Bookworm616
Well-Known Member
Be careful. Those types seem to loooove pulling out the "you're playing games omg" card.
If you're anything like me, you're pretty open with your expectations (I certainly know I was)...and regardless of how honest I was men still accused me of playing games and being dishonest. lol Especially if they thought they were getting laid and were turned down. Men who think they're gonna get laid and then find out that isn't even what you were going for get pissed really easy.
Just be careful. Some of them are nice, and some of them aren't at all. Some are desperate for love, others for sex, either is just plain uncomfortable in your situation, honestly, because desperation just makes things awkward. Not to mention you might get one of those pitiful "well would you at least suck my dick" retards like I did. It's amazing how they act like just because we have vaginas means we owe them something, sometimes.
LMAO at the sucking my dick comment. Wow. I haven't even met any of these drama "queens" and they're already acting like this. It's crazy. This last one who accused me of playing games, I was already on the fence about him, and this was enough to put me on the "not even want to be in his presence" side of the fence. So, I sent him an email and explained that I'm clearly not the woman for him and that he needs to give women like a day before he starts pulling that shit (I didn't say it like that), and I wished him good luck.
So far I've met one guy from that site and it was a wonderful experience and continues to be a wonderful drama-free experience. Fingers crossed it remains that way!! :smt023