Mechad Brooks & Serinda Swan

vanilla2chai said:
I mean

Do something.....anything. I don't care what you do just do it well and do it with passion
Have a goal
Have some interests in life
Be present
Be confident
Be confident enough for me to be myself
If you see me struggling with something ask me if I need some help

I don't need or want your money. I want a companion who is going to add to my enjoyment of life. I worked hard to have the life I do, I want to enjoy it now.
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I'm assuming you're part of the 40 and over crowd huh
 
I honestly wonder who on earth some of you men are or have dated. lol

If my boyfriend told me to "keep the weight down" I would go have a good look in the mirror and if needed hit the gym even harder.

If the person who loves me and looks out for my best interests says lay of the cake....he might be on to something.
 
vanilla2chai said:
I honestly wonder who on earth some of you men are or have dated. lol

If my boyfriend told me to "keep the weight down" I would go have a good look in the mirror and if needed hit the gym even harder.

If the person who loves me and looks out for my best interests says lay of the cake....he might be on to something.
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For the love of God please stop making so much sense I seriously can't take it :-)
 
vanilla2chai said:
I honestly wonder who on earth some of you men are or have dated. lol

If my boyfriend told me to "keep the weight down" I would go have a good look in the mirror and if needed hit the gym even harder.

If the person who loves me and looks out for my best interests says lay of the cake....he might be on to something.
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That would depend on whether he was eating muffins when he told me that. The Pillsbury Doughboy look isn't terribly sexy either ;-)
 
TreePixie said:
That would depend on whether he was eating muffins when he told me that. The Pillsbury Doughboy look isn't terribly sexy either ;-)
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That's ridiculous. So even though you seemed to be happy and no problem with my body I'm not allowed to be unhappy with yours unless I'm perfect? Apparently the dough boy look doesn't bother you since I have to say something first in order for you to have your own opinion.
 
MrFantastic said:
That's ridiculous. So even though you seemed to be happy and no problem with my body I'm not allowed to be unhappy with yours unless I'm perfect? Apparently the dough boy look doesn't bother you since I have to say something first in order for you to have your own opinion.
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Huh? What I'm saying is that people in glass houses shouldnt throw stones. If you've gained 10 pounds, you've got no business telling someone else who also gained 10 pounds to take it off unless you're working on doing the same.
 
TreePixie said:
Huh? What I'm saying is that people in glass houses shouldnt throw stones. If you've gained 10 pounds, you've got no business telling someone else who also gained 10 pounds to take it off unless you're working on doing the same.
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That's like saying unless you're impoverished you can't comment on poverty. It doesn't make sense to me.

And who said it had to be an insult it could be a helpful suggestion. If I'm no longer attracted to you wouldn't you want to fix it? Or am I expected to ignore it?
 
MrFantastic said:
That's like saying unless you're impoverished you can't comment on poverty. It doesn't make sense to me.

And who said it had to be an insult it could be a helpful suggestion. If I'm no longer attracted to you wouldn't you want to fix it? Or am I expected to ignore it?
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I just think the standard should be across the board. It's like some guy with a 3 inch dick complaining some woman's tits are only a D instead of a DD and suggesting she get them enlarged. It makes me giggle.

If you love someone, btw, you have to get used to the idea that people aren't going to look 22 forever, both men and women. Attraction goes deeper than just looks if you're involved with someone seriously. I wouldn't think 10 pounds would be enough to make you fall out of love with someone.
 
karmacoma. said:
LOL now white women have adopted the black chick "my friends aren't like that"™ routine. As if you can judge the whole world by your small little clique of friends.

Does your man need to "step up" as well?

Just asking.
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Thank you! I was stating a LOT of women OVERALL(in this country) are looking for a provider. She was merely talking about her little circle of friends.
 
vanilla2chai said:
I mean

Do something.....anything. I don't care what you do just do it well and do it with passion
Have a goal
Have some interests in life
Be present
Be confident
Be confident enough for me to be myself
If you see me struggling with something ask me if I need some help

I don't need or want your money. I want a companion who is going to add to my enjoyment of life. I worked hard to have the life I do, I want to enjoy it now.
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So are most of the men you know deadbeats that lack confidence?
Are you looking to travel all around the world and the men can't afford it or something?
 
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