Maintaining Blackness

[Madeleine]

We live on opposite sides of the country.

Oh, too bad:-(

 

[DudeNY12]

Oh, too bad:-(

It's her fault

 

[Reverie]

That's one thing I have to give white women overall is that so many have the ability to let you just be. It definitely isn't always perfect but the ability to just be yourself without consequence makes for a much happier relationship. I get that bw face a lot of challenges but I often think they forget so do we. The one thing I will say I envy about wm is their ability to literally be anything and anyone it be ok. The exist outside of binaries and are rarely held to anyone's standard but their own.

<3

 

[RaiderLL]

We live on opposite sides of the country.

It's her fault

You 2 do seem like you'd make a great couple! People have made it work with much farther distances between them. Just sayin lol.

 

[RicardoCooper]

I would ask them why. What makes them "a great catch." Because they believe? Lmao

Well they're bringing weave, debt, drama, and more than likely another man's kids. You better step it up to get on her level.

 

[Beasty]

Well they're bringing weave, debt, drama, and more than likely another man's kids. You better step it up to get on her level.

I'm too weak to handle that. Lol

 

[RicardoCooper]

I'm too weak to handle that. Lol

ANOTHER WEAK NEGRO! YOU CAN'T HANDLE A STRONG WOMAN!

</swivelhead move>

</sarc>

 

[Madeleine]

Well they're bringing weave, debt, drama, and more than likely another man's kids. You better step it up to get on her level.

Sounds irresistible. Fake nails as well.

 

[orejon4]

Lol @ Blair Underwood soul brother blackness.

Hey man you should at least go to church on easter. Lmao j/k

I haven't been to church since I was a teen. Welcome back.

Well Beasty, I see I'm not the only heathen on the site, lol. Other than political campaigns/purposes, funeral masses and a Christmas Eve mass in 1999 to placate my ex-wife, I haven't set foot in a Hallelujah House in decades.

It's good to be back! Hope you've been doing well.

That's one thing I have to give white women overall is that so many have the ability to let you just be. It definitely isn't always perfect but the ability to just be yourself without consequence makes for a much happier relationship. I get that bw face a lot of challenges but I often think they forget so do we. The one thing I will say I envy about wm is their ability to literally be anything and anyone it be ok. The exist outside of binaries and are rarely held to anyone's standard but their own.

I'm sure that white America can be terribly conformist as well, but the sheer size of the white population in the US means their counter-culture is much larger. In addition the emphasis on the individual (while it can be a problem in other areas) seems to grant more freedoms to people. I understand that as a minority group, belonging takes on a larger role than in other groups, but that doesn't make it any less stifling.