Old White Woman Regret

They say it's never too late. Just cause a woman who's beyond her childbearing years is turning to black men for companionship doesn't make her less worthy she's just finally realizing that she needs to find her happiness.

Of course it also makes me glad that there are many young people following there hearts and not caving into what others may think of there choices in men cause of color.
 
Well for me I would rather get with a woman who was into IR in when she was younger,not saying that she had to be married to a black person but atleast had some attraction and dated a person of color back in the day. I am not trying to be mean but why would I want to get with somebody just deciding to get into the game in the 40s and 50s, And if I was to go that route she better look damn good for her age and she better be in shape.
 
INJERA70 said:
Well for me I would rather get with a woman who was into IR in when she was younger,not saying that she had to be married to a black person but atleast had some attraction and dated a person of color back in the day. I am not trying to be mean but why would I want to get with somebody just deciding to get into the game in the 40s and 50s, And if I was to go that route she better look damn good for her age and she better be in shape.
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Sometimes it just happens this way, but some women do think black men will appreciate them more even with flaws.
 
I wouldn't mind if she happened to be in the 40s and 50s just starting to try BM. At least she's trying. And if we have chemistry and she's attractive, I don't see any problem with it.
 
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Millionareman said:
Excuse me but why can't you get a BW because you're almost 40 ? That doesn't make any sense because I just hit 46 last month and I have women from 21 to 50's giving me action.

As for white men not want a plus size white woman, that's a sad reality, most men prefer women that slender or athletic looking so it's not just white men and it's not being mean, it's called preferance.
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I think you misunderstood me or maybe I did not communicate my thoughts well....

I'm not saying I can't get black women because of my age. No. I was asking a rhetorical question because some folks seem to think that “old” white women are into black men because they are past their prime and can't get white guys.

Also, I was not saying that people [guys] who don't like plus size women are mean. No. I say to each his/her own. I respect that.
I was saying it seems to me that some guys here are going above and beyond to let it be known that they are not into big women because of fear of myths. That they are letting it be known to the point of being mean.

It almost reminds me of white women who'll go out of their way to let “brothas” know that they don't “date down”.
[I placed date down in quotes]
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Cool D, but help a brother out by sharing with me about the big women myth ?

Also seeings how I'm new to the IR dating scene, share with me the ways some white women go out of their ways to let a brothas know that they don't date down ( meaning date black men ) ?
 
JREMINATOR said:
Millionareman said:
As for white men not want a plus size white woman, that's a sad reality, most men prefer women that slender or athletic looking so it's not just white men and it's not being mean, it's called preferance.
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Hmmm...I know this sounds like a terrible cliche, but I really do see a lot of BM with FAT FAT women all over the place...BW as well as WW...I am still seriously wondering what`s the deal with that!

Like Seychelles reminded us again, the Ir scene in the US and in Europe are two different animals...most of the things bruddas here say about WW in America are extremely far from the behavior of non-northern American WW!
Go for foreign girls bruddas, they do not wait until they are 40, or fat or rejected to go for BM!
Don`t believe me? check out this fairy!...yeo she`s the one who stole my heart and...God am I glad she doesn`t intend to return it!! :)
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Very good point, I've been going to London England since 83 and IR is very much out in the open, believe it or not, for a good ole boy town, Las Vegas NV is very much into IR too :)
 
In my experience . I've always dealt with white women only wanting sex from me. To the average white woman if you're a young black and not a successful athlete or a professional entertainer, you are a bed toy. An experiment, a lab rat, and opportunity to go slumming. You aren't someone to take home to Mommy and Daddy unless you are exceptionally successful. That being said, white women can and ARE in most cases

The only white girls I ever knew (on a for real basis) that I'm cool with to this day are "in-hoods", and one of them can't fucking STAND HER own people because she saw first hand what we went through behind them.....

Some white girls will date black men, while calling us niggers behind closed doors.

And other white girls are just whores, i treat them as such

I think the fact that some black men would actually date a white mans left overs proves why white men believe they are superior to us.
 
All races of women can be whores, all races of women can fuck a man but not want to take him to their parents, all races of women can gold dig.
 
BlackMasterJay said:
In my experience . I've always dealt with white women only wanting sex from me. To the average white woman if you're a young black and not a successful athlete or a professional entertainer, you are a bed toy. An experiment, a lab rat, and opportunity to go slumming. You aren't someone to take home to Mommy and Daddy unless you are exceptionally successful. That being said, white women can and ARE in most cases

The only white girls I ever knew (on a for real basis) that I'm cool with to this day are "in-hoods", and one of them can't fucking STAND HER own people because she saw first hand what we went through behind them.....

Some white girls will date black men, while calling us niggers behind closed doors.

And other white girls are just whores, i treat them as such

I think the fact that some black men would actually date a white mans left overs proves why white men believe they are superior to us.
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wow.

that's really sad. I realize there are WW who date BM for sex, for rebellion, for less than honorable reasons.. and quite frankly there are plenty of BM who date WW for those same reasons. But we are not all like that. There are those of us with a preference for BM who respect them and honor them down to their heart, who even in anger in their head do not call their men the 'n' word. Who will stand by them through thick and thin. Those who are not anyone's leftovers.
 
BlackMasterJay said:
In my experience . I've always dealt with white women only wanting sex from me. To the average white woman if you're a young black and not a successful athlete or a professional entertainer, you are a bed toy. An experiment, a lab rat, and opportunity to go slumming. You aren't someone to take home to Mommy and Daddy unless you are exceptionally successful. That being said, white women can and ARE in most cases

The only white girls I ever knew (on a for real basis) that I'm cool with to this day are "in-hoods", and one of them can't fucking STAND HER own people because she saw first hand what we went through behind them.....

Some white girls will date black men, while calling us niggers behind closed doors.

And other white girls are just whores, i treat them as such

I think the fact that some black men would actually date a white mans left overs proves why white men believe they are superior to us.
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Another brudda who needs to open his eyes...
Jeez man you sound like you actually hate WW...do you? that would be a shame, simply bcoz hatred is such a waste of energy (save it for good sex).

Like Sassy said, a lot of BM sleep with W for the same reasons...to experiment something new, they treat them like lab rats too, in Europe many BM, not succesfull at all, actually sleep with WW for their money...so you see it all depends on the context...and on the persons...

There are many truly genuine WW (many post on this website) and there are the fake ones...just like there are many authentic, sincere, caring BM (again, many on this website) and there are the ones who sleep around, are liars and only use WW!

Hey the world isn`t Black and White, man, it has millions of colors...and they are beautiful!! :)
 
BlackMasterJay said:
In my experience . I've always dealt with white women only wanting sex from me. To the average white woman if you're a young black and not a successful athlete or a professional entertainer, you are a bed toy. An experiment, a lab rat, and opportunity to go slumming. You aren't someone to take home to Mommy and Daddy unless you are exceptionally successful. That being said, white women can and ARE in most cases

The only white girls I ever knew (on a for real basis) that I'm cool with to this day are "in-hoods", and one of them can't fucking STAND HER own people because she saw first hand what we went through behind them.....

Some white girls will date black men, while calling us niggers behind closed doors.

And other white girls are just whores, i treat them as such

I think the fact that some black men would actually date a white mans left overs proves why white men believe they are superior to us.
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Some of what you say is true, but bm have been known to use ww also.
 
That is true. Both sides of the fence have those who date for less than honest reasons.

What it would be nice to do it put them all in one group and let them date each other!
 
Auburnfanatic wrote,

auburnfanatic said:
well, i haven't been here in a while but i found this post interesting- i guess b/c i'm 32 and for the first time have gotten involved with a bm. i'm seriously trying to figure out why i never dated bm before- and i'm sure subconciously a big part of it was my dad. i'm also in the southeast (alabama!) but grew up in tennessee. it's not that i never gave bm a chance when i was younger- but i honestly don't remember any bm approaching me or asking me out. i didn't run in the same circles- and i was the girl in high school that always had a boyfriend... so maybe i was never approached... who knows. all i can say, from the bottom of my heart is that i'm not turning to bm in my 30's b/c i can't get a white man. and i'm definitely not past my prime or overweight at 5'1 105 lbs! i know this wasn't for all white women but i wanted to put my 2 cents in. and if you really want to know the truth, i wish i had dated bm at an earlier age- somehow i alienated them- almost as if they weren't in my world at all, which is strange. but now it's totally different, my world is very integrated- i'm not so self-centered or exclusive... guess i've matured a little bit...lol

ok, your thoughts???
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WELL, I"LL JUST BE DAMNED. Let me clear my throat a little :drinkers:

My, my, my Auburnfanatic, aren't we quite proud. Damn, I am just curious about something. What would bring such an esteemed and privileged girl such as yourself (who has always had the cream of the crop) to date or associate with lowly commoners like us? I am just curious that's all.............

Fellas this is yet another reason to avoid the south and another reason to
go with what Jrem said about European women.

I have been away for a while to get some positive energy from the cold reality of this world.....Then I come back to read shit like this........
Man oh man...........
Well, first of all, I do commend you for stepping out of your lime light to mingle with such lowly commoners, I just hope that you don't think you are doing us a favor because this is the attitude of a lot of WW in the U.S., but like Sassy said, "It's not all of them though." U.S. women tend to forget that their shit does stink and that there are other types of women all over the planet that would gladly date a BM, especially one that has something going for himself. Thank goodness I have met quality WW (as well as other types) that don't wait until AFTER they've had kids, gotten married 3 times, and gotten old to all of a sudden say, I LOVE BLACK MEN. This game is getting old.

Thanks for the advice JR. This thread only enforces my want for traveling abroad to meet real quality women in abundance. The United States has just spoiled these women to think that they are more than they are. Oh, and good luck with your girl JR. I hope you and her live happily ever after. Be sure to post pics of the baby when that time comes....... :smt023
 
nilan said:
I have been away for a while to get some positive energy from the cold reality of this world.....
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you've been missed Nilan. I was just about to ask if anyone knew where you were
 
Wow, I'm not even game to comment. Race relations in the US seem like a whole different beast.

I would absolutely never, ever say that in Australia you see any prevelance of WW 'slumming' it with black men. In fact, I would say these women are often the young, Generation Y- who are (in Australia at least) more educated than any of the other generations. These women are attractive, successful and desirable- and some of them just happen to want black men.

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And on the older white women thing- some women may have felt so bullied and shamed in their past if they came from a racist upbringing/town that they never felt comfortable going 'against the grain'- and maybe they have just been fortunate enough to come to the realisation later in life- and sometimes, after kids and a life well lived, they are just fatter! ;)



I agree about the European thing though- I am Australian but Eastern European background/genetically whatever, we just rock generally :D
 
nilan said:
Auburnfanatic wrote,

auburnfanatic said:
well, i haven't been here in a while but i found this post interesting- i guess b/c i'm 32 and for the first time have gotten involved with a bm. i'm seriously trying to figure out why i never dated bm before- and i'm sure subconciously a big part of it was my dad. i'm also in the southeast (alabama!) but grew up in tennessee. it's not that i never gave bm a chance when i was younger- but i honestly don't remember any bm approaching me or asking me out. i didn't run in the same circles- and i was the girl in high school that always had a boyfriend... so maybe i was never approached... who knows. all i can say, from the bottom of my heart is that i'm not turning to bm in my 30's b/c i can't get a white man. and i'm definitely not past my prime or overweight at 5'1 105 lbs! i know this wasn't for all white women but i wanted to put my 2 cents in. and if you really want to know the truth, i wish i had dated bm at an earlier age- somehow i alienated them- almost as if they weren't in my world at all, which is strange. but now it's totally different, my world is very integrated- i'm not so self-centered or exclusive... guess i've matured a little bit...lol

ok, your thoughts???
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WELL, I"LL JUST BE DAMNED. Let me clear my throat a little :drinkers:

My, my, my Auburnfanatic, aren't we quite proud. Damn, I am just curious about something. What would bring such an esteemed and privileged girl such as yourself (who has always had the cream of the crop) to date or associate with lowly commoners like us? I am just curious that's all.............

Fellas this is yet another reason to avoid the south and another reason to
go with what Jrem said about European women.

I have been away for a while to get some positive energy from the cold reality of this world.....Then I come back to read shit like this........
Man oh man...........
Well, first of all, I do commend you for stepping out of your lime light to mingle with such lowly commoners, I just hope that you don't think you are doing us a favor because this is the attitude of a lot of WW in the U.S., but like Sassy said, "It's not all of them though." U.S. women tend to forget that their shit does stink and that there are other types of women all over the planet that would gladly date a BM, especially one that has something going for himself. Thank goodness I have met quality WW (as well as other types) that don't wait until AFTER they've had kids, gotten married 3 times, and gotten old to all of a sudden say, I LOVE BLACK MEN. This game is getting old.

Thanks for the advice JR. This thread only enforces my want for traveling abroad to meet real quality women in abundance. The United States has just spoiled these women to think that they are more than they are. Oh, and good luck with your girl JR. I hope you and her live happily ever after. Be sure to post pics of the baby when that time comes....... :smt023
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ok, well i've obviously made some people very upset, and i'm sorry about that... anyway, i never meant to give the impression that i'm esteemed and priveledged, always having the "cream of the crop", etc. b/c that wasn't necessarily the case. i was just trying to present my situation as honestly as i could. i'm not sure i understand why you think i think so highly of myself- if you knew me at all you would laugh at yourself for writing that. i really think that you misunderstood what i was saying- or maybe you didn't, i don't know. one thing i do know is that i never thought i was too good for anyone,ever. i've always been a very humble person and i guess that's why i was so shocked to see the reaction to what i had posted. it almost scares me to write in here just b/c i don't feel like i'm very good at communicating everything i'm trying to say, the way i'm trying to say it completely without misunderstanding
 
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