posted does not reflect my nephew's personality. A pledge who interviewed my nephew as part of the pledge process, after speaking with him for awhile, finally said "So what's up with your Twitter account?" After a bit of conversation, he realized the guy he was interviewing was not the same guy making those tweets. Long story short, one of the brothers admitted to doing it as a "joke." My nephew felt betrayed, not just by him but by the whole fraternity because they all either knew or accepted it at face value.
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Not anyone can find you if you have good privacy settings but this Is a moot point anyway
 
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