The "Thank you" thread

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by Arwen, Jul 20, 2009.

  1. luvattractivewomen

    luvattractivewomen New Member

    crappy = shitty, but I didn't want to curse...
     
  2. jaisee

    jaisee Well-Known Member

    You know how when white people ask "Black people call each other the N word all the time, how come you get so upset when we do it?".... no matter what reason we give for it, the fact is black people generally do not want white people calling us the N word.

    The C word denigrates a woman to her sexual anatomy. Generally it's taken to mean that a womans value is her vagina. Think about it, you'll hear men and women call men and women a 'pussy', but how often do you hear a guy call another guy a 'c'?

    Just like with the N word, I don't feel that I should have to explain to white people why it is so offensive for them to use the word. I expect that the fact that they know it is so highly offensive alone is reason enough not to use it. So should be with the C word. If we know that it is highly offensive to women, there's really no reason not to just let it go.
     
  3. jaisee

    jaisee Well-Known Member

    My last post probably didn't make much sense.... I'm sleepy... going to bed.
     
  4. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Yes it did. :smt023

    Nite-nite. :D
     
  5. Stheno

    Stheno New Member

    Thanks everyone for the nice rep .. :smt023
     
  6. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Like I said there is no historical context to the word and yet words like bitch, whore, and ho denigrate women to their sexual anatomy so like I said and will maintain it is completely made up false outrage. They(as a group/personally) have suffered nothing because of the word and its context. And unlike the N word in the context you used the "c word" is meant to insult but its not because their women its because the person its directed at is being the c word. Men are called that word as well so its not specifically directed at women where as the N word is only directed at black people. So while you tried to ride in on your horse PD3000 no cigar sir try again.
     
  7. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    lol...i thought you said crazy. i blame the bright sunshine i was basking in at the time for me misreading your word.
     
  8. LA

    LA Well-Known Member

    I would like to thank life for giving me hell, yet, patting me on the back as I went through it.
     
  9. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

    You say that "cunt" lacks a historical meaning? Sonny, it's older than nigger. MUCH older and we're talking as far back as 13th century. Now granted, is it as bad as saying nigger? Well, not really. Cunt has the potential to kill off a career, but nigger is definitely a career-killer, even under light circumstances. But, like any symbol or word, the meanings expand or alter pending the times.

    Cunt was originally used for both men and women, but today, it's predominantly used for women. Nigger, while mainly still used for blacks, it's been modified, both by name and usage by the very people that get offended by it, in a "friendly" way. Hell, even whites can be considered niggers, so are Arabs, Native Indians, and other sorts. Regardless of all that, the words are only as powerful as the individual's reaction towards it.

     
  10. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    I explained the context earlier. Cunt in recent history has not been used to dehumanize nor has it ever been legally recognized in this country to deny access to the people it was aimed at. Its like calling a dirty bomb and rifle the smae thing because they're both considered weapons.
     
  11. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

    Neither has the word, nigger. They are simply words and only the person offended give them such power. Cunt and nigger are, for the most part, relatively the same. Both have psychological reprecussions if you wield it, but societal laws and influences actually hindered the progress of blacks. Not a simple word that's been etched in the mind.

    Being called something hasn't deterred you from anything. It's the laws during those times which brought great problems to varied peoples.

     
  12. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    The word was attached to action it was the same tactic used to dehumanize the jews when they were being killed. Strip away their humanity then you can treat them worst than dogs. Cunt was never used for that. It's more of an individual insult like asshole.
     
  13. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

    You're making excuses, Andrae. Nothing more. Verbal action is never as strong as the physical action. And secondly, your Jew argument makes no sense at all. Jews weren't "dehumanized" by a verbal word (Kike). Rather, the physical actions towards them were dehumanizing. With blacks, there was a psychological breakdown, less so on the word, and more so on the laws etched in society and the physical actions which were accepted during those times.

    Again, being called a nigger was only as strong as the person wants it to be.

     
  14. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Ok believe that if you want. Physical action against them is accepted since they aren't one of us and no better way to seperate them from us than by calling them something that only refers to them. It all goes hand in hand. But you win its an excuse. Happy now :D
     
  15. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

    You're too quick to cower when I refute your claims. I question you sometimes. But humor me for a minute, Andrae. Do you get mad if someone calls you a nigger? If so, does that mean that by reacting to it, you're allowing yourself to be called one?

     
  16. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Depends on the context I'm not a knee jerk reactionist. I never cower my friend ask around. I just realize now that there is a point where I choose to just let us have our own opinions because either of us are ever swayed
     
  17. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    oh you two...!!!! why don't you both just whip them out, measure them, take pics for proof, post them and be done with it already :p
     
  18. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Only if you promise to be my personal fluffer baby ;)
     
  19. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

    Hmmm, I don't know about that. You're quite persistent when when debating certain others to prove a point (however off-colored you are). I could assume a few things, but why stir the pot even further when you're already somewhat a pariah to certain individuals on here?

     
  20. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    send me the job description, hourly rate and health care cover and i'll think about it
     

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