Black Men are Cheaters?

MilkandCoffee

MilkandCoffee

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So, funny story. I overhear this guy and two girls talking; this guy's trying to mack on these girls but they aren't feeling him at all and hit him with the ole "You're not our type".

He asks what their type is and they say "Tall, dark, and handsome, emphasis on dark". This guy gets all types of butthurt and goes on a rant about bm being dead beats and cheaters.

Now, I've heard these scare tactics from men and women to keep women from dating bm in the past, but I really want to address the cheating excuse.

What do you think of this stereotype? Will bm inevitably cheat on their partners?
 
I am an compulsive cheater.

Possibly those women could of speaking of white men still like Italian or maybe ever middle easterners. Time after time I 've heard white women say they like em tall, dark, and handsome but they didn't find black men attractive.
 
4north1side2 said:
I am an compulsive cheater.

Possibly those women could of speaking of white men still like Italian or maybe ever middle easterners. Time after time I 've heard white women say they like em tall, dark, and handsome but they didn't find black men attractive.
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They were talking about black.
 
Cheating is a human thing not a black thing. IMO it's inevitable that many (most?) people will cheat, regardless of the color of their skin.
 
MilkandCoffee said:
So, funny story. I overhear this guy and two girls talking; this guy's trying to mack on these girls but they aren't feeling him at all and hit him with the ole "You're not our type".

He asks what their type is and they say "Tall, dark, and handsome, emphasis on dark". This guy gets all types of butthurt and goes on a rant about bm being dead beats and cheaters.

Now, I've heard these scare tactics from men and women to keep women from dating bm in the past, but I really want to address the cheating excuse.

What do you think of this stereotype? Will bm inevitably cheat on their partners?
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What in the dark skin genetics would contribute to cheating? Its like smelling the color nine.
 
FG said:
What in the dark skin genetics would contribute to cheating? Its like smelling the color nine.
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That's not a question I can answer, but I think that guy thinks bm will cheat on ww is because of the media (Tiger, Lamar, etc.).
 
orejon4 said:
Your nose is that sensitive? Wow... :rolleyes:
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Lol. Just making a point of the obvious. Behavior such a cheating has nothing to do with skin color. There is no such tie.

MilkandCoffee said:
That's not a question I can answer, but I think that guy thinks bm will cheat on ww is because of the media (Tiger, Lamar, etc.).
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Plenty of cheating wm in the media also.. Or women. Etc.

It's just a deflection mechanism by insecure people. Or racists. Or both.
 
I recall a time during my visits to the AOL interracial chat lines years ago, when a white man would enter and say a lot of shit about black men taking white women away from them. I chatted with him and he admitted that his wife left him for a black man and he was upset about it. I sympathized with him and explained that most black men are not home wreckers. I felt that he simply wanted someone to share his grief with. I had met a black guy who was an admitted adulterer. He simply couldn't help himself. Some men and women, regardless of race, will give into temptation. Actress Cameron Diaz said that people will get cheated on at some point in their relationship.
 
FG said:
What in the dark skin genetics would contribute to cheating? Its like smelling the color nine.
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It smells like Marzipan and old spice :D


Serious though, I think anyone has the ability to cheat, I'd say it would be more to do with looks and opportunity, either or both.
Oh and whether they are a bit of shitty person, no reason to cheat, not happy/searching for something more, move on....simples

Not a race related issue:D
 
oh lord, I'm sorry to sound ''racist'' but this is true, a lot of white men just can't handle feeling insufficient at the side of black men and that can come out in jealous stereotypes and all kinds of pointless and misplaced aggression and name calling!
Of course, that's not true in all cases, and I'm sure some black men are serial cheaters, but no more than white guys, or any other kind of guy.
Black men just seem to have more confidence, and a lot of people can take that as arrogance and as an indication of being ''players'' or whatever.
The black man I am with right now is fiercely loyal to me, and I trust him more in different ways than I have ever trusted a lot of the white guys I have been with!
 
MilkandCoffee said:
So, funny story. I overhear this guy and two girls talking; this guy's trying to mack on these girls but they aren't feeling him at all and hit him with the ole "You're not our type".

He asks what their type is and they say "Tall, dark, and handsome, emphasis on dark". This guy gets all types of butthurt and goes on a rant about bm being dead beats and cheaters.

Now, I've heard these scare tactics from men and women to keep women from dating bm in the past, but I really want to address the cheating excuse.

What do you think of this stereotype? Will bm inevitably cheat on their partners?
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We are all human beings, right?

I' m sometimes so tired of stereotypes and lies, ignorance, low intelligence, stupidity and malice..how in god's name can someone say or even believe this??:smt108
 
christine dubois said:
We are all human beings, right?

I' m sometimes so tired of stereotypes and lies, ignorance, low intelligence, stupidity and malice..how in god's name can someone say or even believe this??:smt108
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Well that's the point of the question, no one here has answered yes to the statement so no one here actually believes it.

Also, this isn't a debate on people cheating as a whole. I'm more interested in whether or not people think bm are more willing to cheat in an ir relationship than other races of men?
 
FG said:
Lol. Just making a point of the obvious. Behavior such a cheating has nothing to do with skin color. There is no such tie.

Plenty of cheating wm in the media also.. Or women. Etc.

It's just a deflection mechanism by insecure people. Or racists. Or both.
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Bingo.

EatYourBooks said:
Black men are cheaters.

Men are cheaters.

People are cheaters.

Fixed.
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Thank you.
 
MilkandCoffee said:
Well that's the point of the question, no one here has answered yes to the statement so no one here actually believes it.

Also, this isn't a debate on people cheating as a whole. I'm more interested in whether or not people think bm are more willing to cheat in an ir relationship than other races of men?
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I've already answered your question. A person of a different skin colour is still a human being, not an alien we have to assume, what is he is going to do in a certain situation. To cheat is an act of weakness, or of your general character or the lack of responsibility.
 
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