Quick question for black guys.

[dj4monie]

Black women have been on this "fuck a black man" campaign for the last 30 years. They seem to believe that humiliating black men in front of the entire world is somehow going to make them more desirable to us. For example; Tyra Banks and Oprah have had shows which sole purpose was to send a image out to the world as black men in general being no more than a bunch baby making, bed hopping, unemployed, uneducated, jail birds that's a poor choice for any group of women. While making black women out to be a 100% good in every aspect of life and the best choice for any group of men. I never seen any black women get up and dispute this, if anything, they reinforce everything that's said negative about BM. Not once have I ever seen black women point out any of their flaws. After all of this these women still expect BM to love and respect them. They still think that we should want them after all of their efforts to ruin our image.

I've been exposed to enough black women to form a general opinion of them. In my opinion, black women are the most self centered, selfish, masculine, ignorant, jealous, and angry women walking the earth. If you ever notice everything is always about them and no one else. They always make crazy statement like "black men date white women because they're easy" or "black men only date white women because black women won't take no shit from them." They say shit like this because they're flat ignorant. I also notice how black women are quick to jump out there with a black man like she's on his level physically. Then as soon as a nigga smack her ass in the mouth she wants to cry foul and play the woman card. When just before she got knocked upside the head she was trying to carry you like straight bitch. I'm not saying that all black women are like this but the vast majority of them are in my opinion.

I think black women need to focus on these things instead of why black men are dating/marrying white women over them. If they take the time to look at themselves they can see why so called "good black men" don't want to have nothing to do with them. Black men like myself and many others have always loved white women. I love the way white women look, smell, and taste. I love the way they tend to a nigga and be the best partner and mother they can be. I love how polite white women are when I come in contact with them in public. In my prospective white women have always been the most attractive and loving women. They have their issues just like everyone else but for the most part they've been nothing but good to me and vice versa. So even if black women were to change they would never be my first choice. However, I think some black men might actually look at them in a more positive light.

I agree 100%, but as you know in some cases WW aren't any better and both are affected by typical Western Culture coming from the idiot box.

 

[Liquid Swords]

Finding white women more attractive than black women is fine. I don't see a problem with that anymore than I see finding latin women more attractive than white women. This is all a matter of preference, be it a preference based on physical attraction or something deeper. Nobody can tell you what you can or can't be attracted to.

One thing that is becoming overwhelmingly common and quite infuriating is to see black males who use BW as leverage while lifting WW to some pedestal.

You black men need to quit forgetting. The black man that you are... the same black man that white women adore so much... is a black man born from the womb of a black woman.

This 'black women are inferior to....' complex that is growing so popular is quite pathetic.

It actually annoys me too. It's not even flattering, I don't want a guy who is with me because he has extreme problems with black women. :/

 

[The Dark King]

It actually annoys me too. It's not even flattering, I don't want a guy who is with me because he has extreme problems with black women. :/

LS relax I doubt that will ever be the case with you kid. You've got a good package going. I'm sure the guys going for you are probably mopre focused on the hot piercing and your booty.

 

[xoxo]

Finding white women more attractive than black women....

...

....lifting WW to some pedestal..

is equated as the same thing, so then some feel the need to verbalize that misconstrued notion by addressing those who (publicly and loudly) misconstrue it, which gets considered to be hating on those said people. (see Taye Diggs)

 

[AnMDBCartoon]

It actually annoys me too. It's not even flattering, I don't want a guy who is with me because he has extreme problems with black women. :/

Agreed.


That 'trophy wife/lover gig is simply a bunch of bull urine, IMO


Refer to:

http://www.whitewomenblackmen.com/forum/showthread.php?t=13862


....to see what *I* personally think about it...and just *how far* yer gonna get with ME!




















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[Inner Beauty]

It actually annoys me too. It's not even flattering, I don't want a guy who is with me because he has extreme problems with black women. :/

AMEN!

As I always say, I'm not trying to be some dudes consolation prize.

 

[Anten7]

There's so much crap being circulated whenever we have a relationship with a WW. Nobody makes a big deal about BW/WM - so, there's no reason to explain WW/BM either. You meet many different kinds of people in your life; but it's only out of fear and guilt that Black Women and White Men lose their minds when they see us with WW. We don't really care what they do - they're just mad because their monopoly on the interracial scene has been broken.

That's their problem...

 

[The Dark King]

AMEN!

As I always say, I'm not trying to be some dudes consolation prize.

You and LS need to kill that noise. You're attractive women. No guy is looking at you and thinking "Well I can't get a good black chick so I guess she'll do"
Its more along the lines of "damn i'd love to butter that sweet Jewish bagel" so knock it off. You're cute deal with it.

 

[Inner Beauty]

You and LS need to kill that noise. You're attractive women. No guy is looking at you and thinking "Well I can't get a good black chick so I guess she'll do"
Its more along the lines of "damn i'd love to butter that sweet Jewish bagel" so knock it off. You're cute deal with it.

LOL!!!!!!!

Thank you, but that's not what I'm saying. It has nothing to do with looks, but how some BM are fed up with BW, so they come to us. Not talking about the dudes who genuinely have an affinity for WW. I'm talking about the dudes who date us under the wrong premise.

I knew of a dude like this. You know deep down he wants to be a with a Sista, but he can't meet the right one. That also says a lot about his choices in a mate and not their skin color, but I digress.

 

[The Dark King]

LOL!!!!!!!

Thank you, but that's not what I'm saying. It has nothing to do with looks, but how some BM are fed up with BW, so they come to us. Not talking about the dudes who genuinely have an affinity for WW. I'm talking about the dudes who date us under the wrong premise.

I knew of a dude like this. You know deep down he wants to be a with a Sista, but he can't meet the right one. That also says a lot about his choices in a mate and not their skin color, but I digress.

I gotta call bullshit on that one IB. That sounds like some weak little "I'm trying to find myself" kid shit. No grown man is dating ww because the right bw hasn't come along. I think as a young guy you might date women of different nationalities and ethnicities to see if there's a difference but no dude is gonna spend time with an attractive woman of any race just because he thinks he can't find a good one of his own race. You can't get any lamer than that.

 

[Matches Malone]

Instead of brushing off my post as bs why not make my post look like bs by retorting with an intelligent counterargument? Black men have made some pretty severe accusations about black women, and yet do not have to back up their insinuations with logic? Save your one-sentence hit and run replies for pointless "I-Luvs-me-sum-white-women-cuz-they-so-purty" topics and reply with a thought-out response.

People like what they like. Why do some people like cookies over cake? Why do some people prefer tall men, women with big boobs, man with a big dick. It's whatever you like and you shouldn't have to explain that to everyone. If my experience with black women has been poor...so what? Someone else may have had a good experience.

Why can't people just like what they like?

 

[Bliss]

... You can't reckon with a force of truth that is far superior to any lie you can muster.

The day you grow the balls to respond to me with respect and dignity is the day you can open your eyes and realize how scrupulously you attempt to dodge what you truly feel. ..

Lets start with the lie that you proceeded here with, which is that you are a Black man.

Let's end with the fact that you're the dodger, since you dont have the clit to say what you really feel as a Black woman opposed to IR's.

 

[Inner Beauty]

I gotta call bullshit on that one IB. That sounds like some weak little "I'm trying to find myself" kid shit. No grown man is dating ww because the right bw hasn't come along. I think as a young guy you might date women of different nationalities and ethnicities to see if there's a difference but no dude is gonna spend time with an attractive woman of any race just because he thinks he can't find a good one of his own race. You can't get any lamer than that.

C'mon now. You can call BS on it all you want, but you know there are BM out there who are tired and fed up (as they say) with BW, so they date WW or other Non-BW. It happens all the time. Look at some of the dudes who post here. They spew the same rhetoric.

The dude I knew was on some 80% BW do this and that BS.

 

[The Dark King]

C'mon now. You can call BS on it all you want, but you know there are BM out there who are tired and fed up (as they say) with BW, so they date WW or other Non-BW. It happens all the time. Look at some of the dudes who post here. They spew the same rhetoric.

The dude I knew was on some 80% BW do this and that BS.

Wow I guess I've been dating ww so long that the way bw act has meant very little to me. If they're not family they pretty much don't exist so how they act won't influence how I feel about ww and think most of the dudes if not all on her feel the same way. LA coined it best when he said "I don't get the same flip in my stomach/butterflies with any other girls the way I do with ww"

 

[Inner Beauty]

Wow I guess I've been dating ww so long that the way bw act has meant very little to me. If they're not family they pretty much don't exist so how they act won't influence how I feel about ww and think most of the dudes if not all on her feel the same way. LA coined it best when he said "I don't get the same flip in my stomach/butterflies with any other girls the way I do with ww"

Yeah, see your radar isn't focused on them. You're under what I deemed earlier as "BM with an affinity for WW". That's your natural attraction. Other dudes might be attracted to WW, but deep down in their hearts, they want a Sista.

 

[Anten7]

LOL!!!!!!!

Thank you, but that's not what I'm saying. It has nothing to do with looks, but how some BM are fed up with BW, so they come to us. Not talking about the dudes who genuinely have an affinity for WW. I'm talking about the dudes who date us under the wrong premise.

I knew of a dude like this. You know deep down he wants to be a with a Sista, but he can't meet the right one. That also says a lot about his choices in a mate and not their skin color, but I digress.

I love women - period. But I can see why a lot of us are fed up with BW. I've always been in predominately white environments - so, I've been surrounded by white women my whole life (it was really hard on me, too... lol). Today, I believe that there is something really special between WW and BM.

I must add, though - I've experienced negativity from intolerant WW and BW also.

In sum, Black and White in America is beautiful - but not always pretty...

 

[The Dark King]

Yeah, see your radar isn't focused on them. You're under what I deemed earlier as "BM with an affinity for WW". That's your natural attraction. Other dudes might be attracted to WW, but deep down in their hearts, they want a Sista.

Then they're wack and you don't need em. Shit like that old song says "If you don't want her don't waste you're time. I'll take her"

 

[Inner Beauty]

I love women - period. But I can see why a lot of us are fed up with BW. I've always been in predominately white environments - so, I've been surrounded by white women my whole life (it was really hard on me, too... lol). Today, I believe that there is something really special between WW and BM.

I must add, though - I've experienced negativity from intolerant WW and BW also.

In sum, Black and White in America is beautiful - but not always pretty...

I know some people have had bad experiences and some may be legitimate reasons, but I just don't like when people date for the wrong reasons.

Your closing slogan is perfect...lol

Then they're wack and you don't need em. Shit like that old song says "If you don't want her don't waste you're time. I'll take her"

Trust, he's a goner!

I don't like dudes like that. That's a big turn off.

 

[Trey1540]

OMG...It sounds like a war Zone out there in the sister hood!!

You got some decent black women out here. I can't say that all of them are fucked up because that's just not true. However, I can only speak from my experience and based on that most black women ain't shit.

Finding white women more attractive than black women is fine. I don't see a problem with that anymore than I see finding latin women more attractive than white women. This is all a matter of preference, be it a preference based on physical attraction or something deeper. Nobody can tell you what you can or can't be attracted to.

One thing that is becoming overwhelmingly common and quite infuriating is to see black males who use BW as leverage while lifting WW to some pedestal.

You black men need to quit forgetting. The black man that you are... the same black man that white women adore so much... is a black man born from the womb of a black woman.

This 'black women are inferior to....' complex that is growing so popular is quite pathetic.

Please spare me "your mama is black" bullshit. Do you give black women the lecture when they criticize black men? Do stress to them that there fathers are black? I don't think you do cuz. So don't come at me or any other black man who share my views that bullshit.
They do a lot of trifling ass shit and I'm going to call them out on it. I know way more about them than you will ever know.

I agree 100%, but as you know in some cases WW aren't any better and both are affected by typical Western Culture coming from the idiot box.

I know white women have issues. I've talked about them on this forum. However, white women have never caused anything like this.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4UGspqQwRG8

I lost 9 of my niggas in week in half. All because some dumb little skank ass hoe wanted her mouth about things she knew nothing about. You had 22 people dead all over a misunderstanding. The whole time the bitch who started it gets walk away with her life while innocent people lost theirs. Everytime I see her trifling ass I get the urge knock her fuck out.

It actually annoys me too. It's not even flattering, I don't want a guy who is with me because he has extreme problems with black women. :/

This is the type of bullshit I'm talking about. What does a man's opinion of black women have to do with you? You ever thought that maybe a black man that prefers white women just happens to dislike black women based on the foul shit that he's seen them do? You what you need to do is think for yourself. You have no idea what I feel the way I do about black women or white women.

AMEN!

As I always say, I'm not trying to be some dudes consolation prize.

One thing has absolutely nothing to do with the other. My preference has always been white girls. I can honestly say I never had any desire to be in a relationship with black woman. My opinion of black women has absolutely nothing to do with my dating preference. It's strictly based on the trifling shit that I see black women. Is that so hard to believe?

 

[The Dark King]

You got some decent black women out here. I can't say that all of them are fucked up because that's just not true. However, I can only speak from my experience and based on that most black women ain't shit.

Please spare me "your mama is black" bullshit. Do you give black women the lecture when they criticize black men? Do stress to them that there fathers are black? I don't think you do cuz. So don't come at me or any other black man who share my views that bullshit.
They do a lot of trifling ass shit and I'm going to call them out on it. I know way more about them than you will ever know.
I know white women have issues. I've talked about them on this forum. However, white women have never caused anything like this.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4UGspqQwRG8

I lost 9 of my niggas in week in half. All because some dumb little skank ass hoe wanted her mouth about things she knew nothing about. You had 22 people dead all over a misunderstanding. The whole time the bitch who started it gets walk away with her life while innocent people lost theirs. Everytime I see her trifling ass I get the urge knock her fuck out.

This is the type of bullshit I'm talking about. What does a man's opinion of black women have to do with you? You ever thought that maybe a black man that prefers white women just happens to dislike black women based on the foul shit that he's seen them do? You what you need to do is think for yourself. You have no idea what I feel the way I do about black women or white women.
One thing has absolutely nothing to do with the other. My preference has always been white girls. I can honestly say I never had any desire to be in a relationship with black woman. My opinion of black women has absolutely nothing to do with my dating preference. It's strictly based on the trifling shit that I see black women. Is that so hard to believe?

Damn fam you need a hug and you need to heal for real. Most of us here have had bad experiences with women period. Based on past experiences living in NY most women(if they're attractive and know it) are stuck up wanna be princesses but as I get older I'm beginning to see that's my bullshit circle. Change circle homie. Even if you have no desire to date black women it'll be good to let go of the anger.