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naija4real said:
Instead of saying, "Gawd damn relationships are hella work" say, " I am willing to work at this, no one is perfect." It frames the problem in another light and nurses to life different set of emotions, maybe this might make you feel better.
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Thanks everyone for the cheering up. It's all good and Naija, 99.9% of the time I feel the way you've described (that which I've bolded). Not that I need to justify my post but I just had a frustrating day yesterday. Like everyone else, I have a lot on my plate and admittedly am a bit of a perfectionist regarding some things. Need to zen out a bit more often lol.
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Athena-I am late to this pity party as usual, lol, just kiddin'. Hope you feel better and your relationship works out for you. If not I belelive you have a big fish to fry (STEP), so put your energy where it belongs.
 
Athena said:
Thanks everyone for the cheering up. It's all good and Naija, 99.9% of the time I feel the way you've described (that which I've bolded). Not that I need to justify my post but I just had a frustrating day yesterday. Like everyone else, I have a lot on my plate and admittedly am a bit of a perfectionist regarding some things. Need to zen out a bit more often lol.
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I suspected it was a just affair, and you were exhaling briskly.

I wish you were like the rest of us, operating haphazardly, and without much focus. Operating with industrious efficiency takes so much skill and so energy tasking.

I had to put in a few words there to get you back into your regular mode. :D
 
Athena said:
Thanks everyone for the cheering up. It's all good and Naija, 99.9% of the time I feel the way you've described (that which I've bolded). Not that I need to justify my post but I just had a frustrating day yesterday. Like everyone else, I have a lot on my plate and admittedly am a bit of a perfectionist regarding some things. Need to zen out a bit more often lol.
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I too, am late hearing this. I hope everything smooths out for you.

BTW, you're not alone on the perfectionist tip...lol It's both a gift and curse.
 
OK so now that you've heard all the gushy "stick-it-out" female perspectives.

As you already know, the decision to become a medical professional requires more effort than what you've ever poured into anything. Do not sacrifice your vision or the effort you've given up to this point for anything. In the end we are the sum of our decisions and accomplishments, and being in a relationship is not a unique achievement, it's as common (and frequently stale) as the air you breathe.

Athena said:
Gawd damn relationships are hella work. I find myself wondering if it's all worth it. Damn.
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satyr said:
In the end we are the sum of our decisions and accomplishments, and being in a relationship is not a unique achievement, it's as common (and frequently stale) as the air you breathe.
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very well put Saty. I am glad I got my academic achievement b4 the onest of a dementia, lol.
 
satyr said:
Do not sacrifice your vision or the effort you've given up to this point for anything. In the end we are the sum of our decisions and accomplishments, and being in a relationship is not a unique achievement, it's as common (and frequently stale) as the air you breathe.
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I agree Saty, sacrificing my chosen career for a relationship simply won't happen. If you knew me well, you wouldn't even question this lol. I appreciate your encouragement.:grin:
 
BigBrotherWise said:
Well, there is one indicator...the shifty eyes and throbbing lips.
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Can't say that I've ever seen that, BBW.

It would be nice to ask a question and get an honest answer. Like, if you're just trying to fuck me- be straight with me. If you have interest and want to see where it goes, why can't you say that?! I'm a progressive woman- I've done the FWB things before- it's not my thing now, but at least it would give me the option of responding to what you want. I'm not insulted by it. But some people just lie to try to get someone into bed.
 
Dreaming_Blue said:
I will truly never understand the male mind. Truly baffled.
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these words always seem to slip from my lips as well db...!!! and they have the gall to so that we're hard to understand...!!!!

Dreaming_Blue said:
Can't say that I've ever seen that, BBW.

It would be nice to ask a question and get an honest answer. Like, if you're just trying to fuck me- be straight with me. If you have interest and want to see where it goes, why can't you say that?! I'm a progressive woman- I've done the FWB things before- it's not my thing now, but at least it would give me the option of responding to what you want. I'm not insulted by it. But some people just lie to try to get someone into bed.
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oh, i so co-sign that...
 
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