Quick question for black guys.

mikesandy said:
I know that, but the impossible thing is how to decipher, out of every interracial coupling, what the relationship is based on.

Is it based on genuine attraction, or resentment for your own skin? Are the majority of interracial relationships based on love or hatred for your own skin? Somebody needs to answer that question.
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well go ahead and answer that
 
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mikesandy said:
I know that, but the impossible thing is how to decipher, out of every interracial coupling, what the relationship is based on.

Is it based on genuine attraction, or resentment for your own skin? Are the majority of interracial relationships based on love or hatred for your own skin? Somebody needs to answer that question.
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Listen man, it's literally impossible to determine this factor. Why? Because unless you survey literally every single black man who dates interracially in America, you will never really know the answer. To even get into the whole dynamics when there is little to no research behind it besides some opinionated sociologist is literally futile. Thus, the question cannot be answered.

With that said, just because BM doesn't like BW does not mean they have self hate. There are many BM who simply do not find BW attractive, nothing wrong with that. Is it self hate for WW to only find BM attractive? Of course not, primary this aspect is given due to the rather racist individuals who despise BM/WF relationships, this is why many were suggesting to stay away from the posters comment, because this is an unoriginal and common tactic seen by BF and some BM who distest IR relationships.

Thus, expect not to receive much feedback regarding this.
 
babybro said:
Listen man, it's literally impossible to determine this factor. Why? Because unless you survey literally every single black man who dates interracially in America, you will never really know the answer. To even get into the whole dynamics when there is little to no research behind it besides some opinionated sociologist is literally futile. Thus, the question cannot be answered.

With that said, just because BM doesn't like BW does not mean they have self hate. There are many BM who simply do not find BW attractive, nothing wrong with that. Is it self hate for WW to only find BM attractive? Of course not, primary this aspect is given due to the rather racist individuals who despise BM/WF relationships, this is why many were suggesting to stay away from the posters comment, because this is an unoriginal and common tactic seen by BF and some BM who distest IR relationships.

Thus, expect not to receive much feedback regarding this.
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:smt023
 
babybro said:
Listen man, it's literally impossible to determine this factor. Why? Because unless you survey literally every single black man who dates interracially in America, you will never really know the answer. To even get into the whole dynamics when there is little to no research behind it besides some opinionated sociologist is literally futile. Thus, the question cannot be answered.

With that said, just because BM doesn't like BW does not mean they have self hate. There are many BM who simply do not find BW attractive, nothing wrong with that. Is it self hate for WW to only find BM attractive? Of course not, primary this aspect is given due to the rather racist individuals who despise BM/WF relationships, this is why many were suggesting to stay away from the posters comment, because this is an unoriginal and common tactic seen by BF and some BM who distest IR relationships.

Thus, expect not to receive much feedback regarding this.
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his question stems from obeservations picked up . what einstien dont get is that no one here are psychologist and if there was one here they wouldnt have a cookie cutter answer anyway. just acknowledge that there are people who hate their own skin and try not to figure out why . just like racism...you cant figure out hate but just call em out.
 
goodlove said:
his question stems from obeservations picked up . what einstien dont get is that no one here are psychologist and if there was one here they wouldnt have a cookie cutter answer anyway. just acknowledge that there are people who hate their own skin and try not to figure out why . just like racism...you cant figure out hate but just call em out.
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So do you think (suppose 20 years later) this idea will still be prevalent and is something that will "de-value" interracial relationships, of any kind? If IRs never existed, no one could bring up the notion of having self-hate for your skin. You also have to think about the politicians in the United States that would vote and create a law to make this illegal if they won the presidency and became president.

We don't know about the other stuff, so you'd simply say "some BM and WW just hate their skin, period." You also joked about it and thought the BM here wouldn't drink a cup of coffee in the morning because it's black.
 
mikesandy said:
So do you think (suppose 20 years later) this idea will still be prevalent and is something that will "de-value" interracial relationships, of any kind? If IRs never existed, no one could bring up the notion of having self-hate for your skin. You also have to think about the politicians in the United States that would vote and create a law to make this illegal if they won the presidency and became president.

We don't know about the other stuff, so you'd simply say "some BM and WW hate their skin, period." You also joked about it and thought the BM here wouldn't drink a cup of coffee in the morning because it's black.
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Mike,

Ignorance will always coinside with knowledge. Hate will always coinside with love. Intolerance will always coinside with tolerance. As GL said, you simply call it out when you see it. Why? To keep ignorance, intolerance and hate from prevailing over the others. So Mike, just go ahead and live baby. This is life and it is way too short to live wondering how others feel about how you're living it.
 
mikesandy said:
So do you think (suppose 20 years later) this idea will still be prevalent and is something that will "de-value" interracial relationships, of any kind? If IRs never existed, no one could bring up the notion of having self-hate for your skin. You also have to think about the politicians in the United States that would vote and create a law to make this illegal if they won the presidency and became president.

We don't know about the other stuff, so you'd simply say "some BM and WW just hate their skin, period." You also joked about it and thought the BM here wouldn't drink a cup of coffee in the morning because it's black.
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I said that ??!!!?? Classic. I need to write that one down. LOL
 
mikesandy said:
Yes, you did. You thought the users on this website hated their skin to that extent.
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Ever heard of sarcasm. In case, you hadn't notice, GL is not always serious. When I read that, I laughed not because he meant it literally, but because he was making a point using sarcasm. Come on, Mike.:D
 
mikesandy said:
So do you think (suppose 20 years later) this idea will still be prevalent and is something that will "de-value" interracial relationships, of any kind? If IRs never existed, no one could bring up the notion of having self-hate for your skin. You also have to think about the politicians in the United States that would vote and create a law to make this illegal if they won the presidency and became president.

We don't know about the other stuff, so you'd simply say "some BM and WW just hate their skin, period." You also joked about it and thought the BM here wouldn't drink a cup of coffee in the morning because it's black.
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OpenHeart said:
Ever heard of sarcasm. In case, you hadn't notice, GL is not always serious. When I read that, I laughed not because he meant it literally, but because he was making a point using sarcasm. Come on, Mike.:D
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thank you...OH. it gets exhausting....I would rather carry a sack of bricks up a mountain AND IM SERIOUS
 
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goodlove said:
as though you are a shoe in. dumb ass just because they post them doesnt mean they think they are going to get em. if that is the case then you should nt be posting ww from the internet.I ponted this out before about you in another thread....you hate your own skin and any color that is close to it. you just proved my point with your own words. DUMBASS.

go to IHOP and sit in the lobby and smell the coffee. oh what you dont like coffee because its black.


LOL smooth gets what ?!!??? hell he hasnt said anything against asian women or any other race except black women.
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There was the quote anyway.

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What kind of car would you drive? The black one or the white one?
 
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"Wrong But Strong - Willy Crook"

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You're wrong but strong, Goodlove. Just answer this question. Out of the people who post usually on this site, how many people on here do you think have an identity crisis/self hate for their skin?

You haven't been able to answer this, so you should quit dodging the question and just speak the truth.
 
mikesandy said:
"Wrong But Strong - Willy Crook"

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You're wrong but strong, Goodlove. Just answer this question. Out of the people who post usually on this site, how many people on here do you think have an identity crisis/self hate for their skin?

You haven't been able to answer this, so you should quit dodging the question and just speak the truth.
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Ok . go in the chat room and I will be there at 5:00 am..

hold your breathe
 
OpenHeart said:
Mike,

Ignorance will always coinside with knowledge. Hate will always coinside with love. Intolerance will always coinside with tolerance. As GL said, you simply call it out when you see it. Why? To keep ignorance, intolerance and hate from prevailing over the others. So Mike, just go ahead and live baby. This is life and it is way too short to live wondering how others feel about how you're living .
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Exactly....well put Openheart...it's a golden rule to live by....:smt045
 
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