Quick question for black guys.

andrae09 said:
Damn fam you need a hug and you need to heal for real. Most of us here have had bad experiences with women period. Based on past experiences living in NY most women(if they're attractive and know it) are stuck up wanna be princesses but as I get older I'm beginning to see that's my bullshit circle. Change circle homie. Even if you have no desire to date black women it'll be good to let go of the anger.
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andrae09 said:
Damn fam you need a hug and you need to heal for real. Most of us here have had bad experiences with women period. Based on past experiences living in NY most women(if they're attractive and know it) are stuck up wanna be princesses but as I get older I'm beginning to see that's my bullshit circle. Change circle homie. Even if you have no desire to date black women it'll be good to let go of the anger.
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I'm completely respect where you coming from bro and you might be right. One thing I'll never do is pretend that I'm right on every issue. But let me clear a few things up so mistaken me for one of these "good" black men. I grew up in a black area and I've ran though plenty of black pussy. A lot of black women around here consider me to be sexy nigga. I can get up right at this second and go out there and get black chick with phat ass. So you're talking to one of these rejects that don't got no game and beefin with black women because he got ignored by them. In fact I'm the complete opposite. My issue I got with them has nothing to with bad relationships, their bad attitudes, or their appearance. Its about the bullshit that they do to black men and the trouble they cause. Its about the poor choices they make and want to turn around and blame black men for their lives being fucked up. That is the problem I got with them. By me never really desiring to date a black woman it's easy for me to hell with them all. I know most black men and people in general won't agree with me and respect their position. However, I don't give a fuck. In my heart and mind I feel that my assessment of black women is accurate based on everything that I've seen from them.
 
Trey1540 said:
I'm completely respect where you coming from bro and you might be right. One thing I'll never do is pretend that I'm right on every issue. But let me clear a few things up so mistaken me for one of these "good" black men. I grew up in a black area and I've ran though plenty of black pussy. A lot of black women around here consider me to be sexy nigga. I can get up right at this second and go out there and get black chick with phat ass. So you're talking to one of these rejects that don't got no game and beefin with black women because he got ignored by them. In fact I'm the complete opposite. My issue I got with them has nothing to with bad relationships, their bad attitudes, or their appearance. Its about the bullshit that they do to black men and the trouble they cause. Its about the poor choices they make and want to turn around and blame black men for their lives being fucked up. That is the problem I got with them. By me never really desiring to date a black woman it's easy for me to hell with them all. I know most black men and people in general won't agree with me and respect their position. However, I don't give a fuck. In my heart and mind I feel that my assessment of black women is accurate based on everything that I've seen from them.
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What he said.
 
Trey1540 said:
I'm completely respect where you coming from bro and you might be right. One thing I'll never do is pretend that I'm right on every issue. But let me clear a few things up so mistaken me for one of these "good" black men. I grew up in a black area and I've ran though plenty of black pussy. A lot of black women around here consider me to be sexy nigga. I can get up right at this second and go out there and get black chick with phat ass. So you're talking to one of these rejects that don't got no game and beefin with black women because he got ignored by them. In fact I'm the complete opposite. My issue I got with them has nothing to with bad relationships, their bad attitudes, or their appearance. Its about the bullshit that they do to black men and the trouble they cause. Its about the poor choices they make and want to turn around and blame black men for their lives being fucked up. That is the problem I got with them. By me never really desiring to date a black woman it's easy for me to hell with them all. I know most black men and people in general won't agree with me and respect their position. However, I don't give a fuck. In my heart and mind I feel that my assessment of black women is accurate based on everything that I've seen from them.
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Straight music I can't tell you how to feel but what you described are sorry ass women in general. As an adult I haven't much trouble getting any women I want. The girls I get are usually 5 to 7s maybe an 8 or a 9 when my swag is on a hundred thousand trillion despite race but I date ww because they just hold my interest better on a whole. Right now I'm dating several women and one of them is black. She's nerdy private school kid just like me so we have a lot of common ground. My point is a lot of sorry women happen to be black but not all bw are sorry ass women. Get out of the hood fam it'll make you happier all around.
 
About twelve percent of America's 300 million people are black, which makes for about 37 million. So we'd guess, of 37 million black people, about half would be female, right?

In my heart and mind I feel that my assessment of black women is accurate based on everything that I've seen from them.
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You know 18 million people well enough to say that each and all of them are pretty much worthless? Man, you really do get around.

Or is it possible there are black women out there that you actually don't know anything about?
 
Cyrus said:
About twelve percent of America's 300 million people are black, which makes for about 37 million. So we'd guess, of 37 million black people, about half would be female, right?



You know 18 million people well enough to say that each and all of them are pretty much worthless? Man, you really do get around.

Or is it possible there are black women out there that you actually don't know anything about?
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Logic has no place here sir
 
Would it be too much trouble for us to go back to discussing white women please? If you wanna talk about BW then please go to one of their forums and knock yourself out.
 
Trey1540 said:
One thing has absolutely nothing to do with the other. My preference has always been white girls. I can honestly say I never had any desire to be in a relationship with black woman. My opinion of black women has absolutely nothing to do with my dating preference. It's strictly based on the trifling shit that I see black women. Is that so hard to believe?
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Then you're not who I'm talking about. I'm talking about the dudes who are fed up with BW, yet deep down inside want them. I'm not alone in my thinking, hence why I quoted LS. You're talking from a personal vantage point and I'm talking about what I've seen and heard.

I used one dude in particular as an example cause he would spew that 80% BW are blase blah (negative view). I know dude had mother issues too, so I know he also comes from a place of hurt, but like I said in one of my earlier posts, you KNOW deep down inside he wants to be with a BW. There are also some dudes who use WW, I'll just use this term for now, "to pass time". They'll be on some shit like, I'll fuck a WW, but I'm marrying a Sista. This is slightly different than the dude I mentioned, but still along the same lines of that thinking.
 
Trey1540 said:
I can careless about a woman's educational background or her money. To me those things don't matter. It seems like every race of women understands that except for black women. Anytime I see black women on tv or in public bitching about not being able to find a man the first thing they want to bring up is the fact that they have a degree and make good money. I never see them talk about anything that's relevant to what attracts a man to woman. Let me give you black female trolls some advice. You'll have more success finding a man if you're polite, feminine, loving, respectful, passionate, and submissive. You can get all the master degrees you want but at the end of the day these are the qualities that a man is looking for.
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Uhm... so why all these black singers are all celebrating "indipendent" women with money and career?
I think some of the women you talk about are very affected by the mass media, you know...
 
jaisee said:
Finding white women more attractive than black women is fine. I don't see a problem with that anymore than I see finding latin women more attractive than white women. This is all a matter of preference, be it a preference based on physical attraction or something deeper. Nobody can tell you what you can or can't be attracted to.

One thing that is becoming overwhelmingly common and quite infuriating is to see black males who use BW as leverage while lifting WW to some pedestal.

You black men need to quit forgetting. The black man that you are... the same black man that white women adore so much... is a black man born from the womb of a black woman.

This 'black women are inferior to....' complex that is growing so popular is quite pathetic.
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I agree with you Jaisee... I was like "don't these guys have a black mother?" LOL. JJ :prayer:
 
You rarely hear BM saying that the WW is "a trophy" or the "paradigm" of beauty - that's just an unwanted commentary that has found traction. As far as today's BW is concerned, you will hear older BW warning younger BM all the time to be careful because they are NOT THE SAME as previous generations. That's really all there is to it...
 
Adolescent09 said:
Howdy folks, I'm a black male who pretty much loves all races of women so I'm not sure if this question is pertinent to the members of this forum but I was simply curious...

I understand that many black men prefer to be with white women and that is perfectly cool but I was just thinking.... My sociology professor recently told me that there are more black women in college than black men (at my specific school there are almost twice as many bw as bm) and they tend to have much higher GPA's, are much more likely to finish their education, to be more independent, wealthy and educated, yet they find it very difficult to find/attract black men. I've run into a lot of black men who complain that there aren't enough successful/sophisticated black women around but if you look at virtually ANY college campus, university campus, or p.h.D program in the country you would realize that that is basically hog shit. They are literally crawling out of bookstores, libraries and campuses, so my two questions are as follows:

(1) Do black men sometimes try to cover up their aversion for women of their own race because they are embarrassed/shy to admit they prefer white women or other light-skinned women?

(2) Are black men willing to settle down with a gorgeous bw who is educated and well-off without having to deal with the societal hastle of coping with and IR relationship. Or are they more willing to settle down with a gorgeous ww who is educated and well-off, while having to deal with a litany of racial insults and abuse from white male counterparts?

I'm posting this because I'm interested in what people have to say, and because I need to come up with creative answers for my final exam :p
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1. do some black men? perhaps
2. well thats assuming that all are facing a litany of racial insults and abuse from white male counterparts. Its not happening to all of us, not saying some arent experiencing that, but not all of us. For me, its not about competition between WW and BW, its about whom im most comfortable with, shares my views on the world, values, and whom im most attracted to physically, mentally and emotionally.

I too have gone to a black college where the number of bw outnumbered bm 8 to 1. Its not that i couldnt find bw who were educated, were going to make money , etc. Its about whether i had anything in common with them to form a relationship, if she was or wasnt attracted to me and if we made a love connection--which clearly we didnt
 
andrae09 said:
Damn fam you need a hug and you need to heal for real. Most of us here have had bad experiences with women period. Based on past experiences living in NY most women(if they're attractive and know it) are stuck up wanna be princesses but as I get older I'm beginning to see that's my bullshit circle. Change circle homie. Even if you have no desire to date black women it'll be good to let go of the anger.
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Damn our circles must be identical lol...NY women can be a trip sometimes
 
Trey1540 said:
I'm completely respect where you coming from bro and you might be right. One thing I'll never do is pretend that I'm right on every issue. But let me clear a few things up so mistaken me for one of these "good" black men. I grew up in a black area and I've ran though plenty of black pussy. A lot of black women around here consider me to be sexy nigga. I can get up right at this second and go out there and get black chick with phat ass. So you're talking to one of these rejects that don't got no game and beefin with black women because he got ignored by them. In fact I'm the complete opposite. My issue I got with them has nothing to with bad relationships, their bad attitudes, or their appearance. Its about the bullshit that they do to black men and the trouble they cause. Its about the poor choices they make and want to turn around and blame black men for their lives being fucked up. That is the problem I got with them. By me never really desiring to date a black woman it's easy for me to hell with them all. I know most black men and people in general won't agree with me and respect their position. However, I don't give a fuck. In my heart and mind I feel that my assessment of black women is accurate based on everything that I've seen from them.
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Yeah I am new here, but the above was just silly. Preference, with regards to who you are attracted to is one thing, what you wrote above is personal and aggressive. If you truly want to understand why black women specifically and the black community in general is the way we are it is because of poor, pathetic, sorry tired lame as black MALE leadership. We leave them to head our homes and our community. We degrade them in our community, mannerisms, and speech.

Black women out earn us
They are more educated than us
They are the strength that we so lack.

...and then weak cats like yourself stand back and act is if the problem is with them and THEIR choices.

Nahh hommie the blame lies with us.

Now who you love, and are attracted to is your choice, but putting down your own, to justify that choice is weak.....real weak.

Just my two cents on it.


Can I add that I have been looking around the site and the ones dissin' black women are the males...and the ones defending them are the women. If you have to justified your attraction something deeper is going on.
 
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