Random Conversation 2.0

There aren't many good SINGLE men out there.

Is that better?

LOL. I know, right?

 

I thought I was doing a good job of looking for that, but apparently, I have to search harder.

But, it doesn't matter at the moment as I'm now truly off the market. I'm no match for these men at the moment.

 

lol no because you date a couple of losers and take that as being who's out there. There are a lot of good men out there but most women overlook them and dismiss them.
I see this shit everywhere, in my current business venture I deal with clients who constantly complain about there being no good guys but its not about finding good guys its usually about a man meeting a bunch of superficial criteria first and then said guy not matching up personality wise. Men have a lot of bad habits too like committing when they aren't ready but that's not the issue we're talking about right now.

 

U sure told her

 

The only "good man" in my case is probably 40-50 pounds overweight, has bad teeth and is in general not well groomed (dirty nails, beard that looks nasty, smells funky in summer...).
He has got a great personality but that's just not enough in this case.
For Christmas he took cookie dough and made my name out of it.
I was highly impressed and deeply moved, but I just can't force myself to feel physically attracted

 

At least ur honest about the weight thing

 

We are not talking about having a little extra weight.
The guy already had heart surgery two years ago at the age of 35.
Even after that he still spends his days in front of the tv.

 

Jeez

 

Exactly.
He now got a little machine built in which monitors his heartbeat.
Call me selfish, but I'm not a nurse. I'm an active woman who wants to enjoy life a little.
If you are with someone for decades and the person becomes ill, that's a different thing.
But to chose someone who doesn't care about his body and spends his whole time eating and watching movies......that's just not me.

 

I feel your plight sweet lady

A woman's gotta have standards

 

This is both men, and women. It's a freaking disease.

On a random note, I hate when somebody that you have not known for a while try to set up a date less than 12 h from now. No, I have plans, gimme 24h. Is that really to much to ask? Especially when said person have been difficult to find a time with for months. Screams, 'I'm not that into you' to me. If you can't find time in over 2 months to go on that third date, you expect me to jump and go on morning coffee 10 h from now? Uhm, no. Why? You really don't care. Lol

 

I hear you but as a friend why not point that out to him because I'm sure you're not the only one who notices. My friends constantly point out if my car needs a wash or anything like that.
And to me what you're describing isn't really what I'm talking about it's more about a lot of women trying to get the absolute best they think they can get. And I get it, it probably has a lot to do with the fact that you get so many eggs and you instinctively have to be as picky as possible. They did a study about it I'll see if I can find it for you on youtube. Fascinating as hell.

 

Its geeeeeeeky :freehug:

 

Come on, a dirty car is a little different than bad body odor.
If I was another guy, I would probably say in a joking way "dude you stink, did you run out of deodorant?"
I doubt he wants to hear something like that from a woman he obviously is attracted to.
And if he is ok with being overweight and probably die young, than it is his own choice.
A person has to really want to lose weight to be motivated.
Doing it for someone else won't work.

 

Well you're a delicious commodity my friend lol.

I think men have a different issue, it's not over looking good women that's the problem for men but committing when they aren't ready for a commitment. A lot of dudes either want to appease what they think they should do socially or are lonely and settle down when it's not what they're ready for and as a result cheat or even worst they project their unhappiness onto their significant other. Of course there is some overlapping but from what I've seen more often than not this is what happens.

 

I agree. I recently lost a ton of weight, those who are friends on fb can confirm because I won't post pics on here anymore, and you're right I had to want it for me. No one else was going to motivate me into it, it has to come from within.
As far as the body odor thing think of it this way, you may not want him but as a friend you can be helping him out for the next girl. And the car was one example, I've come out of the house with a stain on my shirt or mismatched socks and my friends would joke the shit out of me until I changed it. As long as its not mean I think he'll take it the right way.

 

It's THIRSTY!!!!!

 

Why won't you post pics anymore youngin

 

Dos Equis like a motherfucker

 

I think you are partly right.
But the end result is that both genders are looking for what is not there, but in their mind, overlooking what is right there. Hence, getting frustrate and pointing the finger at the other gender when it's not that simple.