Whn you did have plantations women couldn't own anything other then a stick of gum and a few family air looms.. You cant just say that the only guilty parties on a plantation are those who own the plantation. You got people being treated as cattle, people being sexually assaulted, im sure that White woman took her frustrations out on the slave when she gave birth toa baby lighter then her own ass. The KKK has the position of High Impress and has for most of its history, and etc.How can you say he is not interested in an interracial relationship? We all like White girls but at what cost is too much is the question you make me think about. What you said is akin to telling Muhammed Ali or a Black Panther that he was a hypocrit because he spoke the English language instead of Igbo or Yuruba. Thats lke saying to a golfer that you are surprised hes into golf at all because of segregation at golf course country clubs. Wat you said is on par with the "your trying to be white" nonsense the Black bookworm had to put up with in school. It shouldn't be Black or books, or white girls or honesty about controversies.. At this point the only parties that are still culpable are a few companies and the federal government. A Black man can say that without looking for a hand out, being a hypocrite for having a white girl, and being a whiner or player of the race card.
I have dealt with white women who could never had been apart of the Black races enslavement and oppression, and some who probably wouldn't be opposed to it. No matter what type of White girl your with you must ask yourself if she'd even give you the time of day or treat you with any respect if it were 1937 or 1910.. The whites of that era can't retroactively be givin morals by your white girl or the whites of today and we are all going tohave to accept that a lot of people have scores to settle with our government, some just some not and that with this country being reformed only formally in 1965 and with it being 234 years old the list of those with grievances is quite long..
Wait a minute every single race on this planet does the same thing. Blacks, Asians, whites and so on celebrate the positive side of their history. All races and ethnic groups ignore the evil committed by their ancestors.
A strong white woman would not be guilty she would assert her common ground with you as a woman and extend commendation to those who you criticized, assuming you were right. Not get either too PC or pull some doggone bullshit talking about the statute of limitations and how she was born in the late '80s and didn't know and blassai blah. If your intent was not to make her feel guilty you dont need to apologize or drop the cause you need to clarify who or what you deem responsible and how shes not at fault. Thats the MOST YOU CAN DO without comprising your standing or principles just because you are so elated to have that white girl.. I love white girls to but not speaking my mind is at to great a cost.. Its not like Serena Williams or Keri Washington don't do nothing for me at all ya know..?
I see now, your one of those types that is more concerned with the ramifications of his statements then the accuracy of his statements. You need to worry about whats right and whats wrong not whats unifying and whats divisive.. And that logic extends FAR beyond the debate on slavery..
Being angry about Jim Crow doesnt make one a victim. Does going to a hospital for a broken arm make one a baby? Does going to a food pantry for the first time ever make one a defeatist? Regardless of who is or is not alive the aftershocks still have an impact. Wealth is passed down in America. The slaves got the old plantation then it was given bk to the master, youhad the ex slaves being oppressed with Black Codes, then i the 1880s you had the government try to council out the scores of Black workers looking for work by importing the much touted eastern European immigrants. Those immigrants were to my great grandfather what todays mexican is to your white ass and hell even my Black ass.. I dn't know if your white though..? Eitherway the government wreaked havoc against the Black community in the military, with he G.I. Bill, poll taxes, the bombing of east st. louis, the tuskigee experiment incident and etc.
Basically to put this in perspective thats like telling Rodney King that you believe in the merits of his civil suit against the LAPD but he should still drop it because as a resident of LA they still patrol the area he lives at, the citizens of LA who did not beet him may have to pay higher taxes to help the dep. pay the civil suit judgment, and that a rookie joining the force years down the line may have to take lesser pay the his predecessors because the LAPD is STILL paying off the legal fees and judgment..