American Black Men: USA or Foreign White Women

As a native New Yorker, I can agree that it's often difficult to live in NYC (including meeting women). I finally left NYC when I was 31 y/o, but I do miss it at times. Admittedly, there are many things about NYC that I'm happy to leave behind. While I'm very happy living in suburban Wash DC, I am open to living in or near NYC again. Also... NYC is truly a melting pot, and I've made friends (and dated) people from many different backgrounds. NYC can be interesting and it's definitely a place that's not for everyone, but I'd stop short of saying it's an evil place.

 

oh no you didnt?

 

That Kermit pic. :smt043 :smt043

 

Lmbo If you say so. I have just been living in VA so long I developed an accent maybe? I have often been told I have a phone sex operator voice at work

 

well damn

 

Let me call your job to find out lol. You definitely have a bit southern accent to my ears. I always found your voice to be authoritive but motherly mixed with a little sultry.

 

I see. Understand your point and how things were for you there. I remember something like Obama winning 50% of white support in the whole state either when he was re-elected or in his first election.

I have not made any viable attempt to date anyone of any race at all yet so I have no real personal experience that I could talk about. Waiting longer to make a move feels like it has made me more experienced with understanding the dynamic surrounding relationships and also female behavior, as outlined in my previous posts.

Surprisingly, I've actually done pretty well on LinkedIn, which isn't really a site designed for dating and relationships site but a site for career connectivity and employment gateways. Sometimes when I got contacted on there by phone or a connection request or however else, I could just sense that there's something else some of the women want from me besides talking about a new job position. Most of the connections there have been from white women, indian women and misc. races of women. The rest of them are guys.