Is your attraction exclusively toward ww/bm?

My preference has always been BM, but living in a predominantly white country, finding a real one in a black man is an unrealistic goal. and no disrespect but Africans aren’t my type. It’s actually disheartening being attracted to one type of man living in a place like this and not being able to settle for a hairy overweight scaly skinned dandruff infested white man :-(
 
beccaomecca said:
My preference has always been BM, but living in a predominantly white country, finding a real one in a black man is an unrealistic goal. and no disrespect but Africans aren’t my type. It’s actually disheartening being attracted to one type of man living in a place like this and not being able to settle for a hairy overweight scaly skinned dandruff infested white man :-(
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Well it doesn't have to be this way, especially in this day and age. With online dating being so popular and mainstream, you are no longer bound by your geographic location and the local population that lives in it, you can meet literally anyone from any part of the world! Yes, staring out as a long distance relationship would be challenging and not every guy would be interested in one, but it it very possible and very doable, and I am sure there are plenty of men who would love to be with you!! I have a friend who lived here in GA and met a guy from Germany online and ended up marrying him, also have a cousin who met a woman from Japan online and a ended up marrying her... So give it a try, don't give up, life is too short to date men you aren't attracted to!
 
jen14 said:
Well it doesn't have to be this way, especially in this day and age. With online dating being so popular and mainstream, you are no longer bund by your geographic location and the local population that lives in it, you can meet literally anyone from any part of the world! Yes, staring out as a long distance relationship would be challenging and not every guy would be interested in one, but it it very possible and very doable, and I am sure there are plenty of men who would love to be with you!! I have a friend who lived here in GA and met a guy from Germany online and ended up marrying him, also have a cousin who met a woman from Japan online and a ended up marrying her... So give it a try, don't give up, life is too short to date men you aren't attracted to!
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Aww, well aren’t you quite the sweetheart :) Thank you for your positive vibes I really appreciate that. A few years back I gave the whole long distance relationship thing a go, met an Alabamian (I don’t know if that’s a word) lol and we did the long distance thing for just over a year until it became too hard and he came out and lived with me for a year (worst experience of my life) so I’ve been single with no dating in between for the last six years because I can’t bring myself to date Australians lol it feels so weird to say that I’m not attracted to my own people lol

I don’t know if it’s this generation of people but it seems loyalty is super hard to find and commitment with one person isn’t desired and that comes with online dating too.

That’s so awesome about your cousin and friend xx I think once my youngster is established in years to come I’ll have a new lease on life and won’t be so confined to residing in Australia :) I still have hope of finding the love of my life hahah. But for now, I will have to just receive all the love my pug gives me haha she snores like a man too!
 
It's been a while! But I always have been I've dated bw,aw,lw, and ww but I always find WW have always had a deeper heart and care for black men and even in real history WW during and after slavery, minority ww had our backs and still do and willing to do everything that they have to do to be a black mans wife. So for me its deeper than the physical but its astral and multidimensional.
 
Ronniejr said:
It's been a while! But I always have been I've dated bw,aw,lw, and ww but I always find WW have always had a deeper heart and care for black men and even in real history WW during and after slavery, minority ww had our backs and still do and willing to do everything that they have to do to be a black mans wife. So for me its deeper than the physical but its astral and multidimensional.
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That's intense. For me it's always been about who was most accepting of me as I am without caveats and criticisms about what I need to fix. I, too, have dated women from nearly every ethnic group on the planet, and have found women from my own ethnic backgrounds to be the most critical about any characteristic of mine that deviates from "the norm". That almost never happens with ww.

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That's similar to my experience as well.
 
orejon4 said:
That's intense. For me it's always been about who was most accepting of me as I am without caveats and criticisms about what I need to fix. I, too, have dated women from nearly every ethnic group on the planet, and have found women from my own ethnic backgrounds to be the most critical about any characteristic of mine that deviates from "the norm". That almost never happens with ww.


That's similar to my experience as well.
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That being said, I am equal opportunity as long as it works for the two of us.
 
I was on my pro-black kick in college, but it was me trying to find my place in the world. For some reason, white women were more attracted to my qualities. I couldn’t avoid them because they made their presence known. It got to a point where I caved and tried one out. White women didn’t disappoint in the least bit. Originally, it seemed that it would be hard for them to relate to black men, but nothing could be further from the truth. I’ve found that they experience many of the same things in their communities that black men experience in our own communities, which makes for an interesting dynamic. Culturally, I’ve found many white women to be communicators. I’m attracted to that. I like having informed debates and meaningful discourse. It has never been beneath any of the white women I’ve dated to have a conversation about any topic, even if they don’t necessarily like it or can relate to it. White women intrigued my mind first and foremost, and as a result, the physical attraction to white women followed. The rest is history.
 
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It's been equal op for me much of my life. In younger years before I moved out of the inner city... I leaned more toward the latinas, and later I leaned more toward WW.
 
beccaomecca said:
I've tried to date Aussie, and the latest an African (didnt work out too many lies told) but my real attraction is only African Americans :( I think it's just the accent and swagga that gets me.
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Hope you find that Yank brother soon. What's your opinion on a Commonwealth brother like a Canadian,Pom,or Caribbean?
 
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