When you joined this forum - what was your story?

Tomorrow is another day.

 

Are you saying there is hope even for Me?

 

Yes! But you have to have faith. And then you have to start finding women willing to join in your pursuit.

You can do it!! :smt045

 

To dream the impossible dream,
To fight the unbeatable foe,
To bear with unbearable sorrow
To run where the brave dare not go;
To right the unrightable wrong.

To love, pure and chaste, from afar,
To try, when your arms are too weary,
To reach the unreachable star!

This is my Quest to follow that star,
No matter how hopeless, no matter how far,
To fight for the right
Without question or pause,
To be willing to march into hell
For a heavenly cause!

And the world will be better for this,
That one man, scorned and covered with scars,
Still strove, with his last ounce of courage,
To reach the unreachable stars

 

Sorry, somebody beat you to it.:smt042

 

Dang skippy! Go for it. Make this your mantra! Never give up the dream!! NEVER!!

 

Alright, if you say so Dulcinea!

 

It's alright, that look like the ugly version of me, so there still hope for moi.

 

That´s good!!!

Never give up your dreams... one day, one day....

 

I came across this site after doing a search on interracial dating message boards. Also, I was actually hated on by black message boards members for my views on interracial dating so I gave this site a chance. Some of the topics and members here are very smart, funny, and outgoing.

 

..which is one of the reasons why many of us are here now...

going onto a black message board and admitting you like IR, is like painting a bulls-eye on your back.

 

You're right, I was put through the ringer on Black Voices. I've been into interracial dating/marriage since the 80's. Yes, I'm an old head...lol, so seeing and reading some of the comments on this board is refreshing.

 

Holy Hell I don't even remember when or why I joined.

I became close (for the internet) friends with a few people here but they hardly post anymore

Wait I had to use the Media Center to advance past Tony Perkins on the Ed Show, I almost spit up my brownie...

I digress -

Well I was single then, single in the middle and single now. Kinda like it that way on one hand and growing more comfortable with it and on the other being unhappy with my recent dating track record that the hopes of being married with children is becoming less and less likely with an American born woman which means taking drastic measures...

Been in several IR's and all have gone as well as they should have.

 

I joined because I had a serious crack habit.:smt042

 

I was involved with a white girl I knew from high school.

 

I have joined many years ago because I was looking to meet some nice people overseas. It´s hard to find black men in my area of Germany. Since I started dating black in the 70th it has never changed.

 

just looking

i've been in a couple of relationships with white women. they've been cool. i am a bm attracted to wm.
i joined another site but the emphasis was on serious relationships. i am not against that. if a casual relationship turns serious i am okay with it.
i have not joined yet. i just wanted to know if the site is for real.

george

 

1. What was your "status" when you joined up? Single
2. What were you hoping to get from this forum/site? I was told by a senior member there some interesting threads on this site and I would appreciate this alot.
3. Has either of those changed since you joined? Nah not really hey who knows anything could happen

 

1. single.
2. curiousity..i will only date black men..and cant find any good ones but imma keep trying
3. no nothing has changed..cause i can't really figure this out.. how to talk to peps

 

1. Single

2. Just some guidance and advice from my fellow ir peers.

3. To early to tell since i just recently joined