When you joined this forum - what was your story?

my story

I was Goggling an image not to long ago and the image popped up on this site. I had never heard of it. I read through some of the threads, liked what I saw, especially since I have been in only IR relationshsips for years. I am single and wanted to join this site because of the like minded thoughts/ideas I have seen about IR relationsships.

 

Bio and story

Don't ever plan on marriage again, one time to a bw was too much and that game isn't for me. 45 yrs old, sales rep for Regional Telecom firm, which gives me the opportunities to call on businesses and there is where I strike it up w/a ww. If it's good to go, we'll meet up for drinks/meal and I make it obvious that I am not into marriage. But I know, if she is meeting me, she wants attention and lovin' and I def give her that. I've got to be careful where we go, b'cuz of old stogy business clients who could possibly wreck my business. Folks are opening up slowly in Alabama to WWBM, but I say slowly. I take my shoes off across the table and, if she attentive to foot play, I know we're good to go. Moving to her side and doing touches and whispers gets our juices flowing, then it's off to her place, if it's a home. If it's an apt, we go to my home, because we are gonna get loud - verbally and banging into furniture.

No way she spends the entire night with me, if she's got to be at work the next day, she's taken home. Weekends are for messing bed sheets up to all hell and towels are laid out under us, we are going to open up those flood gates!

 

This cat's priorities are 100% on point. Good for you brotha. Do your motherfucking thing.

 

Sure would, it's happened once and it was a L O N G Fri. night and into a good portion of Sat. that's when I was made aware of the A of Spades (wore it on an ankle). Again, that "Scene" is difficult around these parts and I like to be the hunter.

 

Marriage aside, so now you only "hook up" with WW for a sexual rendezvous?

WWBM relationships don't equate to everything sexual...

 

Here comes the PC Police on schedule.

Man is grown, if he just wants to "hook up," that's his agenda. The WW he dates probably feels the same. He said he's not married anymore, he's hurting no one. Stay out the man's bedroom and do you.

 

wow...the men here burn women at the stake that are well into their 40s after being married to a wm...here you are well into your 40s after being married to a bw...

hmmm, loving the double standard already...wondering if you are bottom of the barrel, washed up, sandy dick, sneaking around mind you not wanting to be in public with a ww...nice! and good to know that a longtime member here agrees that this is appropriate behavior...lmfao:smt042

 

:smt036

 

I agree with this statement 100 percent.

 

Hello to all of you,
I just joined today with hopes to meet good friends and if I 'm lucky I'll find a black 45 plus man for dating and a possible relationship. :heart:

Wishing you all well :yawinkle:

 

the story of ktplay

I have had a few IR within my life but entered into my first with a BM around 4 years ago. It has since ended, but my interest has not. I have visited other forums where threads concerning interracial dating were filled with hatred and anger which quickly turned me against continued research. Then 2 days ago I entered this site while googling for ir dating sites. And yes i have been reading your threads and viewing profiles since my discovery.

I found this site to be openly honest with a genuine sense of caring, friendship and acceptance from its members. As for what I hope to gain from becoming a registered member is quiet simply the opportunity to share a common interest and make new friends. (BTW you ladies have beautiful feet.)

 

My Story

I originally joined this group in 2005... Didn't participate much for a number of reasons. But my initial intent was finding a woman with the common interest of an interracial hookup. My initial immersion into the WWBM site was thru the want-ads. For several days or it could have been weeks, I browsed the ads of women seeking, because I too, was looking for something.

Being of an inquisitive nature and a skeptic heart, I doubted the chance of finding someone I could connect with based on four lines (if the ad described as much) and a photo, but I looked and read, and looked...

Whenever time allowed me to browse, I would come back to WWBM and back to the ads, finally determining that I wasn't quite up to the "meat market" mentality and didn't want to play the "Heckle and Jekyll" game.

I browsed the Forum out of boredom and curiosity and found an interesting mixture of everything that is us as people. The Forum brought me a connection to real people, with real exchange (and real issues and real arguments... lol.), much like the real world, with an emphasis on a common interest/fetish/whatever it is to the individual... There have been, are now, and will be, closer circles within the group, who share a level of conversation the rest of us would love to be privy to and/or included in, but I guess it is what it is and one gets in where one fits in... And because I am not pressed to be in or out and I'm never turned away when I "show" up, I always feel "at home"....

I enjoy the discussion, even if I don't weigh in and I appreciate the normally civil approach to ideas presented...

That's my story and I'm sticking to it....:smt021

 

1. Signed up in the last week and am single.

2. I googled WWBM and this came up...actually I think I was looking at something like 'why black men like white women' to try and get information as I had developed a MAJOR crush on a BM I was working with and didnt know whether or not he liked WW so....

I have always found BM attractive but have never been with a BM. Not for any reason than the opportunity simply has never arisen. I was once with an incredible boy from Brazil who was very, very dark skinned but it was only a very short term holiday fling in Europe as we both lived in different countries.

My first love was actually Chinese so IR have been something I have been drawn to since young but I have had majority WM boyfriends since then. I think the reason is that we dont have a large black community in Australia (although this is changing rapidly) or didnt when I was growing up and so I simply never had the occasion. I have been living in London for almost a year now and there are so many beautiful BM here....

I guess I just want to know more about IR and about BM and the attraction between WW and BM....and having found the pics section now have an endless supply of naughty material for lonely nights as a single girl haha

3. Nope!

 

every time i see your name i think of this band....

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Hahahaha fair enough :yawinkle:

I have a thing for birds (and owls and cats)...lol

 

I'm single and looking and i'm attracted to white women above all the other races.

 

Good morning

Good morning from Ft Carson, CO. My name is Terry, and the reason why I am here because I don't understand white women. I was raised in areas of VA where there were still separate neighborhoods. I am currently stationed near Colorado Springs, CO, and I am very disappointed by most of the white females I met here so far. I don't believe nor am I convinced that I will ever find a good white woman in Colorado Springs.

Here's why I don't think I will ever find a good white woman:

1) I'm too nice
2) I miscommunicate with white women or I say the wrong things all the time
3) I don't understand when I am coming on too strong or if she doesn't like me at all
4) Most white women I have met here in da Springs don't appreciate me for whom I am.


Please help me understand what it takes for me to find a good white woman in this area.

 

I like forums,

I've always liked forums.

and I also like googling random sentences that pop in my head to see if I can find hilarious rants and arguments online for my amusement.

and every once In a while it leads me to a cool new forum.

and this is the most recent one.

Peace

TheWilliam