Is your attraction exclusively toward ww/bm?

Beasty said:
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I think what I meant is I hang out with white men friends a lot (they prolly call it 'dates' but whatever) but am exclusively attracted to black men. There's a whole lotta culture that black men just aren't in to and so while I'm attracted to black men, I like to have drinks with wm too so I can talk about all the music and stuff that bm don't care about.

And while I really hate to generalize, my ww friends who date bm all agree that black men tend to be a little more (justifiably) stressed out, and therefore maybe a little less funny or chill at times. But I never feel chemistry with wm or anything.
 
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blackbrah said:
Most attracted to white women, but now around mostly Hispanic women.

Kinda wish I was more attracted to other women though because between online dating and crap in certain areas it's hard to date as a brother.
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You need to move to Cali.

San Diego, LA County, Bay Area, anywhere nearby these cities.
 
Satchmo said:
I think what I meant is I hang out with white men friends a lot (they prolly call it 'dates' but whatever) but am exclusively attracted to black men. There's a whole lotta culture that black men just aren't in to and so while I'm attracted to black men, I like to have drinks with wm too so I can talk about all the music and stuff that bm don't care about.

And while I really hate to generalize, my ww friends who date bm all agree that black men tend to be a little more (justifiably) stressed out, and therefore maybe a little less funny or chill at times. But I never feel chemistry with wm or anything.
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Considering that you live in Tennessee

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Satchmo said:
I think what I meant is I hang out with white men friends a lot (they prolly call it 'dates' but whatever) but am exclusively attracted to black men. There's a whole lotta culture that black men just aren't in to and so while I'm attracted to black men, I like to have drinks with wm too so I can talk about all the music and stuff that bm don't care about.

And while I really hate to generalize, my ww friends who date bm all agree that black men tend to be a little more (justifiably) stressed out, and therefore maybe a little less funny or chill at times. But I never feel chemistry with wm or anything.
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If you were in NOLA do you think you would still date wm? With NOLA being a cultural music town I'm wondering would you find more bm with similar tastes as your own or do you simply have a taste in music that's broader than the average bm that you meet.
 
LA said:
You need to move to Cali.

San Diego, LA County, Bay Area, anywhere nearby these cities.
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Tempted to move yes.

Some liberal areas seem the most segregated tho. I'd move to Denver methinks or somewhere on the east coast like NC or VA.

Satchmo said:
Blackbrah please don't stand so close to me

(police)
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lol heyy

Gorath said:
That is a sign that you have to leave cyberspace and deal with the living more often than not. If you are a musician, a poet/writer or an actor women will notice you.
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Oh I know I don't do the online dating thing but I notice my white counterparts can do easier online. IRL I don't mind but even that has nonsense given the area you live.
 
Beasty said:
If you were in NOLA do you think you would still date wm? With NOLA being a cultural music town I'm wondering would you find more bm with similar tastes as your own or do you simply have a taste in music that's broader than the average bm that you meet.
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If I was in NOLA I'd be in Chocolate Heaven (lol). Seriously, yes, no wm in my world at all. You hit it on the nail. I'm in a white world now, not a single black man in my entire high rise office building (well there's one but I stalked him until my friends pointed out he wears a wedding ring). I didn't notice what I had till it was gone. Not just men to date, but black people on the bus, in the store, in the club, at work, ... standing close to me. Music different, food different, attitude different.

It's really noticeable to go from a mostly black city to a 99% white town. Can't really 'splain it ... yeah I miss my city
 
RaiderLL said:
What attitudes confuse you around here? Is there an impression that people here are solely attracted to WWBM? I think once you know the people you quickly learn that many here have dated/married their own race, not to mention dated other than WWBM.
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Actually, my impression was that most people here didn't really have a preference, based on some of the statements I'd read here in the past. Given the title of the board, I found that confusing.

RaiderLL said:
To answer your question, I don't think I'm exclusively attracted to bm. There are men of many races that I've found attractive, but for some reason 99% of my relationships have been with bm. I've never dated a wm, not saying I've never found one kinda cute (Paul Walker ;)) but there's just never been a spark for me with the wm who approach me. It is what it is. With my marriage, kids, etc, my friends and family all know my attraction more often than not is with bm. I'm not ashamed of that, I don't hide it, it's me. Anyone hating can fuck off. I find beauty and sex appeal in many men (and women) regardless of race. Beauty alone isn't enough to sustain a relationship. The men I sincerely connect with happen to be black. I don't date people because they're black lol, color truly is a non issue with me so I've never worried or put much thought into how it may appear to others.
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Just out of curiosity -- what did you vote?
 
medullaslashin said:
Actually, my impression was that most people here didn't really have a preference, based on some of the statements I'd read here in the past. Given the title of the board, I found that confusing.



Just out of curiosity -- what did you vote?
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Raider-Rule-Breaker didn't vote lol. While I find many races sexy, outside of PW they're never white soooo...sign me up for número quatro :cool:
 
Despite being born in a majority black, multicultural city, I've always had a strong preference towards white women. After all, my dating experiences have exclusively been white, but it doesn't mean I'm not open to dating other "races" per se. It's just that when it comes to physical, mental, and emotional desires, they are generally found in white women.

I think through experiences growing up, my preferences toward other groups have grown based on personal interactions (I was in a yellow fever phase for about 1.5 years of college - East and South Asians), but have since been mixed in, albeit as a small piece of the preference pie. Though, the constant question of whether I would date a black women tends to come up a lot, and the short answer would be, not really. Don't get me wrong, I have met some attractive black women in my life, but there's no sexual "ting" that ticks when I come across one. Perhaps in my earlier years, when I had one or two crushes, but beyond that, it's virtually nonexistent. And to be honest, it's not a big deal, especially among the black women I've spoken to. They all treat me respectfully and love me regardless as a person they can confide to.

But, when it comes to sexual preferences or someone whom I can see spending the rest of my life with, she would more than likely be white.
 
Not entirely but....

I am more keen on dating WW because I love the contrast between our skins.

Also, WW have treated me a lot better and nicer than any BW has ever treated me.
 
johnleslie said:
I am more keen on dating WW because I love the contrast between our skins.

Also, WW have treated me a lot better and nicer than any BW has ever treated me.
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I have to agree. I'm not opposed to dating Black women, but my better dating experiences have been with WW. I'm planning on going to Ukraine early next year because I believe that I'll find my soul mate there.
 
johnleslie said:
I am more keen on dating WW because I love the contrast between our skins.

Also, WW have treated me a lot better and nicer than any BW has ever treated me.
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OakParkIllini said:
I have to agree. I'm not opposed to dating Black women, but my better dating experiences have been with WW. I'm planning on going to Ukraine early next year because I believe that I'll find my soul mate there.
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My S I M P sense is tingling. ____________________will swoop in to cape for BW in 5...4...3...2...
 
Never really met a ww that has exclusively dated bm (EVEN hood/ghetto types), but I have run into sisters that exclusively date wm.
 
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MightyLighty said:
Never really met a ww that has exclusively dated bm (EVEN hood/ghetto types), but I have run into sisters that exclusively date wm.
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I have to say, I've noticed the exact opposite! There are many ww that date exclusively men of color! If im being honest, since my divorce, I basically fall into this category. I dont think I could ever see myself with a white man again (never say never). Whereas I see very few black women, or women of color generally, with white men
 
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