hmmm, does this outfit make me look fat? dressing for your body type! being fat...this is funny because I have friends that are really skinny and they pick at themselves and say i'm fat or I feel really fat I think fat and overweight are different...and I also think there is a difference between sloppy fat and wearing it well fat bottomline you have to love who your are and feel comfortable in your own skin
I have the audio version of this book. I find your humor, concerning your weight appalling!:smt011 :smt084 As I have stated, I find you attractive in so many ways. My wife is not a small, sleek, and or slender, and I love every inch of my wife. My wife has big glutes and curves, and I would divorce her, if she tried to lost her big glutes and curves........NOT REALLY!!! There is only one thing that my wife does that will unnerve me, when she complains about her physical appearance! I get angry; leave the house, and give her the silent treatment, until she apologizes.
......If the less attractive ONES seem to be all about not dating wm,...they must need some love and attention too...... Just who are they making themselves available to TDK ??....Come-On spit it out........
I thought I was clear my bad. A lot of unattractive women seem to seek out bm in this country. It's a great example of the racial hierarchy in this country. Sloppy out of shape women, from any race, seem to think it's feasible to get an in shape athletic bm but don't seem to have that assumption with their white or non black counterparts. Always seemed a bit odd but none of my business.
Word? Do you really want to go down this road miss never posts pics? I'll put up any girl I've dated against you any day of the week ma'am.
Sloppy, out of shape women KNOW they're sloppy and out of shape and they know that few men, regardless of race, are going to take great care of themselves but love a woman who doesn't. There are some who do. Even though I don't consider myself sloppy overweight, when I see a guy on a dating site who spends time in the gym and fitness is a priority, whether he says he's looking for the same or not, I don't even bother with contacting him. Because if fitness is a priority with him, he will likely want it to be a priority for the women he dates as well. I've seen your pix/vids, TDK. You're not the epitome of athleticism and fitness, yet you consider yourself acceptable for slim, fit women. Funny how that double standard works...
How do you know what I find acceptable in my own life Ches? Just because you personally might feel a certain way doesn't account for what I personally see and what dudes on here have spoken about as far as their stock not being as high with American white women. It's just really weird that bm become a "preference" for a lot of older and/or bigger ww when they weren't even a choice before. Not saying that's the case all the time just enough.top be noticeable I guess.
you are saying that average ww go for athletic good looking bm because they can't get a wm...really? seriously? then what pray tell does a short overweight bm end up with...must be really slim pickings for those unfortunate bm unless of course they are stacking papers you are digging yourself into the hypocrite hole that you like to call home
Never said average and its slim pickings for short overweight men of any race. Do you know what the word hypocrite means?
Oh please. Most of your posts are very transparent, TDK. One can derive what you like from what you don't like or disapprove of. As for the older woman thing, you forget the times we grew up in....IR relationships were not common or acceptable then. For many of us, BM were not allowed to be a preference or a choice. But we've had this discussion. I, for one, didn't pursue BM. They pursued me, much to my surprise. I had been out of the dating game for over 24 years. All the rules had changed. It didn't even occur to me that a BM would want to date me. Here's a thought: Maybe they pursued me because they didn't feel like they could get the hot, young, skinny chick, so they went after the older, overweight one? You always want to make BM the older, overweight WW's default guy. Maybe it's the other way around.
Could be. What I like varies you have no clue but u think it would be evident since I've complimented both skinny and fatter women on here
if your theory is correct then it must be easier for short wm... average = less attractive let's not mince words...I know exactly what you are saying
You've expressed the desire before to get into better shape though, and what better way to accomplish that than with a sexy man who wants to do it with you?! I just wonder if by not approaching the men who view fitness as a priority, maybe you're missing out on a potential good match who could also help you reach your fitness goals. The guy I'm seeing right now is a marine who's at the gym every morning, and playing basketball or football a few nights per week smt007) and trust me...I'm going harder in my daily runs each day because of it! Seeing the commitment he has to his fitness regime motivates me to push myself harder each day, which is pretty cool IMO. Obviously you need to be comfortable in who you approach...just some food for thought though
Yep, big difference. According to my BMI I'm slightly overweight, but I don't consider myself fat. Guess I'm lucky because I'm 5"8 with good proportions. Plus I work out to keep the "wobbling" off
