Haynesworth Says...'I Don't Even Like Black Girls'!

ReginaStar said:
This if you don't prefer your race as a sexual partner equals self hate is BS. I think it's just make them feel better about themselves to think something has to being wrong with you if you don't prefer them. I've known a many of white men to prefer a black woman. Never once has that made me think they hate their own skin nor do I consider it an insult to myself. It's silly to think that way. Their human. They find some features more appealing in a sexual mate then their others. And... what's wrong with that. Some folks just don't understand what self hate is. It's extreme dislike for oneself. Something you can never "fix". And this mess about the children. Just b/c you prefer certain features on a spouse doesn't mean you dislike other features on your children or yourself. I've always "preferred" blue eyes on a woman and brown eyes on a man. I have sons and daughters with both blue eyes and brown eyes. I think they ALL have beautiful eyes. This is stupid as saying the light skin black man that prefers the dark skin black woman has self hate or that the dark skin woman who prefers dark skin men will have issues if her child came out light skin. It's stupid.
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I'll be loving white women til the day I kick the bucket, so none of the haters matter in the end Regina. They can all kick rocks barefoot.

Its what i'm attracted to, my life and my choice to make.

Some folks are just ignorant, bitter and unhappy and want to make others just as miserable as them, cliche but true misery loves company. Its the dark heart of some folks.
 
Do most black girls even care about this?


Call me crazy but I doubt the average black girl is sitting around hating on interracial relationships or is afraid of "white women talking all the good black men."

Seems to me like there's just a handful if idiots who think this way.
 
Mikey said:
I think the whole thing is like taxes. When whites lose their majority (according to the 2020 census), things would be better for us, but the resentment (mainly coming from some BW and some WM) would still linger when they see a BM and WW. Despite the shortcomings, I believe that overall, people will move forward and these kinds of relationships will have more acceptance in society, despite the ignorance of a few people.
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White men are just lucky they could set up a whole system to keep white women and black men apart or brothas would have made a move a long time ago. :)

I still find it remarkable that a black man could be hanged and his penis cut off for being with a white woman. If that doesn't testify to a deep insecurity in said society then nothing else does. This is how low black men were thought of in American history.

This is why I sit back and smile about today. I am aware of every negative shit that has been said about and attributed to black men from history to now, yet we just carry on trying to do our thing.

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger indeed. Its 2011, we have a president of a black man and white woman parentage, black men are dating white women at a continually increasing rate, especially given where it was in American history only decades ago and black men will continue to soldier on.

Some bitter people need to work on themselves and stay out of the business of grown folks.
 
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Nico said:
Do most black girls even care about this?


Call me crazy but I doubt the average black girl is sitting around hating on interracial relationships or is afraid of "white women talking all the good black men."

Seems to me like there's just a handful if idiots who think this way.
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There is always a handful of idiots in life, you are right a secure, comfortable, have a man black woman I imagine wouldn't care.

A lonely, miserable, can't get a man one is the type to likely mouth off.

I think some get all twisted when its a big baller type such as an entertainer or pro athlete with a white girl. Shows you the priorities. Not that homeboy would be checking for them anyway.

I'm the kind of dude that will hold hands, kiss my woman, hug her up, I don't care if I am in the middle of Starkville, Mississippi or Atlanta, Georgia, fuck if I care what some jackoff thinks.
 
orejon4 said:
Regina, when are you going to post a pic?
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I think I did on the picture post I think.



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GQ Brotha said:
I'll be loving white women til the day I kick the bucket, so none of the haters matter in the end Regina. They can all kick rocks barefoot.

Its what i'm attracted to, my life and my choice to make.

Some folks are just ignorant, bitter and unhappy and want to make others just as miserable as them, cliche but true misery loves company. Its the dark heart of some folks.
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Very true. I was accused of not loving my husband recently and that it was just lust all b/c I have stated I have preference for black men. LOL I'm like wow are u serious. You don't even know me and what makes it so bad is when I meet my husband I was still dating wm. My preference didn't come about till years later after I had only been with bm for awhile. But whatever. The haters gonna hate. I'm just glad I've never dealt with anyone like that in real life. Or rather I say I don't notice it in real life cause hubby does.
 
GQ Brotha said:
There is always a handful of idiots in life, you are right a secure, comfortable, have a man black woman I imagine wouldn't care.

A lonely, miserable, can't get a man one is the type to likely mouth off.

I think some get all twisted when its a big baller type such as an entertainer or pro athlete with a white girl. Shows you the priorities. Not that homeboy would be checking for them anyway.

I'm the kind of dude that will hold hands, kiss my woman, hug her up, I don't care if I am in the middle of Starkville, Mississippi or Atlanta, Georgia, fuck if I care what some jackoff thinks.
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My sentiments exactly, GQ.
 
Nico said:
Do most black girls even care about this?


Call me crazy but I doubt the average black girl is sitting around hating on interracial relationships or is afraid of "white women talking all the good black men."

Seems to me like there's just a handful if idiots who think this way.
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I haven't personally meet any one irl but the net there every where or maybe folks are just more vocal about online.
 
ReginaStar said:
I think I did on the picture post I think.



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On my way to the picture post. I like your attitude about this nonsense, by the way. You can't get preoccupied with what some idiot thinks, because that's not who you have to live with and be happy with. They're just that...idiots.
 
ReginaStar said:
Very true. I was accused of not loving my husband recently and that it was just lust all b/c I have stated I have preference for black men. LOL I'm like wow are u serious. You don't even know me and what makes it so bad is when I meet my husband I was still dating wm. My preference didn't come about till years later after I had only been with bm for awhile. But whatever. The haters gonna hate. I'm just glad I've never dealt with anyone like that in real life. Or rather I say I don't notice it in real life cause hubby does.
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Like lust is going to make you have 4 children with someone, live with them, marry them and build a future with them around something as fleeting as 'lust'! People always have to belittle and attempt to devalue that which they hate or fail to comprehend.
 
orejon4 said:
Like lust is going to make you have 4 children with someone, live with them, marry them and build a future with them around something as fleeting as 'lust'! People always have to belittle and attempt to devalue that which they hate or fail to comprehend.
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They sure do.
 
ReginaStar said:
Very true. I was accused of not loving my husband recently and that it was just lust all b/c I have stated I have preference for black men. LOL I'm like wow are u serious. You don't even know me and what makes it so bad is when I meet my husband I was still dating wm. My preference didn't come about till years later after I had only been with bm for awhile. But whatever. The haters gonna hate. I'm just glad I've never dealt with anyone like that in real life. Or rather I say I don't notice it in real life cause hubby does.
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This is a famous line that's thrown around out there, its the presumptuous nature of some folks to assume they know the motives and reasons behind the relationships of others. They feel being ignorant gives them a peace of mind about their insecurities.

You weren't told the backstory, us black men are incapable of love, how dare we envision such an idea, we're just walking phalluses.. Ignorance is bliss for sure and some fools enjoy reveling in it.
 
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ReginaStar said:
This guy is a fool for sure. I don't see how any man could not be attracted to an entire race of women regardless of whether it's your own race. It's one thing to not have a preference for, or choose not to date, or it just hasn't happend but there nice looking women in all races and something would have to be wrong with you if there was ANY race of women that couldn't make you go hard.

But as far as the comments being made. There is alot of hostility for white women by black women. (Ofcouse not all) There is bw that convince themselves that even back in the day white women were put on a pedestal by white men. They completely ignore the fact that many marriages were the result of a young girl being married off to older man for a price. They ignore men were allowed to beat there wives to death. They ignore the fact that white women were not allowed to work therefore totally dependable on their husbands. They ignore the fact that the husband had all rights to his children so therefore a white woman could not leave her husband without leaving her children behind. They ignore the fact that white women had to watch their husbands have sex with other women including raping slaves and produce children and there wasn't a damn thing they could do about it. I hardly call any of that being put on a pedestal but I guess in the eyes of the black woman being enslaved and raped it was mighty fine pedestal to where she was at. Black women watched their fathers, sons, friends get killed at the hands of white men for even looking at a white woman thus again making them angry at the white woman when they should have been angry at the white man. It's ironic really. It's always the ww, bw, and bm, being blamed at the tension between the bw/ww but it's really the white man that has created it all. It's always been about how the wm treats the white woman. Their is much jealously over it. White men put these blond hair, blue eyed petite white women all over everything. The tv, the magazines, porn, etc. So all in all it comes down to anger that bw are not treated the same as the white woman in white America. Now I think there is some reason to be angry sure. I just think that anger is took out on the wrong people. The white woman is not the one pull the strings in the US. And the BM can not be blamed for it either. But they are the easy targets. Women have always took issue with the woman in their way many times more than the man themselves. EX: Cheating scenarios. So they are already just tired of the white woman just b/c she is white and then if they aren't angry enough they see black men chasing the very women they hate. Shit makes their heads pop off. But again I can understand being a bit upset about how society is but I think think it's being taken out the wrong way. I think it's utterly ridiculous to expect a black man to not be interested in other race women just b/c white men have put white women on this so called pedestal. It's ridiculous to expect all black men to prefer black women. Were human, each has there on sets of likes and dislikes. The crimes of the white man should not keep the black man from being comfortable with the person he is b/c some black women think his black skin mean they owe them something.
This if you don't prefer your race as a sexual partner equals self hate is BS. I think it's just make them feel better about themselves to think something has to being wrong with you if you don't prefer them. I've known a many of white men to prefer a black woman. Never once has that made me think they hate their own skin nor do I consider it an insult to myself. It's silly to think that way. Their human. They find some features more appealing in a sexual mate then their others. And... what's wrong with that. Some folks just don't understand what self hate is. It's extreme dislike for oneself. Something you can never "fix". And this mess about the children. Just b/c you prefer certain features on a spouse doesn't mean you dislike other features on your children or yourself. I've always "preferred" blue eyes on a woman and brown eyes on a man. I have sons and daughters with both blue eyes and brown eyes. I think they ALL have beautiful eyes. This is stupid as saying the light skin black man that prefers the dark skin black woman has self hate or that the dark skin woman who prefers dark skin men will have issues if her child came out light skin. It's stupid.
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ReginaStar said:
This guy is a fool for sure. I don't see how any man could not be attracted to an entire race of women regardless of whether it's your own race. It's one thing to not have a preference for, or choose not to date, or it just hasn't happend but there nice looking women in all races and something would have to be wrong with you if there was ANY race of women that couldn't make you go hard.
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I completely agree. I think the same thing. There are hot, attractive women in all races. And attraction is universal, it isn't limited to just one race, like some misinterpret. Primarily, I like White women and I've realized that some Asian women are interested in me also. The challenges will be the same for both types of relationships because there really isn't a big difference between the two.

But as far as the comments being made. There is alot of hostility for white women by black women. (Ofcouse not all) There is bw that convince themselves that even back in the day white women were put on a pedestal by white men. They completely ignore the fact that many marriages were the result of a young girl being married off to older man for a price. They ignore men were allowed to beat there wives to death. They ignore the fact that white women were not allowed to work therefore totally dependable on their husbands. They ignore the fact that the husband had all rights to his children so therefore a white woman could not leave her husband without leaving her children behind. They ignore the fact that white women had to watch their husbands have sex with other women including raping slaves and produce children and there wasn't a damn thing they could do about it. I hardly call any of that being put on a pedestal but I guess in the eyes of the black woman being enslaved and raped it was mighty fine pedestal to where she was at. Black women watched their fathers, sons, friends get killed at the hands of white men for even looking at a white woman thus again making them angry at the white woman when they should have been angry at the white man. It's ironic really. It's always the ww, bw, and bm, being blamed at the tension between the bw/ww but it's really the white man that has created it all.
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That's an interesting take behind it. Thanks for the history lesson, by the way. My personal opinion is that it doesn't make sense why BW don't like seeing it, but that's more-so a problem with African Americans, not really anyone else.

It's always been about how the wm treats the white woman. Their is much jealously over it. White men put these blond hair, blue eyed petite white women all over everything. The tv, the magazines, porn, etc. So all in all it comes down to anger that bw are not treated the same as the white woman in white America. Now I think there is some reason to be angry sure. I just think that anger is took out on the wrong people. The white woman is not the one pull the strings in the US. And the BM can not be blamed for it either. But they are the easy targets. Women have always took issue with the woman in their way many times more than the man themselves. EX: Cheating scenarios. So they are already just tired of the white woman just b/c she is white and then if they aren't angry enough they see black men chasing the very women they hate. Shit makes their heads pop off. But again I can understand being a bit upset about how society is but I think think it's being taken out the wrong way. I think it's utterly ridiculous to expect a black man to not be interested in other race women just b/c white men have put white women on this so called pedestal. It's ridiculous to expect all black men to prefer black women. Were human, each has there on sets of likes and dislikes. The crimes of the white man should not keep the black man from being comfortable with the person he is b/c some black women think his black skin mean they owe them something.
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This if you don't prefer your race as a sexual partner equals self hate is BS. I think it's just make them feel better about themselves to think something has to being wrong with you if you don't prefer them. I've known a many of white men to prefer a black woman. Never once has that made me think they hate their own skin nor do I consider it an insult to myself. It's silly to think that way. Their human. They find some features more appealing in a sexual mate then their others. And... what's wrong with that. Some folks just don't understand what self hate is. It's extreme dislike for oneself. Something you can never "fix". And this mess about the children. Just b/c you prefer certain features on a spouse doesn't mean you dislike other features on your children or yourself. I've always "preferred" blue eyes on a woman and brown eyes on a man. I have sons and daughters with both blue eyes and brown eyes. I think they ALL have beautiful eyes. This is stupid as saying the light skin black man that prefers the dark skin black woman has self hate or that the dark skin woman who prefers dark skin men will have issues if her child came out light skin. It's stupid.
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That makes sense. Nice picture by the way, Star. Also, the point I'm trying to make in these posts is that you can't get everyone to agree on one point or one perspective. My take on it is that you can't belittle your own kind in the process while you prefer women of other races. As I've stated before, it is just the African American community that has this issue. Nobody else (who dates interracially), is dealing with these kinds of headwinds. It's better to confront the question and solve it, rather than ignore it, like some people here have suggested for me to do.
 
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Xboxgirl said:
Yeah, Mikey makes a good point, but:
since when is "I don't even like black girls" some awful comment degrading black women? :/ It's a moronic response to assault charges and with his "She's just jealous because my gf is white" comments, he probably said it for the benefit of his extremely pissed off girlfriend rather than because he thinks it'll actually be taken as a serious defence. Not familiar with the gent in question, so if there's some backstory of him slating black women, then someone fill me in.

Also, lol. That's a pretty random thing to make up(swiping a credit card between her boobs), I think he did it and I imagine if he was single he'd own up and pay up.
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Not to defend anyone, but it's like saying "I don't like black men" because of the horrible stereotype associated with being a black man, rather is abandament of children, to crime, DL, immaturity, or anyone thing that would make a bw swear off to bm. The same stereotypes applies to bw in this case, in which whatever that has made him swear off to bw, not that I care.
 
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