Nero
First of all you're a minority. The number of rich bm in South Africa these days can make 1/3 of entire white nation. I'm a decent man a lawyer by profession in S.A and a nurse that is studying further in America. I know the concept of a man must provide, I also know the concept of gold digging, there's a difference there. I have a friend in Durban that is engaged to an Indian girl. A ww can date a not so rich asian than a rich bm in S.A and in the US ww date Hispanics before bm. It's the issue of color but white people find ways to justify it.
I grew up in one of the dangerous neighborhoods in Port Elizabeth surrounded by tarvens and clubs everywhere and I never get robbed, stabbed or shot and I have University education and all of my friends are like me and we grew up in the same neighborhood. They were never stabbed or shot as well.I have two brothers who are still alive and were never shot and they're not thugs on top of that. I'm not saying people are not robbed, stabbed or killed but the percentage is exaggerated. The reason why it's exaggerated, it's because white people want to indoctrinate their kids that it's dangerous in the black townships they must not even set their foot there, so being with a bm it's not an option. I like it when white people say apartheid was bad, but lets move on as if nothing happened. You know in my township, every weekend there were funeral of people who died during the week, about 40 Saturday and 40 Sunday in my township alone. About 80 people every weekend. You say that's nothing let's move on. I moved on but I'm still traumatized to this day and you're telling me that we were never victims. If not, what is the definition of killing unarmed innocent man, who's the victim and who's not, because within the two there's a victim and there's a bully and in this situation black people were the victims.
When I was in high school, there was a friend of mine that was staying close to the school. He had a dog and his dog was chained most of the time and in our townships we put a long wire and attach chain on that wire so that a dog cannot pass a certain jurisdiction . His dog will bark everytime we're there, we used to teased the dog by standing next to the end of the chain. It will come to us running and we knew it'll stop close to us. One day we didn't notice that the chain was broken and the dog was free. It came to us running, we didn't run because we didn't know that it was free. To our surprise it stop exactly at the place were it normally stop when is chained. We noticed later thay it was free. The dog thought it was still in chains, it didn't understand that it was free because it is used to the chain and the jurisdiction thereof. That's the mind of black people in S.A. You can't destroy people psychologically and you think by a piece of paper that say you're free, automatically all the trauma and hurt will vanish or be reversed. It's a psychological issue, a piece of paper that say FREEDOM or DEMOCRACY cannot cure that inflicted sickness. My friend who put the chain on that dog was laughing and surprised at the same time that his dog cannot pass the jurisdiction of the chain, forgetting that he's the one that put the chain and set that jurisdiction. That's what white people are doing in S.A. They're laughing at black and say they have victims mentality forgetting that they're the ones that created it. Apartheid was the system that was studied and approved. People who came with system travel to all the countries that owned slaves studying their method of control including Willie Lynch who wrote the letter to the slave owners, explaining his method of making slaves. He further said if this method is properly applied it can last up to 300-400 years. You still going to see generations of black people like the ones you're seeing now, unless that individual decided to free one self.
I can agree with you only one thing the messed up leadership that you have there now.
I'm still saying it, I'm willing to spend time with ww because I enjoy their company the same way I enjoy bw.
Nero! Can you date a S.A bm?