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This was an extremely tough week for me. I lost my three year old kitty who I adored and had some family problems to deal with. Thank God I have wonderful friends to lean on. I am fortunate.
 
My lil sis got married last weekend, it was a wedding by the beach, very romantic and beautiful. I love weddings but the moment my sis put her dress on I cried........ She became a princess and I was so happy for her.... MY TURN NEXT,,,,,,,,,,,,, just saying.... hehehe









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curleyblonde said:
My lil sis got married last weekend, it was a wedding by the beach, very romantic and beautiful. I love weddings but the moment my sis put her dress on I cried........ She became a princess and I was so happy for her.... MY TURN NEXT,,,,,,,,,,,,, just saying.... hehehe









putting it out there so it happens
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put it out there!!

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Congratulations to your sister! Yeah....weddings and babies always give me that itch! I remember that feeling when I tried on dresses, too...
 
Cherok33 said:
put it out there!!

;)

Congratulations to your sister! Yeah....weddings and babies always give me that itch! I remember that feeling when I tried on dresses, too...
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Its a wonderful thing to watch and be a part of, a wedding is special. I have gone through many different emotions,,, I would never marry again, will,,,, then won't,,,,, and now back to I WILL.
 
curleyblonde said:
My lil sis got married last weekend, it was a wedding by the beach, very romantic and beautiful. I love weddings but the moment my sis put her dress on I cried........ She became a princess and I was so happy for her.... MY TURN NEXT,,,,,,,,,,,,, just saying.... hehehe









putting it out there so it happens
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curleyblonde said:
Its a wonderful thing to watch and be a part of, a wedding is special. I have gone through many different emotions,,, I would never marry again, will,,,, then won't,,,,, and now back to I WILL.
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ha! Again, feel you there too! I said I wasn't, but I started seeing an amazing guy and WOW...really willing to reconsider one day!
 
Nikkers said:
I appreciate the good guys, but it's a conditioning thing... I'm used to jerks, so when a good guy comes along, I just don't feel him like that.

I'm used to guys that put a woman second, because of their goals... or just because they do. So when a guy tries to put me first, I kinda feel like asking them if they have anything better to do lol. Even if they're just as ambitious and driven as the ones that put women second.

Because then him being free to text/ hang out makes it seem like he doesn't have different things to do. His flexibility would make me feel that I come first... when I'm not used to guys like that. Then, to me it feels clingy. Even if he's not being clingy and is just putting me first.
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It is commonly known that many women think like this. You have given great personal insight as to WHY. Prudent men take note
 
RaiderLL said:
Never too many love. Love me some E40! I'm still listening to certain tracks from last years collaboration with too short. :smt020
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Both of those albums were pretty damn good. I still wonder how I managed to miss both of them when they came out. I haven't even had time to listen to the new ones yet but my iPod is gonna explode if I put anymore music on there lol.
 
Nikkers said:
I appreciate the good guys, but it's a conditioning thing... I'm used to jerks, so when a good guy comes along, I just don't feel him like that.

I'm used to guys that put a woman second, because of their goals... or just because they do. So when a guy tries to put me first, I kinda feel like asking them if they have anything better to do lol. Even if they're just as ambitious and driven as the ones that put women second.

Because then him being free to text/ hang out makes it seem like he doesn't have different things to do. His flexibility would make me feel that I come first... when I'm not used to guys like that. Then, to me it feels clingy. Even if he's not being clingy and is just putting me first.

And because of the "I don't care, what do YOU want?" attitude. I'm used to guys that put their interests first, or at least have suggestions, instead of it being completely up to me. So then I feel like I'm trampling upon him, that he'd accept anything I want to do, even if it's not what he wants.

It's a mindset I'm trying to change, because I know GOOD guys exist and want one for myself... but it's my fault for going for the guys I do.
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:freehug::freehug::freehug:
 
curleyblonde said:
My lil sis got married last weekend, it was a wedding by the beach, very romantic and beautiful. I love weddings but the moment my sis put her dress on I cried........ She became a princess and I was so happy for her.... MY TURN NEXT,,,,,,,,,,,,, just saying.... hehehe
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Whenever you're ready, young lady. Just say the word... ;-)
 
Nikkers said:
I only wish I had the insight to kick my own butt when I knowingly pass over a good guy lol. This is how I feel, other women could be different.



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Yay hugs! ^.^
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I think this comes with time. I know good men that can do everything right and keep a woman by spoiling her and give her all of the things he thinks she needs or wants, and she STILL won't be happy. They will seem like a pushover that has no identity of their own and way to clingy, manipulating all of your time so that you are with them.

Then you have the guys that will treat you like you don't fit into their lives except for the way they see you fitting into it. They run the streets with their boys, doing god knows what til who knows what time of the wee hours of the morning. The guy who you fall for his bad boy image, finding a pair of random earrings on his nightstand, and STILL don't say anything because the sex is just so good and he gives you the freedom to come and go and you please...he's nowhere remotely pressed over where you go or what you do, just so long as you make time to swing by and give him some on your way home.

Yeah...It's a vicious cycle and I've experienced both types of men.

However...when you stumble upon the RIGHT man who has a balance of both, who treats you like a queen and would give you the world, but who has that bad boy mentality, without actually doing anything disrespectful to you or anyone else...a reformed bad boy...they used to rip and run, but they GREW UP and value having an actual meaningful relationship and have some type of direction of where they are trying to take it...

then you know you've found something.
 
curleyblonde said:
Its a wonderful thing to watch and be a part of, a wedding is special. I have gone through many different emotions,,, I would never marry again, will,,,, then won't,,,,, and now back to I WILL.
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If the opportunity presents it self, Marry again Curley !!...You ARE wife material and would make a splendid wife....As a generation we have lost our bearings on the compass of morality, Indeed it takes two to make it work, but you have to remember, there is a certain happiness, you can't find anywhere but IN a good marriage........
 
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