Kirstie Alley and her new boyfriend

Tamstrong said:
Unlike you we're open to trying to understand & learn about others views. Sadly, we waste our time sharing our own insights & experiences with folks who don't see the real world outside the little boxes they live in, where their own "reality" is the only one they think exists. Evidently you don't have the capacity to learn or understand anything outside of that little narrow box. It's downright...I forget how young you are sometimes.

Btw, if sucking a dick is the requirement for self-righteousness, you'd be sucking a dick your damn self. ;)
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Tam yes or no do you believe white privilege to exist?
 
Eye of Ra said:
The fucked up thing is everyone that seems to have this mindset keep saying its about fighting the negative sterotypes that "society" aka the rich white male dominated power structure sticks on us black men. Even if you are a black man that is rich and powerful and you have that trophy wife on your arm guess what? "Society" will still have something to say about your ass because you're black. Any black man that can't see that, then check that ignorant bullshit that has been going on with Obama since before that man got into office. Some may not be happy his politics and job performance, but everyone can agree he is far from a negative stereotype of a black man. If he's getting hated on by some in "society" what the hell kind of love does an average black man think he can expect from "society"? Just saying...
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Yeah, & all the talk about fighting those stereotypes means nothing when their actions say otherwise. They make things a lot harder on themselves than they have to be.

Eye of Ra said:
Damn. You sensitive. Struck a nerve did we?
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Sounds like we did, Ra-Ra. ;)
 
Eye of Ra said:
Okay, can someone please answer this question that I have been dying to ask since I joined this site and first noticed this ignorant ass shit here and only here seems like, since I’m obviously old and out of touch but when and how did this whole little mindset of some men shitting on other men because they are attracted to someone that some other men may not be, come about? And how the fuck does that shit make other men who swear up and down they have their shit together look bad? This shit makes no sense. I clearly don’t remember ever any ignorant shit like this back when I was single. Only time me or any of the guys I would associate with would shit talk another guy about women is if he was getting any at all. Shit, if anyone one of us that ran together wasn’t attracted to a certain type of woman that any of the others may have been attracted to that was looked at as a good thing because that meant there was one less man you had to worry about trying to holler at or get with the type of woman you were attracted to. It seems like ya’ll single dudes now got the game all assed out and twisted. Can someone explain this shit to an old dumb fuck like me please? I’m confused as fuck. Thank You. :smt017
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Ra, you are awesome.:smt080
 
Tamstrong said:
Yeah, & all the talk about fighting those stereotypes means nothing when their actions say otherwise. They make things a lot harder on themselves than they have to be.



Sounds like we did, Ra-Ra. ;)
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So we should not speak about anything unless we're praising it right?
Interesting
 
MrFantastic said:
Ra I actually like you and Tam but I do hate when people like you guys dismiss valid points on the subject to be about low self esteem and mofos not knowing how to mind their own business. When for a lot of us it's just noticing bs racial double standards.
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Question: Why do you assume we are dismissing your points? Especially when you have a habit of continually bringing up the same points when every you humanly can? I'm more than positive that most of us who have been here awhile know your stances on various issues. So why do you assume that anyone that states something counter to what you state on whatever subject that is being debated dissing your POV and points?
 
MrFantastic said:
Ra I actually like you and Tam but I do hate when people like you guys dismiss valid points on the subject to be about low self esteem and mofos not knowing how to mind their own business. When for a lot of us it's just noticing bs racial double standards.
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Nobody's dissed or dismissed anything. The point is all the worry & time you put into all the stereotypical is wasted & accomplishes NOTHING but making things worse for everyone.

MrFantastic said:
Tam yes or no do you believe white privilege to exist?
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Not in the way you're looking at it.

saintaugusta said:
Ra, you are awesome.:smt080
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Yes he is. :cool:
 
MrFantastic said:
So we should not speak about anything unless we're praising it right?
Interesting
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You still don't get it, man. That's not what I said.

Eye of Ra said:
Question: Why do you assume we are dismissing your points? Especially when you have a habit of continually bringing up the same points when every you humanly can? I'm more than positive that most of us who have been here awhile know your stances on various issues. So why do you assume that anyone that states something counter to what you state on whatever subject that is being debated dissing your POV and points?
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Excellent questions, Ra-Ra.
 
Eye of Ra said:
Question: Why do you assume we are dismissing your points? Especially when you have a habit of continually bringing up the same points when every you humanly can? I'm more than positive that most of us who have been here awhile know your stances on various issues. So why do you assume that anyone that states something counter to what you state on whatever subject that is being debated dissing your POV and points?
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First off you guys might know personal preference bur not my view on the subject. I just recently started making the argument for racial disparity based on coupling. When you guys indirectly make the "you're acting insecure" argument it does come across as dismissive like it's in my head. It's on the same level as when I hear people say bm who aren't working are just being lazy. I see plenty of black guys at my office working. Them bitching about a hard economy isn't doing them any favors. They need to get off their asses.

See where I'm coming from?
 
LanalusU said:
but if they're happy..they're happy, so good for them.
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Tamstrong said:
Nobody's dissed or dismissed anything. The point is all the worry & time you put into all the stereotypical is wasted & accomplishes NOTHING but making things worse for everyone.



Not in the way you're looking at it.



Yes he is. :cool:
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Well I guess you wouldn't see it that way since you benefit from it (not making a dig just stating fact)
Tam bottom line is seeing a young bm with his life in front of him walking hand in hand with an old used up ww is none of my business. Just like Tiger cheating on his wife or Eva Longoria falsely accusing her man of cheating but the image is unpleasant. I'm not hating but it's a reminder to me where we are on the racial hierarchy. You guys make it sound like other men of other races are dating the old and the fat like are. It's not the ideal, it's not what most men want for themselves. An incredible indicator of that is look at the women successful men of any profession. They don't date the Kirstie Alleys of the world. As a bm it does make you pause a little. No jabs just truth.
 
MrFantastic said:
First off you guys might know personal preference bur not my view on the subject. I just recently started making the argument for racial disparity based on coupling. When you guys indirectly make the "you're acting insecure" argument it does come across as dismissive like it's in my head. It's on the same level as when I hear people say bm who aren't working are just being lazy. I see plenty of black guys at my office working. Them bitching about a hard economy isn't doing them any favors. They need to get off their asses.

See where I'm coming from?
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Yeah I see where you're coming from. and again why do you assume we know nothing about anything? No offense, but as I was trying to point out in the last post sometimes you come across as if your opinions and viewpoints on matters are the end all & be all on the matter and anyone saying anything that may run counter to it you treat them like they're idiots. I don't get that. I know you're educated and I know you are trying to put your point of view across, but as someone mention in another thread a few months back more times than not it seems that when you engage in discussions you are not interested in stating your opinions, but more like your just interesting in being right. Just an observation.
 
MrFantastic said:
Well I guess you wouldn't see it that way since you benefit from it (not making a dig just stating fact)
Tam bottom line is seeing a young bm with his life in front of him walking hand in hand with an old used up ww is none of my business. Just like Tiger cheating on his wife or Eva Longoria falsely accusing her man of cheating but the image is unpleasant. I'm not hating but it's a reminder to me where we are on the racial hierarchy. You guys make it sound like other men of other races are dating the old and the fat like are. It's not the ideal, it's not what most men want for themselves. An incredible indicator of that is look at the women successful men of any profession. They don't date the Kirstie Alleys of the world. As a bm it does make you pause a little. No jabs just truth.
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