Random Conversation 2.0

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by Bookworm616, Oct 7, 2011.

  1. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

    No apartment. A home here. And everything is thoroughly reinforced so nothing could get into the home since it's fairly new.

     
  2. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    perhaps it is someone coming to visit you from beyond...this may sound odd but every once in a while i will walk into a room and catch just hint of my mother or grandmothers favorite perfume...i don't have or wear either of these fragrances:cool:
     
  3. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

    My brother never smoked. Besides, I'll never see him again anyway.

    The ashes are kept in an urn on top a shrine, so that's about as close I'll ever reach to him. Beyond that, it's just me.

    I can probably assume that years ago, when I was displaced from the hurricane, I stayed with my uncle in Mississppi in his garage for about three months, and the place wasn't really kept well since it's dusty, plus he's a heavy smoker. That, compiled with the winter, it didn't really help with my immune system.

     
  4. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    What is it with some people?

    I connected with someone on line last night. Is a friend of a friend and we used to chat briefly several years ago. I told him I could not chat until Tuesday because I'm going on a huge business trip and will be swamped but would have a bit of time Tuesday night to chat.

    He immediately started bombarding me with 6-7 messages both on my phone, and on Fb. At the same time. Every few hours.

    Hi
    Hi babe
    Hi hun
    Hi
    How are you
    Hi

    And so on . every few hours, with a picture of himself, not nekked mind you and keep begging for a pic.

    Please send that pic on your fb in the red... Etc

    Dude, did I not just tell you I don't have time to chat until Tuesday, and to send multiple messages on several media at the same time? Argh, does this behavior work for people? I find it annoying as hell.
     
  5. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    you are a woman...you couldn't possibly be that busy:smt043...yes, this type of behavior is a turn off for me as well...even if i do have time...
     
  6. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    argh...detest that. all it does is turn me completely off
     
  7. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    Yup.
     
  8. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member


    It's super annoying & a huge turn off. If I encounter a dude like that, I tell him what I think of his Jethro behavior and not waste any more time dealing with him.
     
  9. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    That's what I'm saying!:D
     
  10. Apollonia

    Apollonia New Member

    If I ever figure out how to post pictures there is a beautiful photo thread that I would love to start.

    Could someone please help me out with a mini pic posting tutorial...thanks in advance!

    (please forgive me for being off topic)
     
  11. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    Most use photobucket or an app similar to that :D
     
  12. Archman

    Archman Well-Known Member

    ....Younger men have zest and pep tempered with limited depth......But there is something to be said for the blending compatibility and understanding of an older man's mind.....
     
  13. Apollonia

    Apollonia New Member

    Thanks!!
     
  14. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    Then you can use that link directly using the picture looking thing above the text box in your reply. Looking forward to your thread.

    If you want to post directly from the internet, you an just use same icon, if I remember correctly and copy paste it between the brackets.

    Someone, please correct me if I'm wrong.
     
  15. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    That's the problem. Not a younger man. 45.
     
  16. Apollonia

    Apollonia New Member

    Thanks! I think I will try it tomorrow. And I think that everyone will love the thread, too!
     
  17. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Why you playing hard to get FG. I thought you would like the pic, damn girl. So call you tomorrow?
     
  18. Cherok33

    Cherok33 Well-Known Member

    It is annoying.

    I had a similar experience about a year ago. A guy who shares a mutual friend w me started responding to comments I made on her fb status. Turns out he works in the same bldg I do. We chatted back and forth a little while and he seemed cool. I end up running into him a few days later in the little shopette, meeting him formerly for the first time. He is staring me down, watching me the whole time I'm in the store...starting to feel a little creeped out by the guy...a little later that same afternoon, I'm on my way to the copy room and low and behold, I notice the guy walking around the corner, nearby where I sit. Knowing he works nowhere close by from previous discussion w him, I am fairly certain he's trying to find me.

    long story short, he turned out to be kinda like your new guy, constantly berating me w fb messages. I finally had to tell him I was not interested in anything more than casual acquaintances with him, stop contacting me and I would see him when I see him.

    I hate being mean, but sometimes you just have to be direct w people.
     
  19. Unique4ever

    Unique4ever Well-Known Member

    Oh, horrible.
    It either means that he didn't believe you when you said you are busy, or that he simply doesn't care.
    Such behaviour drives me away faster than a race car.
    I like a man that knows what he wants and is a "go getter", but this kind of behaviour is a NO GO.
     
  20. Nikkers

    Nikkers Well-Known Member

    Completely understand. I'm getting the same from a guy now too. One that I just want to do business with. Go for coffee as a business meeting kind of thing, that's it.

    Only, he's started blowing up my phone, facebook wall and inbox. I don't understand how that behavior makes anyone feel like they'd get something. Since he was all "What did I do wrong?! tell me!"... now I don't even know how I'm going to answer and try to keep business potential intact.

    It is very annoying indeed. Hope he gave you a bit of a break afterwards
     

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