do black women not like ww/bm together?

Some do some don't. From my experiences, I've had people of all ethnicities feel the need to ask "Why do you date WW?" As if it really matters.

Similar to what has been stated before in this thread, people don't care who's dating who so long as they aren't successful, then they begin to complain. People really don't know what they have until it's gone, funny thing is these people never had it yet act like it's their birthright to be with BM/ WW.
 
I have to agree that some do and some don't. But count on bw discuss this issue among themselves and resentment bubbles up like a bottle of soda that's been shaken too hard.
 
The main women who make a habit of discussing bm with ww are those who lack a man themselves and need an excuse for that.

I also agree with you guys on the subject of "blacks being seen as lesser". Reminds me of this youtube video on ir dating where these black guys and mexican guys were arguing over who ww prefer. Fighting over a women of a different ethnicity... SMH
 
MilkandCoffee said:
The main women who make a habit of discussing bm with ww are those who lack a man themselves and need an excuse for that.

I also agree with you guys on the subject of "blacks being seen as lesser". Reminds me of this youtube video on ir dating where these black guys and mexican guys were arguing over who ww prefer. Fighting over a women of a different ethnicity... SMH
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true, and i guess the same could be said for the men who like to dissect bm and ww couples they cant get a woman, and PLENTY of these men and women float around youtube crying and looking for validation, its sad lol
 
MissWacy said:
true, and i guess the same could be said for the men who like to dissect bm and ww couples they cant get a woman, and PLENTY of these men and women float around youtube crying and looking for validation, its sad lol
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yes indeed

fact remains most ww marry/date wm

there's plenty enough to go around for most white dudes

the ones grabbing at the ww we take must be the oddballs that were left out
 
What about those black women who complain that there are not enough "good black men" for them? I believe it is not just the bm's fault, it is also the bw's fault, too. It takes two to tango. Bm and ww should not be blamed because they are together.
 
Yall didnt get the memo...Black men arent suppose to be happy-per white man message delivered and executed by the black woman
 
medullaslashin said:
Nobody likes to see a black man happy and fulfilled period. That's just the nature of our society. Black women are on a really weird trip, but it's not just black women.

It's almost as if people judge themselves on how well they're doing as compared to "the black man", and they only feel secure and comfortable if you're the stereotypical "lesser" they want you to be. Anything outside of that and the jealousies start to simmer. No mobility for you! :smt079
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I do not understand that. And not just regarding race, either - there is nothing a society should want more than its men to be HAPPY. Be they alone or with a woman they love (or even man), when our men are happy and fulfilled, there is no stopping the possibilities for society as a whole. :smt057
 
Bliss said:
I do not understand that. And not just regarding race, either - there is nothing a society should want more than its men to be HAPPY. Be they alone or with a woman they love (or even man), when our men are happy and fulfilled, there is no stopping the possibilities for society as a whole. :smt057
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be quiet and let TDK jr wallow in self pity

:p
 
Gorath said:
What about those black women who complain that there are not enough "good black men" for them? I believe it is not just the bm's fault, it is also the bw's fault, too. It takes two to tango. Bm and ww should not be blamed because they are together.
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alot of people love blaming us for everything, even those two attacks on those wm and bw couples back in 2008, we some how got thrown in and blamed
 
MissWacy said:
alot of people love blaming us for everything, even those two attacks on those wm and bw couples back in 2008, we some how got thrown in and blamed
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MissWacy said:
alot of people love blaming us for everything, even those two attacks on those wm and bw couples back in 2008, we some how got thrown in and blamed
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Attacks on bw and wm couples? In 2008? WTF? I know everyone has an opinion but attacking an interracial couple of either combination or any couple at all, is an act of cowardice, plain and simple. Not of conviction or courage in principles.
 
BM, date who you wish, and be extremely happy in the process...

WW, date who you wish, and be extremely happy in the process...

bottom line...
 
Not all, but some and more often than not they tend to be older. My wife and I will go out and some older black women will kiss their teeth, or give dirty looks.
 
Messenger said:
Not all, but some and more often than not they tend to be older. My wife and I will go out and some older black women will kiss their teeth, or give dirty looks.
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Hahaha!! I never knew what that was called, but as soon as I read it, I knew what you meant!!! (And, imo, BW do it the best! Lol!)
 
Just posted on this in another forum but yeah, this happens to me all the time. ALL the time. I chat up women of ANY race that isn't black and black women will give me shit. Real quiet but real real.

It's real and it's real fucked up and I'm getting tired of it, personally. The comments they make, for me personally, make me lose focus on what I'm doing because I get so fucking emotional over the audacity of it all.

I get the competitive nature of it and how so few eligible black men there are for black women but I just wish black women would be honest about the lack of niceties of it all. Be mean and racist and exclusionary in the bedroom ALL YOU WANT...but have the courage to be honest and vocal about it. Don't snivel and shot call. I'd respect more black women more if they did that because at least I would know where they come from directly.
 
TigerMonarchy said:
Just posted on this in another forum but yeah, this happens to me all the time. ALL the time. I chat up women of ANY race that isn't black and black women will give me shit. Real quiet but real real.

It's real and it's real fucked up and I'm getting tired of it, personally. The comments they make, for me personally, make me lose focus on what I'm doing because I get so fucking emotional over the audacity of it all.

I get the competitive nature of it and how so few eligible black men there are for black women but I just wish black women would be honest about the lack of niceties of it all. Be mean and racist and exclusionary in the bedroom ALL YOU WANT...but have the courage to be honest and vocal about it. Don't snivel and shot call. I'd respect more black women more if they did that because at least I would know where they come from directly.
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It is not about "a few eligible black men" or white men or any others, for that matter. It's about the "same" man. That man who is attractive, educated and doing well for himself(his own home and a career).
Marilyn Monroe once said, "All a girl wants is for a guy to prove that he is not like the others." I had posted the exact quote in the Favorite quotes thread somewhere.
Anyway, your only defense is to ignore it. Walk away. These folks do not live with you and you do not live with them. Let it go and walk away.
 
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