To be fair, (I know your take on WW or in this case, a Latina, getting with BM as you say, past her prime) but to be fair, he has 5 kids himself, plus the one he adopted (Al B. Sures son), so I wouldn't call him a prize either. And all his kids were by BW (using your logic).
LMAO at this thread - a bunch of grown men gossiping about who sleeps w who. Its quite amusing:smt110:smt110
Fair point. The only thing I can say is that in most cases the kids live with the mom so its not the same thing but entering into a ready made family has got to be tough for anyone man or woman. In Puffy's situation I think all his kids were happy accidents he didn't marry any of those women. It's a little different when you choose to settle down and make a family with someone and then decide someone else is just for fun
Apparently 5 lol. To be fair in his situation it isn't that bad since he has money to take care of all of them. At least he's not a dead beat.
I really think that you're splitting hairs here, but, hey, I understand that's your perspective. The fact that he chose not to marry any of the women could be interpreted as an apparent inability to commit, and his choice to have his cake and eat it too, he can enjoy the benefits of "playing" father, without the full time considerations that go into being a father. Maybe, this was why J Lo didn't want to continue in that kind of relationship or with a man who exhibited what could be considered "character flaws". Also, in all seriousness, didn't he have his opportunity to woo her. She was a star in her own right. He was accused of a serious crime, and the publicity could have adversely affected her career. So, she made the decision to end the drama, multiple children with different women, non-commitment to other women, and "criminal activity". How much was she expected to endure in the name of love. They went their separate ways, he fathered more children, she had several relationships and finally decided to get married. Then, she did what's considered pretty natural, she had children and lived her life. The marriage didn't work out and she's divorced. What part of that suggests that it was a conscious decision to do anything other than what Puffy continued to do, live life. Now, there're rumors that they might be seeing one another again. That seems to be the long and short or it, IMO. Like most of us, she looked for someone who she felt was a good partner, despite their race. She dated men of different ethic and racial backgrounds and thought that she had found love with Mark, but it didn't work out for her. I don't see an issue?? Besides, doesn't this belong under, "what you've learned here", to live and let live, without judgement?
Truth. Tho I don't give a rat's ass about Puffy or J-Ho. The truth is J-Ho used Puffy to advance her career and didn't take her long before she dissed him for the white guy, Ben Affleck. Affleck knew she was a drama queen and he kicked her to the curb for lesser sex symbol but down to earth white girl. J-Ho went ahead and procreated with her own kind, now she is over the hill career wise and done with reproduction she wants to grab the limelight with Puffy. Diddy is so stupid and welcomes her with open arm after she dissed him during major trial, I bet he still in love with her. SMDH.
1.She didn't diss puffy for Affleck.After puffy she married chris judd 2.Puffy reportedly cheated on her constantly,wouldn't commit to her then put her safety,freedom and career in jeopardy yet some of you want to blame her for the breakup 3.She is not over the hill career wise.She has American Idol,an album ,currently shooting a movie with 2 other movies in pre production Shes stupid to hook back up with him imo as nothing has changed with him from the time she left him.Brothers like puffy give black men a bad name
J-Lo is no where hot in hollywood as she was b4. Her being a judge on American idol is nutin but a freakin' teary BS, fire her fucken emotional wreck and bring that pompus Brit back, lol
Are you black? I thought you said you were Indian of Caribbean decent? so I took it as East Indian who live on the islands, lol
You have me confused with someone else.I have never said I was Indian or lived on the islands I am an American black man
Your're right, I stand corrected again, the other guy name starts with R and close to your handle name, I remember who it is now, my bad.
Im gonna do a Frederick here and call hypocrisy here. I mean shiet - you guys trash JLo left and right, like Puffy is some sort of paragon of virtue - I mean wtd. He is a bigger ho than she is - he has more kids, never married, cant commit, hes career is not better than hers in any way shape or form. In fact J-LO s career is actually rising now when she hired back her manager that Latin Skeletor forced her to fire. Both of them have a career beyond music with big business deals. I don't wanna hear his is bigger than hers - my point still stands. I think they are pretty evenly matched on all accts I don't give a shit about JLo, nor Diddy, btw, I just think what you guys are doing is really hypocritical. SMDH
:smt005 Rep on the way! Per the OP, not buying the story at all. Its all in the name of trying to win viewers back to AI. (Damit..have to spread it some more)
That's unfair. I think they were pretty hot and heavy up to the point of the gun incident. I imagine her handlers made her distance herself from that behavior rather than see a promising career go down the tubes. That's how showbiz people are. So I guess he fucked it up himself behaving like a thug. Are you quoting and talking to yourself?? :smt042
I agree with you about walking into a ready made family, but even still, regardless of him not living there (which I'm not a fan of) I don't know about you, but I surely don't want some man with 3 baby moms and kids all over the place. Happy accidents isn't a good thing when you have several with different people. I agree with all the bolded. Good post as usual Swirl.... Knocked shit right out the box! lol
