whoa, whoa please do not assume things, you can't ask me questions then assume you're just basically answering your question to me yourself bro. Iam talking about writing wise. I understand they want to take it slow (I like that).
I'll give you some examples of what I mean:
They wrote her and winn like a love story in a romantic comedy as him being in love with her and finally confessing it and she not really realizing he felt that way until he confessed it. Then afterwards they dumped that storyline and those feelings he had for since he first met her. James even encouraged Winn to go for her. Fans caught that that is why they were "shipping"(is what they call it) Kara&Winn.
The Adam character into the love story made no sense. Mainly because
it was rushed.
And I don't know if it was Mehcad Brooks acting or the writing but If James has the same feelings towards Kara then they should of made it at least gave him more feeling(especially to the audience).
At times he has had a puzzled look on his face, appeared standoffish. When she was about to confess that she loved him which that scene was great, he told her "don't finish that sentence." That right there is what I would say is for sure the writing. They made it seem cold for someone that felt the same way.
(not to mentioned when she was in the midst of confessing it he looked dumbfounded) They could had him
choose other words or say it in another way and lose the puzzled look and acting clueless... "Kara, what are you saying?", "What are you doing?" That doesn't sound like someone who feels the same way. I understand he had broken up with Lucy, and kind of likes to be in denial of his feelings about Kara,
but if we we're to believe that he is in love with Kara let's stop having him look clueless and dumbfounded.
And when they do have time together/moments they don't add much depth to some of the scenes or allow much time for them to show their chemistry to the audience.
They started off well with it in the first two episodes... and have had moments here and thern but fell flat in keeping it steady.
The #SupergirlXTheFlash episode last night there was a moment they had
at the end in her apartment that was cute and beautiful just like in the first episode.(even despite James still appearing a tad bit clueless.) If they could stay steady and take away James being puzzled then they have something.
You have to remember audiences especially female audiences of this show LOVES supergirl/Kara Jor-El. They have themselves expressed that they didn't like how in some scenes James appearing standoffish from someone he supposedly is in love with.
The cute chemistry her and flash had should have been close to the type of cute chemistry her and James are suppose to have if they are going with them as a couple from here on out.
I highlighted all my main points because I know I wrote a lot. lol.