Esoterik Dreadz
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So it's bad thing to want another brotha to have some standards for himself? I'd say that about any woman he was with regardless of color. But this shit is something straight out of stereotypeland.
Kirstie Alley and her new boyfriend
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pettyofficerj
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11eleven11
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If he was white, people'd be calling her a cradle-snatcher... :lol:
Honestly, I can't say I give a damn who random strangers date. I might be a little butthurt if I wanted to date them myself or annoyed if it was my friend dating someone treating them badly, but omg why do you care who Kirsty Alley dates enough to argue about it so hard?
The "black guys date inferior women" 'stereotype' only gets talked about because you let it get to you. Black men take it as an insult and so do white women. You know why no-one says "White girls date inferior guys" as often? Because the white girls that do don't give a shit if people talk about it, not because they only date perfect men(you can replace 'white girls' with any type of girls you like actually). Honestly, you all talk about not giving a damn about people who don't like you because they're prejudiced, but you think people are looking down on you for who you date and you feed it and make the same judgements as they do on yourselves and each other.
Argh, I know I'm wasting my time because this is something men do(judge who other men are dating), but it's so frustrating. Whoever asked why the fat black guy with a hot white girl isn't an issue, it's because for the most part women don't obsess over the difference in looks in other people's relationships.
Honestly, I can't say I give a damn who random strangers date. I might be a little butthurt if I wanted to date them myself or annoyed if it was my friend dating someone treating them badly, but omg why do you care who Kirsty Alley dates enough to argue about it so hard?
The "black guys date inferior women" 'stereotype' only gets talked about because you let it get to you. Black men take it as an insult and so do white women. You know why no-one says "White girls date inferior guys" as often? Because the white girls that do don't give a shit if people talk about it, not because they only date perfect men(you can replace 'white girls' with any type of girls you like actually). Honestly, you all talk about not giving a damn about people who don't like you because they're prejudiced, but you think people are looking down on you for who you date and you feed it and make the same judgements as they do on yourselves and each other.
Argh, I know I'm wasting my time because this is something men do(judge who other men are dating), but it's so frustrating. Whoever asked why the fat black guy with a hot white girl isn't an issue, it's because for the most part women don't obsess over the difference in looks in other people's relationships.
pettyofficerj
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Lol who left a rep calling me a faggot for this post?
defintiely not me. I hardly rep people on here (cause I'm lazy like that) but when I do I usually leave my name.
Thats some coward shit right there so it was probably flaminghetero
Yeah see thats the thing. They think we are being insecure or whatever bullshit but its simply us making observations. And its not a big deal to me either, in fact I find it to be funny if anything (the racial stereotypes of big ww with black men).
Well, Lippy, ya know, we can't cross lines like that. That is not a liberty that we as women can enjoy. Too many sensitive egos here. So we Tip toe through the tulips or else we will get neg repped or accused of being a black woman with a bad attitude.:smt043
LOL. ever heard of double standards
yep. it never ceases. why cant they just be happy and be done with it ?
your standards ? how about his ? Yeah I understand what you are saying....but lets not put our standards on someone else.
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empyrium
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Isn't that the truth most of the time?, are you sure it's a stereotype?, truth is, like it or not black men usually have the lowest standards of all men, you rarely see Asian dudes with old and fat white women, they either get a good looking one or just stick to Asian girls.
huh ?
karmacoma.
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Naw he doesn't want to alienate his black female audience.
its called the steve harvey-tyler perry move
if it did happened no one would say shit so why are we bitching about it
exactly, and it does happen yet its a free pass for them
Actually it is. It's none of your business. As for the other wormen here and in real life I don't care how ugly, old, fat or stupid the men they date are. As long as they are happy it doesn't affect me or reflect on me one bit. So they should have at it. Whatever they like works for me. I trust them to find a guy who treats them well.
thread shut down. no need to say anymore.
empyrium
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No one would say shit because they don't see it very often, but that's not the case with black men, you see it a lot, that's why people talk about it.
and the person is dating the bigun should care about what you think because ........