I disagree. When I say to listen to yourself...I'm talking about your true self not the bs that runs through your head. That's why I said to still the mind and the answers are there. I could have just as easily said to still the mind and meditate/pray (whatever one happens to do) and the answer will become clear.
If you talk to most people who are nearing death and ask them if they have any regrets in life - the regrets are typically times when they did not trust themselves and listened to what someone else told them to do in life.
People usually get themselves in shitty positions because they live their lives doing what they have been told to do, what outsiders think, society says, etc. Because they are following someone or something rather than tuning into themselves.
But if you really feel the need to get advice from another person, then it's best to get it from someone who you feel is truly successful in whatever it is you are trying to succeed in.