JamalSpunky
Well-Known Member
I forgot to mention I don't think Rhianna is betraying her race of black men by working in these films. That's why I gave cinque a shout out for making that point. But obviously there is a double standard. Will studios line up black guys as co-stars for taylor Swift when she makes her jump to films? No.
There is nothing wrong with differences of opinion. But I hate the idea that any group of people should not voice their displeasure when they feel that they are being slighted of if they have to deal with hypocrisy. Of course its important to not let your frustration rule your life and turn you into a hate-spewing machine. But I also don't accept the passive stance that nothin can be done about double standards and therefore one should accept them. Progress all across the world (even in minor things such as entertainment and sports) would have not been made if that was the type of attitude everyone chose to adopt. I refuse to play victim and at the same time I choose to not let things slide just because my life may be good.
I want changes because I want black males of my generation and especially coming behind me to not have society place limits on what type of things they can do. In politics it means one thing, in sports in means another, in the real world it means something else, in the music biz it means this and that, etc. But in movies it means that a black boy should have the opportunity to see himself as a prince, a superhero, a desirable human being, a complicated and interesting figure. Black males should have the fortune of seeing themselves on the screen as icons. And if black female stars are allowed to break that romantic color line when it comes to white co-stars then black males should be as well. Why settle for less and by "less" I mean accepting that as a black guy you aren't allowed to do what white guys and black girls get to do. Black women don't accept this limitation. Not if they can help it.
I won't be like some who think just because an industry is friendly towards black women then its fine for me to support it as well. I turned down a few times to go see an opera with one of my sisters because while the industry has been increasingly opened to black women, it has historically remained closed for the most part to black men. Why pay money for that? If I want to see black male singers ignored or rejected in a white setting even as black female singers keep moving forward I can always stay home and watch American Idol for free. Now my sister doesn't get this and some of my friends don't understand where I'm coming from either. But I don't see it as me having a problem for not thinking like they do, I see it as all of them lacking an awareness or a sensitivity that would make it all so obvious. I veiw posters the same way here. I do appreciate the folks who actually get it; who see these little but important truths and despise them as I do. For those who don't see it or don't care that's fine and good. And yes when people don't understand and accept the status quo they may tend to take cheap shots at those of us who think a little differently. But I won't feel ashamed or apologetic for no longer having blinders over my eyes.
There is nothing wrong with differences of opinion. But I hate the idea that any group of people should not voice their displeasure when they feel that they are being slighted of if they have to deal with hypocrisy. Of course its important to not let your frustration rule your life and turn you into a hate-spewing machine. But I also don't accept the passive stance that nothin can be done about double standards and therefore one should accept them. Progress all across the world (even in minor things such as entertainment and sports) would have not been made if that was the type of attitude everyone chose to adopt. I refuse to play victim and at the same time I choose to not let things slide just because my life may be good.
I want changes because I want black males of my generation and especially coming behind me to not have society place limits on what type of things they can do. In politics it means one thing, in sports in means another, in the real world it means something else, in the music biz it means this and that, etc. But in movies it means that a black boy should have the opportunity to see himself as a prince, a superhero, a desirable human being, a complicated and interesting figure. Black males should have the fortune of seeing themselves on the screen as icons. And if black female stars are allowed to break that romantic color line when it comes to white co-stars then black males should be as well. Why settle for less and by "less" I mean accepting that as a black guy you aren't allowed to do what white guys and black girls get to do. Black women don't accept this limitation. Not if they can help it.
I won't be like some who think just because an industry is friendly towards black women then its fine for me to support it as well. I turned down a few times to go see an opera with one of my sisters because while the industry has been increasingly opened to black women, it has historically remained closed for the most part to black men. Why pay money for that? If I want to see black male singers ignored or rejected in a white setting even as black female singers keep moving forward I can always stay home and watch American Idol for free. Now my sister doesn't get this and some of my friends don't understand where I'm coming from either. But I don't see it as me having a problem for not thinking like they do, I see it as all of them lacking an awareness or a sensitivity that would make it all so obvious. I veiw posters the same way here. I do appreciate the folks who actually get it; who see these little but important truths and despise them as I do. For those who don't see it or don't care that's fine and good. And yes when people don't understand and accept the status quo they may tend to take cheap shots at those of us who think a little differently. But I won't feel ashamed or apologetic for no longer having blinders over my eyes.